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Sexual Health I just cheated on my boyfriend?
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I’m super duper drunk right now and I just cheated on my boyfriend. I made out with two guys and one fingered me and I sucked their dick. I’m so drunk and I wanna kill myself. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and I’m scared he will break up with me. I’ve been dating him for over a year and I wanna be with him for the rest of my life. Can we work through this or are we done?
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31 57Imagine being in his place. I could never forgive anyone this. No reasonable person would give a chance.
First off anything is possible. But here is the thing it’s best if you told him and faced your consequences. Main reason is because you don’t want to get invested anymore then you already are and have shit hit the fan. The level in which you cheated is quite heavy seeing how it was two at one time. Tbh I think it will be harder than usual but at that point you will damage him more to have him find out through people running their mouth. (Because everyone has at least one person they tell)
Tell him what happened.
Tell him you’re sorry.
Answer his questions.
Give him the option to leave you.
Don’t tell him if you’re so concerned.
I can’t lie. I AM doing to tell him
Do as thou wilt. Good luck
You have 2 choices.
Drop him.
Never, ever tell him.
You put yourself in the situation. Drunk is not an excuse. Try telling a judge you’re innocent because you were drunk and see a how that works for you
I don’t think so, you’re obviously not sexually satisfied with your boyfriend no matter how u feel about him.
Otherwise I wouldn’t have cheated.
Does he know? You could not tell him.
Question is if you love him so much hoe did you let this happen?
the least you can do right now is be honest with him, you owe him that. Leave it to him if he can forgive you and work this out or if he wants to end it
I'd dump you on the spot. You dont cheat on someone if you love them
Tell him you cheated and then leave him he deserves better.
Also don't kill yourself suicide is never the way.
Good luck.
That'd be a wrap if you were my girl friend
wtf
maybe i'd keep you around for easy sex though and dump you when I found someone that knows what real love is - not sure
Well obviously you got some deep rooted issues that therapy can only help check it out honeys but dont blame the alcohol that was a threesome and it happens so what just let the boy free tho.. u human stop beating yourself up
Well if he's smart there is no chance. But who knows you might actually be able to convince him it was a one time thing and will never happen again.
You should quit drinking alcohol.
couldn’t of said it better myself. no one is going to give sorry for you, you put yourself in this predicament
u just gotta tell him what happened and see what happens
Nope, not a chance, you should just save yourself some time and break up with him.
You typed the story pretty well for a super drunk person.
Feedback please
I would honestly tell you to own up immediately to your boyfriend and tell him how sorry you are and possibly even that you won't drink again. Tell him you mean the world to him and how hollow you feel now. Make him understand that this will never happen again and that you desperately want to work this out with him.
Be prepared to see him hurt by your actions to even have him shut you out while he figures out which end is up.
One can work.
But he deserves better...