Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I matched with this girl, and she very quickly wanted to switch to text, and almost immediately started sending me nudes after that. We set up time to meet up this weekend, but as time has gone on, I am feeling less and less interested... partially because I don’t find I’m as attracted to her as I was initially, and the other reason is she seems to be moving very fast. If I don’t respond, she will send follow ups asking if I think she is cute, and add more pictures. If it was purely sexual, I would feel less uneasy, but she seems to be getting attached really fast. None of this would bother me that much if it was someone I knew better, but we have only been talking about 3 days.
It just makes me nervous because if we end up hooking up, I am not really up for a relationship or anything for a number of reasons... I just don’t know if I should actually meet up with her or not. She did give me an out. She seems like she is real, so I’m not worried about that as much, but still. Have you ever had someone move really fast and it turns you off? Should I meet up with her to see how it goes? Or are there too many red flags?
I matched with a girl on tinder and she almost immediately started getting very sexual and it has turned me off? Should we still meet?
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20 42Meet up and have sex, never speak to her again.
Dosnt sound like she wants to date, your good
I got turned off a lot in that regard, but maybe I'm just too chill for shill
Yea, I have never been big into hook ups, normally I try for something a bit more meaningful, but not right now. And this just made me a bit nervous
Maybe she has a few skeletons in her closet. If I met a girl online and did what she did so quickly I would wonder why? You should (better) check her out on google before the date.
I wouldn't meet her. She sounds very insecure and it's likely that she's catfishing you. Stay safe. Women can be crazy too.
If you're attracted to her then why not smash? Just make it clear that you don't want a serious relationship.
Dating sites are for losers. You'll see.
Isn't that the whole idea of the app?
Maybe she thinks that what you want to hear. However if you're not feeling her anymore, just let her know. No reason to force yourself into going on this date.
If she made you uncomfortable, no dont meet.
if she makes you uncomfortable tell her, maybe she is not sure how to handle the situation, maybe she thinks thats the way you want her to act, so tell her and see what she says, you can then decide for yourself if you want to meet her or not
It sounds like she is both 1) desperate to get laid and 2) subconscious about her looks.
If you're worried about an awkward situation, I would recommend asking her what's she's actually looking for. But I doubt she even knows, tbh. It doesn't sound to me like she really has her life together atm.
Hello, Tinder IS a hookup site and she obviously just wants to get laid. So stop overthinking the situation and just go for it, or stop using Tinder.
three days is way too quick
I'd meet her and see what she wants.
This looks to me like a screaming Red Flag. Listen to your heart and back away.
If you are not comfortable dont bother.
Man, just go out with and and send me a hi in private 😂 i have some fun in mind
A friend of mine broke up with a girl because she wanted him to move in with her on day 3. That was way too fast for him.
Nope. She looks desperate and thirsty af.
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Why tf would you even consider meeting if she's turned you off?
I wonder this too. The same can go for women.