I'm scared to put my finger in my vagina while masturbating?

Okay, this going to sound weird. I know that I'm young. I have needs to though. When I masturbate, I could only rub my clitoris. I'm scared of breaking my hymen while masturbating. How can I stop being being afraid and do it? Will my hymen break? Please help me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, you probably broke it a long time ago if you're a physically active person as a child up until now. Like if you play sports or go rough housing or adventures and such. So you shouldn't let your hymen worry you. That's such a small, thin, piece of skin that you would think you scratched yourself or something. Plus, if you are on your period and have used a tampon, I'm sure you've broken in this way as well.

    Anyhow, you shouldn't be afraid of your own body. How else are you going to know what your pleasures are if you don't explore yourself? Especially for women, since your bodies are a little more complex than men's anatomy wise and pleasure wise. Also, you have a lot more stimulation areas inside of your beautiful walls and it will only add to the pleasures you are experiencing now, I would assume. It's only a mental block I believe for you. Just try it and see what happens.

    • So I just stick it in?

    • LOL... Well not very eloquently put, but yeah just STICK IT IN!!! No but seriously, it's your pussy. You should know what it feels like first and foremost because your attached to it for the rest of your life. You may find out that you can't resist STICKING IT IN after you do it the first time. I'm telling you, there's something to this penetration thing because even Lesbians want penetration.

  • If your hymen were to be about to break during finger penetration then you'd likely feel it, it's unlikely to break without any resistance or discomfort. With that in mind, you should be safe to try putting your finger inside and let the discomfort be your guide. If it feels painful then you can stop.

    Why are you scared of breaking your hymen? Are you aware that your hymen can break through other activities than masturbating or having sex? Your hymen being intact is no true indication of virginity anyway.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't worry. I masturbated with two fingers inside me long before I lost my virginity, and I never broke it.

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  • If clitoris play works for you, stay with it. Deal with your hymen later.

  • Open that pussy and just do it.

  • I dont know much about it but i would say, its going to break at some point
    plus i saw in other comments that its pretty far up there so you should be ok
    i do have a question though why would you want to put fingers in there i heard that only rubbing felt good

  • your hymn is a ways up in there so unless you have abnormally long fingers you will be fine

    • So I should do it?

    • go crazy and have fun