I'm bisexual. My boyfriend wants a 3some. But I'm in love with him, I don't want anyone else. Is it a fantasy or does he not want me anymore sexually?

[Anonymous]

[Paultripp]

He does, and h wants to explore that experience. He is hoping that because you like girls it would be more likely. It's better to have a threesome where she is into the other girl than not. But, to your point girls tend to like the situation when not in a relationship. If you don't want to share him at all then just tell him that. Most common reason they don't happen...

[KeiranByrne]

You might not want anyone else but if he's a normal male he'd want to be there when you're with a girl. You are bisexual, but even so you are entitled to be selfish.

[hannahbanana11]

It's a fantasy of his but if you want him and only him you are within your rights to not want to do it.

[Jockfulcrop]

maybe you don't please him enough sexually or he just wants want excitement in you guy's sex life

[abacusgenius]

It's a fantasy. Just be honest with him, if you are only in to him, adding something else could damage that relationship

[D1991F]

Obviously a fantasy and if your bisexual he thinks the ideal won't turn you off. lol. Just tell him no

[TheFinalFrontier]

It sounds like a fantasy. It seems like people assume bisexuals in a relationship would be much more happy to do a threesome.

[ExperimentalMale]

I wouldn't do it, it could ruin your relationship.

[LastNightmare]

it's fantasy

[scooogy]

If he wanted a 3some without you, wouldn't he then left you first to find that other girl he'd want to have sex with?

[Rubyroo2016]

I would say it's probably just a fantasy. Most guys have one. I would explain that to him and maybe you two can talk it out. Hopefully all works out.