I like to suck cock, but I don't find men attractive at all. Am I bi?

Question

I like everything about women. With men, I only find cocks attractive and I love sucking cock.

frostwalrus · Accepted Answer

I keep stumbling upon these "I like dicks but not men" questions so I'm just gonna repost what I've posted from another thread:

"Penises are a powerful social tool in the animal kingdom among certain species (among which include humans) that indicates dominance and sexual interest. The sight of a penis within proximity of a woman can trigger sperm competition cues in the minds of men and trigger sexual arousal. A large penis can be so erotic and masculine that the very sight of it can emasculate certain men and induce sexual attraction to it. It's a surprisingly common yet not spoken about phenomenon. You're like the 20th guy I've encountered on this site alone who has said they like dicks, but not men. It's a very common thing, look up "orally bi". "Big Cocks" is among the top 10 most popular categories among men so there is probably a significant percentage of men out there who are attracted to penises, but nobody can admit it or even consciously confront it due to internalized homophobia. And these same men would likely suck a dick if they knew there was a sure way to do it without anyone ever knowing about it (unlike homosexuals, nothing stops bisexuals from passing their bi genes down so an abundance of closeted bisexual/semi-bisexual people in society is not unthinkable).

I'm not at all bothered it (in fact, I enjoy it). But if you're bothered by it, I'd recommend abstaining from pornography involving men. I think you can effectively live life as a heterosexual like all the rest so long as you don't see any dicks."

An article on this:
https://www.yourtango.com/experts/dawnmichael/straight-man-has-penis-fetish-cuckold-relationship

MountAverage · Accepted Answer

Is it that you just don't want to be romantically involved with men, or do you also not find them sexually attractive at all, aside from their dicks?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Bi.
Sexually attracted to men but don't want a love relationship with them.
Sexuality is a spectrum. Some people are completely straight or gay and then others fall somewhere in between.

You just need to be honest with the men you do this with that it isn't going to go any further than sex so there aren't any hurt feelings along the way.

It, also, means you will have to be honest with the women you are involved with.

And you will have to decide what this means to you whether you want to be monogamous or in open relationships.