I'm eager to learn and make my partner's experience enjoyable. But i don' know how to give head. Tell me!! As I embark on this new aspect of intimacy, I'm seeking tips and techniques to ensure a confident and satisfying performance. It's important to me that our intimate moments are mutually enjoyable and comfortable.
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The only begotten bastard child of Lord @bean2k21 named @BoobSlayer already answered this question that's asked very frequently, and it was cited already in new "duplicate" posts. https://www.girlsaskguys.com/qt/sexual-behavior/q5065348-why-do-so-many-girls-on-here-ask-how-to-give-a-blowjob
Well, I'll tell you what I like so maybe it'll help. When a girl is giving me oral I like to be sitting with her between my legs. I want her to play with it, rub it and kiss it for a while. Always making eye contact. Then I like her to cup my balls with one handed, while using her pointer finger and thumb to wrap around the base. The important part about putting your mouth around it is putting your upper liper over your teeth and then stick out your tongue. Please the tipe on your tongue and slowly allow the rest of my shaft to enter your mouth, keeping eye contact. Also, breath out your nose. It feels so good as you are sucking it to have that air come out and hit the pines and the top of the shaft. You want to take as much of it in as possible, so relax your throat and see how much of it you can take. Then when you get as much in your mouth as you comfortably can bring your head back slowly while doing a sucking motion like you are eating a juice Popsicle, use your free hand to go up the shaft. Dont let the tip out your mouth. Then repeat, always keeping eye contact. Every so often take your mouth off and stroke uo and down and smile at him. Also, it can take like 10 minutes, so make sure to be into it. The more into it you are the faster he will finish. Also, humm on it every once in a while while you are sucking it. Also, all guys like a girl who will let the finish in her mouth. You don't have to swallow, but after he unloads all guys like to see there cum in your mouth, so open up smile let him see it. Then decide if you want to swallow or spit into your hand.
There's no one way to give head. Men are all different and unique. The best advice I can give is to observe your partner and make adjustments based off of body language, groans, gunts, shifts etc. And your first few times with him are going to be awkward. Thats just how it goes. But if your patient and you both communicate, you'll be having fantastic sex. Good luck, be safe, and remember to use water based lubricants.
Here is the advice I just gave to Sarah66
The 100% best way is to get at least 3 different size penis dildos and practice with them. You can coat them with organic eatable lube that will make the taste great.
Start with the small one and work your way up until you overcome your natural GAG reflex which most of us have.
Now you will start out with him as a 'Expert' ... lol
Have fun!
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As a guy, I would say, verbally ask him if he is enjoying it whilst giving head and how to get his juices flowing. Every guy is different and all lollipops come in different sizes, shapes and are circumcised or not. He may be hairy or shaved and their might be an odour or not. He may enjoy it more whilst standing whilst others enjoy it laying down. He may want to be in control whilst others you can satisfy easily. Enjoy the moment together rather than receiving tips and portraying a picture in ur head as to how to satisfy him. If you come across too experienced, it can backfire with him believing you had been with others before.
Have patients, take your time, do only what your OK to do and be alright to saying no if you he takes it to far.
Go back & read my post long ago about this very topic. I have a sure-fire way to help you gain confidence & improve all around your oral skills!
performing sex is easy all animals can do it. stop listening to people who say its hard. they are bluffing.
Confidence is all on yourself, my best advice is don't think too much, overthinking gives a lot of problems while making out and it makes you uncomfortable, so do what you think you want to do to him and then get in the mood, let the passion flow and you will be great! And trust me if you're having fun, he will enjoy it as well if he cares about you
To me there isn't the one technique. But one advice, do it with pleasure, and not giving just to give. That makes the difference. You can watch porn clips there is many things that a man would love for sure.
Use hands, in all areas around the penis, testicles and inner thighs. If you don't mind in receiving cum inside the mouth, say to him while doing it. (I remember when my wife said that to me in the car, I was like 🤯🔥). Use tongue and suck gently if want to endure pleasure.
Ps: what works to some couldn't work to others. Best way is learning with the process. We don't expect girls being top professionals, we only want to feel pleasure in the end ;)
Just make sure to keep your teeth out of the way because blowjobs with teeth can hurt is painfull I found out 🙈
I think the most important thing is communication during the sex. Everyone is different so just tell your boyfriend that he should guide you when he likes or doesn't like something 🤷🏻♂️
Are you looking for a "how to"?
Finger up the bum, he'll love it
Make love to his penis. Kiss, lick and suck it just as you would making out with him, and you’ll be fine. Don’t feel you need to deep throat or choke on it. The best oral doesn’t have to be the deep. Do try to keep his head in your mouth, and keep licking the underside. If he’s larger use one hand to stroke his shaft while lick and suck. Use the other to caress and stroke his testicles and also his perineum between his testicles and anus, which will stimulate his prostate to coax out even more semen. Once you’ve mastered the basics and want to get fancy, you can experiment with how far you can take him inside, trying to stimulate him with your throat, you can let him use your mouth like your vagina, thrusting inside you, and if you’re both brave, you can slip a finger in his anus to find his prostate from the inside for an even more explosive deluge of semen. It about celebrating and wanting him, and worshipping his masculinity until he gifts you his essence.
Looks like your guy has something going on 😊
Mind your teeth. Scraping them is not a pleasant experience.
You can practice on me and I'll critique your technique! Jk I mean I think it's kinda straightforward just use your mouth and tongue and make noises. you know blah blah blah
make sure you enjoy it for yourself first. make the experience about you. make sure to lick the head and play with his balls too. start slow and then adjust according to his moaning. you can tell him beforehand to let you know when he is about to cum, if that makes you unconfortable
Use your hands to wrap it around properly and go in circular motion while using mouth. Look at him. Show him (non vocally) how bad you want to do it. Do it like his di*k is not his anymore and its yours if you know what I mean. There are many different ways but there is no way this could go wrong as long as your teeth doesn't irritate the top. If you still didn't figure it out, maybe watch Asa akira's bj stuff. She is usually pretty good at it
3 things if you use it will help you.
1) give him bj slow motion with tongue and have him close his eyes with something
2) then when his hard enough slide ur wet pussy in while his on his back so it a cow girl position. Each for first timer n guys love cow girl position.
Then if he eats u out without him taking his blind off feed him ur wet pussy let him eat u out while riding him.
Last go to backward cow girl and finish
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