Most Helpful Guys

  • Hating yourself for anything is unproductive and unhelpful. Teenage sex includes many mistakes, fumblings, pain and embarrassment as well as tempering the ardor for experience. The first time I had sex was when I was 13. The cherry popping was painful and a bit bloody. The real fun was going down on her and feeling the immense joy that comes from bringing pleasure to someone.

    Sex in my 20s and thirties was much more eye opening, experimental and physically satisfying as I men girls capable of very many multiple orgasms. Because I had many different lovers, I came a much better lover. I still prefer to bring an attractive woman to orgasm orally more than just about anything.

    If you are capable, willing, and comfortable with receiving pleasure in many forms you can more than make up for it now. Good luck and more.

  • I lost my virginity at 25. Looking back I am also disappointed that my sex life started that late. I have also lost several years of my sex life. BUT, on the other hand, I didn't get any pregnant and didn't get an STD, so even though it sucks, I'll take it.

    • That sucks

Most Helpful Girls

  • [ I'm a girl, still can't change the settings UGH ]

    I started my sexual life when I was 17 but now that I'm 20 I can tell you that the only thing you can regret is that you maybe started late but ""teen sex"" is good only if you're already "skilled" and your partner is good enough. So, 16 or 21 doesen't change who good sex was, bc sex is always good in some circumstances.

    • Why don't you just deactivate, and create a new account? You haven't been here for a long time, so you can...

    • @JoyGirl yea but I have a question open and I don't want to lose it, I tried to contact the "admins" or whatever and maybe they'll change it for me ahah

  • Me too, I lost my virginity when I was 20. It's not a big deal; it was the right time for me. I'd rather have the experience I did have, losing my virginity to a guy I'm in love with and us sharing that, than lose it younger to someone else when there wasn't anyone I really wanted to lose it to before my boyfriend.

  • Young people, please don't worry about being a virgin through your teen years. That's actually a good thing. Early 20s is a better time to lose your virginity. Just be sure to lose it well before marriage, not afterwards. In the mean time please watch porn and masturbate.

    • Why is that a good thing?

  • Back in the 1950's teens never had sex. This is a total new thing in society. I say its normal for teenagers to not have sex since teenagers aren't emotionally ready yet.

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  • do you mean you wish you had sex more in your teen years or the opposite?

    • Opposite

    • I feel like im wasting it for being in a steady relationship

  • Why do you hate yourself?

    • I was a virgin for too long it messed me up for life

    • I'm sorry

    • It's not ur fault

  • You regret having sex?

    • Not having sex

    • Oh. Too bad.

  • Now realize that you also have evaded teen pregnancy and lots of potential STD's and think of yourself how much of a responsible teen you were :).

  • I was 17 when I lost my v card. Sex as teen isn't that great. Sex is better as you get older

    • Not for men it goes downhill every year

  • Teen sex isn't very good at all, most people say.