best thing is to do it to him, that way he will know what it feels like and will be that bit more gentle on you.
first step is to prep, both of you, you can't just shove a cock in your ass, real or fake, you need to build upto it, start with small butt plugs and work up, you can normally get them in packs of three. different sizes,
when he is getting the strap on make sure he gets one the same size as his own cock that way it will be fair lol
don't worry about using a strap on on him, if he wasn't up for it he wouldn't have said yes, guess what, when done right it is actually enjoyable, for males anyway, most females that i have heard of find it ok but would say it is much in the way of pleasurable, just try it and see0 0 0 0If you're against having anal then don't do it. Just tell him the truth. You're not comfortable with it and you asked to screw him with a strap on as a joke because you never thought he would actually agree to it. You shouldn't do something sexual if you don't have a desire to do it.
1 0 0 0I will have to have a talk to him. But I'm kinda leaning to giving it a go. I do like to make him happy
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With anal, you really don't want to start with a strap on. Unless pain turns one or both of you on. Start with a finger and a lot of lube. Maybe a small plug. Being relaxed is key; if you are anxious about it, it will make things more painful. And if you aren't comfortable--for the love of cucumbers, speak up, woman! He's your lover. He wants to be open with you, in more ways than one! If you can let him stick something in your back door, you should be able to tell him you are hesitant about it. If he loves you, he will want you to be comfortable and not feel pressured. Who knows... you might even like it, and it could bring the two of you closer together.
2 0 0 0Well we are both not interested in pain but we both like to turn each other on. I guess I'm gust going to have to talk to him about it. I'm sure he will be gentle and all, he is my husband after all. Can't hurt to try rite
Have you tried a strapon?
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0 0 0 0Have I got the article for you to read:
jezebel.com/.../if-you-want-a-more-thoughtful-boyfriend-try-pegging-him0 0 0 0Just let him do you anal, you're his wife. I've fucked women I didn't even know their names in the arse.
0 0 1 0Well I guess some people like to know who's fucking them
Oh no, don't get me wrong. I knew them, I just couldn't remember their names.
Come on, be a soldier and do it. It could be fun as fuck, you guys are married, so this type of freakyness is inevitable.
Also, props to your husband, that man is a trooper.1 1 0 0Yeh he is. At first I thought he was joking, but when he said he was ordering one I was like, wow never saw that coming. Going to be an interesting chat with him
If he's willing to take it up the ass, as a MAN. No reason you shouldn't be down for it as well.
Would you let your girl do it to you?
Trying new things in the bedroom is very important to keeping a happy and healthy sex life in a marriage.
That you're even agreeing to try all this is a big plus, even if it ends in disaster.0 0 0 0I don't think CIA would need to know about your sex life anymore...
0 0 2 0It could be painful. Is he well-endowed?
0 0 0 0If you're willing to try either of those things then go for it I guess, but don't do (either) if you're not comfortable with the idea.
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