Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I lost my virginity recently at my current age 22 years old but why do some people feel the need to judge you for not waiting till marriage?
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I totally COMPLETELY respect people who have certain beliefs with marriage and sex after, loving that person at least before sleeping with them etc but i felt ready in my heart to have sex and it sorta was a random hook up but i dont have any regrets because he was cute and he made me feel comfortable the entire time. I notice girls losing their virginity at 13 years old or 15 so so young and i feel like as almost im being treated like a child when people say stuff because im a woman and it's my body and my individual choice. I dont get why society thinks they can come in sometimes and force people to do what they believe. I do believe in God and i am spiritual but i don't see what is so bad about sex. It's a fun, enjoyable act. I feel like the more people try to pressure or make others feel bad it makes you wanna do something more. My dad wanted me to wait for marriage but i honestly could not do that. I wanna make sure we have that romantic spark before i marry a guy and i believe marriage is a beautiful thing but look at all the failed marriages these days because people are doing it out of family pressure and society and they dont take enough time with relationships and getting a divorce is more expensive at the end. Once again i am NOT judging i just don't understand why people make it a huge deal if you chose not to wait😞
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 28Because religion, that's why. The worst thing ever invented by man. Do this this, dont do that, think like this, don't think like that... Ugh. Religion makes things worse in the world.
Fuck what others think !
they have too much free time , thay aren't capable to do something more productive
The only opinion that matters is yours. Ignore others.
They are just overreacting over something which is none of their business.
If a person wants to have sex, they can, as long as they are not hurting anyone or passing around STDs or later leading other people on.
If such a person meets a potential long term partner, they should just be honest about their past so that the potential partner can take an informed decision.
That's all. No need to fuss about it
Who cares this is your life live it how you see fit
I can't respect people who wait till marriage
Why do even people know about it. You should be and do what you want. So.. don't give a damn about what othees think of you. Live your life the way YOU want to
Good luck , girl
You Will get answer by time...
I see nothing wrong with this
It’s none of their business, most people have sex before marriage and have been since before that institution existed
I’m waiting til marriage, but I don’t judge those who don’t wait. I think it’s a personal choice and as long as you don’t judge me for waiting til marriage then I won’t judge you for not waiting til marriage. Honestly, you shouldn’t care what other people think. If you’re happy with your decision then who cares?
Well if you don't tell people, nobody will judge. Nobody's business but yours.