This is normal but it's also ridiculous and pathetic. I did have something somewhat similar happen to me. I lost a little bit of weight and started dressing fancier again and the toxic person wanted back in. I'm not sure why but when you get a toxic person out of your life and you do better for your self, they act so thirsty and want to be around you when you've changed in appearance or attitude. Talk to him again IF you want to, but don't consider him anything more than an acquaintance.
1 0 0 0Not surprising. Its kind of pathetic actually.
Good for you though for calling him out.
Also I applaud you for exercising and being happy with your life :)1 0 0 0
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He's not worth your time. He's shallow. If anyone comes back for someone after they lose weight, then they only care about appearance. I'd just reject him flat out if he asks you our or even for sex. Why would you want to be with someone who only cares about how you look? Let him go and move on. There's way better guys out there for you, especially ones that want to be with you for your personality, just like it should be.
1 0 0 0I already did reject him. I was just surprised by this behavior
If you truly believe that's the case I'd say no. Dude sounds shallow as sh*t.
0 0 0 0if I truly believe what is the case?
That he's decision to make amends is solely based on your weight loss. Idk, seems wrong to me.
well I haven't spoken to him in two months. when he blocked me and didn't even talk to me about it, I just let it go. I know he was always attracted to me since we hooked up for so long but seeing as to how the only thing that has changed in the last two months, aside from not seeing each other, is my appearance...so what else could it be?
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1 0didn't want you then, can't have you now, enjoy it. consider it karma pay back.
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