I sent nudes to my best friend’s boyfriend, I don’t know what to do?

Yesterday, my best friends boyfriend asked me to send him nudes because he have a small crush on me. I sent him nudes. (My best friend and his boyfriend were officially dating about 3 days ago) I feel really bad🙁 we have been best friends for 4 years. Do I tell her the truth?
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He didn’t saved the photos or took screenshots, thank you for your advices😕 some of them are making me feel better.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes you need to. Because if something is going wrong, your best friend boyfriend can use that excuse against you and you can't do nothing about it. You'll lose your pride and your friendship at the same time.

    Just tell her the truth about her boyfriend asking you for nudes and apologize to her for being inconsiderate, i'm pretty sure if she's your good friend she'll probably go ape shit for 5 hours or maximum 2 days and then she'll return to her normal state.

    If he's dating your best friend and can still asking you for a nude pic doesn't mean it's kinda fishy? And you have to be sure that he did not screenshot or save it because he can use it to blackmail you. I think you need to stay away from that guy and keep an eye on your best friend.

    Small crush and already nudes? Zettai yada.

  • He did not save then? Most guys do, but swear blind they deleted them. In effect, he was cheating on his girlfriend. You were part of that cheating. I hope your friend does not find out, but in case she does at some time in the future, YOU should tell her now. it will be a whole lot worse if you do not tell her.

  • Do you not have a boyfriend of your own that you could send them to?
    Oh and you need to be completely open and honest in telling your "friend" and the sooner the better.
    Some friend you've turned out to be. smh

Most Helpful Guys

  • If it were my friend, who was a guy, I'd tell him. If your friend is a girl, who you suspect may freak out, but the boyfriend never saved them or whatever... no, mention nothing, erase it from existence, and just work on being a better friend in the future ;)

    • Thank you😄

  • You are a truly shitty best friend, you are selfish and you don't deserve your friend. Her boyfriend doesn't deserve her either. You and this guy should hook up, you are both shitty people.

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  • What were you expecting to get out of this? 🙈 Now you probably ended your and your friend's relationship as well as her relationship with her boyfriend. This has to be a troll. No one is this stupid.

  • no guy will ever get rid of a nude on purpose lol. sorry to say but you are a bad friend, and he is a bad boyfriend

  • Yes. she should know that his boyfriend is a fuckboy.

  • Yup. Right that Karma.

  • If it was a guy that was not attached to a friend of yours, I would say you did nothing wrong. But doing that with you friend's boyfriend (even if not your best friend) is wrong. Save that behavior for guys that are not attached to your friends.

  • With friends like you who needs enemies? Wow

  • Yes tou tell her the truth

  • You made a stupid decision. Why would you send your best friend's boyfriend nudes? Yes, tell her the truth, and admit that you made a mistake. Aside from putting your photo out there in the irretrievable, you obstructed your friend's trust. You've known her for 4 years too.

  • God, what kind of friendship is this? I don't honestly know what you can do about it.

  • Sloots gon sloot.

  • We always take screenshots and save nudes. Just hope you have some weak nudes

  • Omg you definitely don't have girl code. You have to tell her

  • You're a real messed up friend. Tell the truth.

  • as a real best friend you should tell her the truth, you can't build on a lie... and her boyfriend asked you to send him nudes... it sounds not like you wanted to steal her boyfriend... but you need to apologize...

  • That was a poor choice. He asked but you shouldn't have felt for. it

  • Sorry but this but you are not a loyal friend

  • nudes are not a big deal dear.. just ignore

  • You're a horrible friend. wow.

  • Yeah tell her

  • Lol boys are dicks, id advise you to tell ur best friend before the guy uses the photos to threaten/manipulate you in the future

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