I'm regularly having casual sex with my son's friend. It's great for me/his friend, but I sometimes feel guilty. Should I stop?

Im regularly having casual sex with my sons friend. Its great for me/his friend, but I sometimes feel guilty. Should I stop?
I've been having casual sex with my son's good friend for the past month and a half (he and my son are both 23 and I'm 45 by the way). On a completely selfish level this is a pretty great thing for us. Neither of us wants a committed relationship (at least right now), we both still want to enjoy sex, and we get along pretty well. Moreover, he's got this chiseled muscular body and is pretty incredible in bed (better than anything I've experienced in an extremely long time). We both know it's never going anywhere beyond non-committed sex hookups so we can just enjoy sex without having to worry about anything else along with it. Additionally, the fact the arrangement is so taboo/'wrong'/can only be known between us makes the sex that much better. Additionally, it's pretty great for my self esteem. I recently got divorced. There was a lot of reasons for this, but my ex husband basically 'threw me away' after he got bored of me/lost any attraction towards me. It made me feel old and undesirable/unattractive. Maybe that's dumb, but it did take a strong hit to my self esteem/confidence. However, having this incredibly sexy much younger guy lusting after me so intensely and absolutely craves to have sex with me over and over and over again (when he could be doing the same thing with any number of hot young girls his age) has given me a huge confidence boost.

With that being said I often do feel pretty guilty about this. I know it would really, really, really bother my son if he ever found out. I never want to do that to him. I've thought many times of stopping (even though I'm really loving it). However, keeping it a secret from him is pretty easy. Moreover, the relationship isn't ever going to go beyond casual sex. Consequently, I think we could do this potentially for a long while without him ever knowing or being affected by it.
Still, I often feel guilty. Should I stop or is it OK to keep this going?
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  • Is he a minor? No? So why the guilt?
    Are you working with him? Is he your student? Patient?
    Then just relax.

  • That sounds so hot to me! Keep on doing it and have fun in your life. You don’t need to bother about others. People will say anything, it’s their job. Don’t listen to them. Make yourself happy with that sex!

  • I understand you. After your ex lost interest in yıu, and that guy has interest in you made u feel so hot.
    Im sure u are hot no matter that guy wants to have sex with you or u got divorced, thats not important
    But it will not go anywhere since he is your sons friend...

    • Once he found out that, can u imagine what could happen? He wouldn't see you as his mom like he sees now Well i think u should choose one option between sex with ur sons friend, or not lose ur son

    • by the way you can give me a follow so i can text you if you dont mind

    • Listen to me, i think u should quit being with him :)

  • Don't listen to the female opinions here.

    You just enjoy it. It's none of your son's business. And maybe I could join you guys and make it a threesome lol.

  • what? that's not his friend rather fake friend, no friend goes behind his friend and fucks the friends mom... disgusting

    broke the bros code

    hope your son finds out and burn you alive

  • As long as you're single.

    I'm doing the same with step dauggter her best friend. Only in my case my wife knows.

  • Your bad mom

  • this is a time bomb.

  • Why are you feeling guilty

  • Keep going and continue this arrangement.
    Some points to take care of.
    Never let your son know about this.
    Make sure your son's friend take that care too.
    Now enjoy yourself hottie.
    Dm me I want to ask something, some similar situation. It will be helpful for me.

  • What have the world come to?

  • oh hell, go for it. you only live once. bet your Ex would be jealous if he found out.

  • your sex life enjoy its fully, dont think too mcuh about others.

  • Quit the guilt, enjoy life, he is an adult

    • But what if my son found out? It would bother him a ton. He'd probably feel humiliated and resent me.

    • Then quit, your choice, you have done no wrong

    • But why worry about your son, i bet if he could get a woman your age he would jump at the chance

  • Whats his age? You can include your son as well so he might not left out

    • In her text she said both are 23.

    • As in the son and his friend.

  • Stop trolling.

  • Jesus. I feel gross after reading this. I knew people could be absolute terrible pieces of shit, but you really are a cut above.

    Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is looking. Obviously you see nothing wrong with what you’re doing, because you prefer good dick over having a shred of integrity.

    I hope to God your son finds out. Maybe he’ll beat the shit out of his friend in anger. Or maybe Mr. Superdick will let it slip about how he’s drilling his friend’s mom over one too many beers. But of course that’d never happen. And maybe, just maybe, if you’re really lucky, the two of them will get into a fight and your son will get his head cracked open.

    But hey, your orgasms and self-confidence are what are important. It’s not like there are billions of other dicks you could choose from.

    You disgust me.

    • What are you talking about? Would you say the same thing if a father was doing the same thing with his daughter’s friend? You are so mean.

  • Not at all. I don't have a son, but I do partake in getting gang fucked by much younger guys. My husband travels for work and doesn't have a clue.

    • Jeez. I fee really bad for your husband. You don’t believe what you’re doing is wrong?

    • @WhiteBoyChill the real question is why do guys keep marrying Jada Pinketts

  • Nothing wrong with it, have fun while it lasts, I guess some day you’ll want someone around your age too

  • Keep raging on

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