First of all I applaud you for being so strong and having that will power I couldn't do it you're stronger than me I was 15 and a half almost 16 when I lost my virginity had to be honest with you within a week. Of time I did it three more times it wasn't until the fourth time when I figured it all out the first three times I was so disappointed and I was actually upset because I thought I was going to go to hell and it wasn't even any fun LOL but anyway
I have talked to a few girls about this situation and I understand the reasoning behind the marriage deal and waiting for so long but what I don't understand is why they don't buy toy or I should say have the internet and you can do anything why not experience something did it so beautiful you can talk to anybody you don't even have to let them know who you are and you can experience something so so very beautiful and actually feel it as if you're actually having sex by doing low play or even phone sex phone sex is even harder because you can feel the energy through the voice and I guarantee you you would have the best orgasm a better orgasm than in real life some people will say bulshit I can prove them wrong and I have but anyway buy toy experience something that way you're not out with some guy you don't know he's not going to break your heart you're not going to get pregnant but at least on the internet you can feel something that is so beautiful and special if you find that right person they can take you there so you're smart all the way around you're thinking way ahead and I think that's a beautiful thing I hope you stay smart like I said if you want to experience something to this totally unreal beautiful try it on the internet that way you don't have your heart broken if you get a toy it's even better then you could be talking to a guy on the internet and using the toy but how he would tell you to use it how he would make love to you that's even hotter feel like I said I applied you I said good job I look up to you for being so smart about this whole thing you should try role-playing or phone sex sometime it is hot very hot
So… I don’t know if you know this… but using a toy won’t make you loose your virginity. That only changes with a man. But it will help you understand your body better. I would highly recommend a toy! At least one. Lol! I know some girls that have eight or ten. But their boyfriends helped a bit with that. I would recommend a little bullet vibrator a glass or Stone dildo and a glass butt plug. And then if you want go up from there to big vibs and dildos. But also don’t loose hope that some day you will get a man of your own. It may happen some day!
Thank you for the MHO!
USE THOSE TOYS. Using toys you can gently over time stretch your hymen instead of having it popped all at once. By starting with small toys and working your way up to something bigger but comfortable. And who knows you might not have a hymen not all virgins have a hymen so a hymen doesn't necessarily make you a virgin what makes your virgin is never being with a man. you might have already lost your hymen naturally growing up I'm sure you've ridden a bike I'm sure you've played on a seesaw I'm sure you've played on a rocking horse etc all these things might have worn it out during childhood but that doesn't change the fact that you're still a virgin even if there is no Hymen. Theoretically if you do take your own hymen it doesn't matter because you still haven't been with a person so you are still a virgin. You actually end up doing yourself a favor by removing that blockage because when you finally do get to lay with someone you don't have the discomfort holding you back and you can simply enjoy your first time. My first time was horrific I certainly had a hymen the guy who I thought I was in love with and dated for a year and finally decided to take it all the way wasn't patient I ended up sore for an entire week needed ice packs could barely walk the following day it was not pleasant at all I honestly had debated on taking my own I had played with smaller toys but I thought it was a big deal to have a hymen so I never went bigger. BIG BIG BIG mistake I should have just gotten rid of my hymen myself if I could go back in time I would A) take my own Hyman and B) dump that idiot because I met my true love right after that fool and I would have officially lost my virginity to the person I truly loved without any pain.
Thank you for the MHO 😊
I mailed a sex toy to my buddy on this site. She was a poor single mom, and she couldn't afford to buy one on her own. She lived in a small town, and the dating situation was dismal on a good day.
It was a deluxe model that could be recharged via USB. She said that when she tried it her head about exploded. She had an orgasm in less than a minute.
Every boyfriend I've had has bought me toys. Don't settle for an insecure loser, get a real man.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Definitely use your toys. There's no reason to worry about what someone you haven't even started dating might think in the future, and I don't think I've ever had a guy feel bad that I had any.
Any guy worth having would not hold you having sex toys against you. Most would love it and love helping you with them!
guys don't usually care if you play with toys ill be honest a lot of guys don't care if you use toys while dating them, a lot use toys while doing stuff together... I don't necessarily think toys affect anything... majority of toys r meant for solo play anyways, that's what they r there for
Learn about yourself. It makes you more comfy and confident around others.
What sex toys? some can tear up your hymen, the proof for your virginity.
I just bought a sex toy and I'll receiving on May 26.
A 5-inch realistic pink color penis 💞
If you are talking about a dildo longer would have been better. You need to use part of it just to hold it, leaving less to go in. If an external vibrator it is good, but no reason to look like a penis.
@Red_Arrow 💞💞
That's your call entirely. If you want to see how things feel, grab a beginner's toy. If you really don't care, then it can wait.
Don't people use toys when they have sex sometimes? I would just do it if I were you.
Thoughtful selection and application can acclimatize you to your first time.
Why would he feel bad?
Because he didn’t break me in first
Don’t worry about that. It’s better if you learn your body and what feels good
Your future partner will want the honor of "popping your cherry" so hold off breaking it if you can.
Ya that’s what I thought, but a lot of people are saying it doesn’t matter so I don’t know, don’t wanna come this far to ruin the surprise I guess
Trust me, keep the surprise for your future partner whether that be a boyfriend or husband, your choice, but let a partner do it rather than an unfeeling object.
If you can't wait for one you love, then find a willing partner that you trust to be gentle to take it for you.
Wait until after you’re married
I'm a virgin, and I want my wife to wait for me. But I don't care if she masturbates. That's not an issue at all.
Think of yourself first, get some toys and have fun...😊
Why wait?
Wait because u ruin urself. Then when it really happens, ull be numb to the idea that fake is better.
Most guys don't care. And if he does, he's probably not worth your time anyway.
I'm 33 and still a virgin. I wish I wasn't but, I'm really picky, to the point where I just can't seem to find what I'm looking for
It's your decision. My girfriend used her hairbrush as a dildo before we had sex
You will enjoy it more when you wait.
Wait to loose your virginity in what way?
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