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Sexual Health I'm afraid to have sex because of my vagina?
Anonymous
hello, do I want to ask a question to men about something? my boyfriend and I have an extreme skin harmony and I think we will get into a relationship soon, but I have questions on my mind and I suffer from a lack of self-confidence. i am a girl with white-auburn skin, but my vulva is darker than my body, and therefore I am afraid to be with my boyfriend. What do men really think about this, and do you pay so much attention during sexual intercourse? my body, my breasts are fine, but do I care about my vagina too much?
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 28That is not a problem
No problem. That’s normal. My cock and balls are darker too. Not really the focus when you’re fucking.
I wouldn’t be able to answer I’m still a virgin at 30 years old. 🤦🏽♂️
How it feels matters more than how it looks.
"my boyfriend and I have an extreme skin harmony" WITH does that mean?
"and I think we will get into a relationship soon," You call him your "boyfriend" but you are not in a relationship? How does that work?
"i am a girl with white-auburn skin, but my vulva is darker than my body," Not unusual at all.
"and therefore I am afraid to be with my boyfriend." I doubt this is the reason for your fear. Are you a virgin?
"What do men really think about this," We think almost nothing about it, like "oh, that's interesting" and then we move on to something else.
"do you pay so much attention during sexual intercourse?" No.
"my body, my breasts are fine, but do I care about my vagina too much?" What is it that you are REALLY worried about?
Trust me, he will not care about the color of your vulva.
Just be glad you're not a guy asking about similar insecurities, bacause the responses you would get from girls would be nasty and judgmental and would make you feel worse, not better.