I think I'm um.. afraid to have sex. I'm a guy?
But now I'm starting to think it wasn't really procrastinating, and its more that I'm afraid? I've always thought "It's going to be awesome when it happens" but then whenever I actually had opportunities, I sort of felt sick and afraid. It kind of pisses me off, because I don't like being afraid of anything. And also, I don't want to lose it to someone I want a relationship, because girls think a little bit different once they know I'm a virgin (in my experience). I also want to know what I'm doing before that point also, but I also don't want to lose it to someone who means nothing to me because I'm very afraid of possible pregnancy (even tho I'd wrap it and pull out, still afraid tho) and also STD's. I think I have valid concerns, but I think I'm also overthinking it too much. I have anxiety, so I do that too often.
I'm just tired of being a virgin, but I don't know how to go about doing anything about it. I always find a problem with whatever possibility I come up with. I'm fairly confident and can attract girls sometimes, but if I succeed, I draw a blank and can't think of what to do next. I'm the only one I know who's still a virgin, I've been for a while and it is starting to unnerve me since I'm 20. I feel like I should have lost this years ago, but I didn't. Any advice? Don't care if its good or bad, let me know lol.
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