I plan on abortion, should I tell my ex im pregnant (it's his) ?

I don't feel its necessary to tell him because we have a toxic relationship. I don't want a child and he probably won't either, especially by me. But my family is presurring me to tell him about it. Should I?
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  • Get a boyfriend and say it's your new boyfriends. dont end the baby's life. he won't care about any of that

  • No, just sue him afterwards.

  • If you're not considering his input, and aren't going to have a future with him, it's hard for me to see what good comes from telling him.

  • so you ae planning to slaughter your child? what do you expect? my support?

    • it is negative for a child to grow up feeling unwanted in his mother's womb by its mother herself, and also in a toxic envionment. but if it were toxic why did you open your legs to him in the first place? this "you are a free woman and its your body" this dumbazz below says, has nothing to do with reality, this is separate lifeform living inside you. its not for you to decide if it leaves or not. break up if you want but dont kill the child. give it to an orphanage if you dont want to grow it.

    • We have a toxic relationship but it's not entirely bad that's why we were together. The "lifeform" is in MY body I can do whatever the fuck I want with it. Just as you have the right to shoot a person that unwantedly enters your home. Even if you've left the door is unlocked. Bottom story, I'm not bearing a child just for it to know it wasn't wanted. Ridiculous, I was passed around as a child. Its not fun knowing your parents don't want you.

    • its not but have faith in a human's inner strength. i've seen orphans becoming great and loving humans, as for the analogy you used it has nothing to do with reality. its another psychosomatic being that happens to live in your womb currently. you have no power over it. its like saying your landowner can kill you at will. the fact that it doesn't yet have the vioce to protest doesn't give you that power. if you have this dominion over it what makes you different than nazi killers? its just another form of fascism and bullying on the weaker and innocent.

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