Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I confess I have never had sex, even though I am 28. I would call my self an average woman, fairly attractive who takes care of her body, mind and appearance. But I need to have some kind of emotional connection to get horny. And I felt it with this guy whom I met before Christmas. So I was a virgin, but willing to do it with him. I was not playing games. But I wanted to be honest before and told him I have never done this, so If I seem nervous it is not because of him, but because of doing something for the first time. I was not making it a big deal. He said this is so weird and what problems I have? I said I have no problems, I am fine with doing it. But he kept saying it must be something there. We stopped seeing each other.
Before you ask, yes, we talked about our intentions. We both said we wanted a serious relationship. I feel worthless, ashamed and hate myself right now and all the girls that are better than me. I feel like I will not date ever again to not get through all of this one more time.
What Girls & Guys Said
5 34Well darling I have to tell you something I was with some one and I have not even had been with any other female in that kind of work
Pffft, he's the wrong guy for you. You dodged a bullet. Anyways sex is only part of a relationship. Find someone who is into you for you.
I'm sorry. I'm a virgin myself. I would never dump you for being "sexually inexperienced", as long as you didn't do it to me
Sounds fake. No guy would say no to popping legal cherry
To have good sex it's takes to people talking trust comfortable and confident with each other. So who is really to blame. Don't put yourself down 50 /50 clearly not person that's right for you
I’m so sorry. He just wanted to pop your cherry.
sometimes being too honest cost a lot, you did mistake and you are responsible.
Dm me i need to talk
last thing you would expect to happen to a woman unless she is saving it for marriage
I’m surprised you didn’t tell him in the beginning that you’re a virgin, maybe he would have had more patience and understanding, probably not used to how you acted because he was with experienced women. Not sure why he dumped you, maybe you weren’t dating that long. You can still find other guys that are patient
That is strange, I would prefer a woman that has less experience, especially a virgin.
I am literally on a bus full of guys and they all said they would prefer not experienced.
Were you saving it for marriage for a while?
It’s not fair but some people do make assumptions when you’re still a virgin at that age. They believe there must be something wrong with you because no one voluntarily holds out that long. Those people are ignorant. Please don’t hate yourself over the shortcomings of other people. You’re a woman with virtues and that is to be commended. Don’t let this experience hold you back. You deserve to find the right guy who appreciates you. Just know that you’ll probably have to endure quite a few idiots before you find him. That’s kind of the nature of dating. Think of it as a selection process. You’re the prize and they must prove their worthiness to you. You really have the upper hand if you think about it.
so, in your opinion a girl who is a virgin may be problematic. Yes, I read the rest of the text, but even though you did not mean it like that, I lost little hope I had. If you found out a guy you are dating is 28 and never had a job for example, is not that even more problematic? but no one cares about this, it seems
If a 28 year old has never had a job, many people are going to assume he’s either spoiled rich or a lazy bum. They make assumptions, which may or may not be fair based on the circumstances. I think you’re kind of in the same predicament. Some people just can’t fathom a 28 year old virgin. They assume there must be something about you that makes you undesirable when, in fact, you’ve chosen to remain celibate. It sounds like this guy you posted about made a faulty assumption about you. Don’t take this explanation to mean all people do this because they don’t. Some men may see your status as endearing and desirable. The older people are, the less likely they are to be a virgin. So don’t be surprised when you run into a guy who makes a false assumption about you. Understand where it’s coming from and move on. Life is too short to dwell on the unfair things you can’t change. You have to keep chasing your own happiness, or you’ll never find it.
That's a new one. Usually for most guys, NOT having experience is a positive, unless they're the "hit it and quit it" type of guys. Maybe you dodged a bullet.