Guys, I know it's wrong, but I want a masagonistic yet caring boyfriend. Do guys like that exist?

I know it's really weird, especially since I'm a liberal feminist. I work two jobs, and I pay for everything. I'm strong willed and don't let people push me around.
But there's also this secret side of me that just wants to be submissive to my boyfriend, and basically just do whatever he wants. Like I wanna cook for him and clean for him. I want him to punish me when I'm "bad". I want him to look down on me but also treat me in a tender loving way. I wann dress cute and girly. I want to be his sex toy and do everything possible to please him Sexualy. As much as I hate to admit it I want to basically be his property.
I'm slightly disgusted with that secret side of me he doesn't know about.

Are there any guys out there who find this type of relationship desirable, or is this a major turn off?

Should I keep this desire secret from him?
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  • nope.

  • what's masagonistic?

    • She probably meant a Masochist. Also known as getting off when you yourself are in pain

    • Or misogynistic

    • oh OK I don't like pain the only thing I would do spank her hard till her cheeks turn red

  • nice thoughts
    and don't keep secrets in such type of relations you want

  • Yup. We sure do ;)

  • So what exactly is it that makes you a liberal feminist? What you are is a normal woman with normal urges. You're not a feminist.

    There is nothing wrong with you and there are plenty of men who would fall in love with you in a heartbeat.

  • I'm the same as you (but I'm a guy)

  • It is. There are various types of BDSM styles.
    I'm into DS and just because I'm Dominant it doesn't mean i have to be an asshole. Its all about mutual respect and communication

  • Maybe hook up with Charlie Sheen