I think I turned lesbian, help?

I rarely find men as attractive as before and i watch a lot of lesbian porn, does that mean I'm a lesbian now?
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  • Geez. I’m seeing more and more girls asking this nowadays. I think it’s because homosexual activity is not only accepted but encouraged and glorified.

    I know lots of straight girls who watch lez porn. What’s even more odd is I often see lesbian girls saying they like gay male porn. I guess we all got our different tastes.

    I think you are more turned on by the fantasy of having somebody who intuitively knows what you wants. Much easier for a woman to be in that position obviously. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t men out there who can be like that.

    I confess I’ve been addicted to porn since I was a teenager. Exclusively lez porn from 18 on. I also don’t like women being penetrated. I only like it when they are just using their mouths.

    I one day questioned myself of why I feel that way. I often feel ashamed and creepy about my fantasy. I read a theory that when men see two women having sex it’s a strong signal they are ready for sex. But still it’s an experience I will never have unless I could be mystique from X-men.

    Anyway I want to quit porn. It has given me wildly unrealistic and impossible fantasies about sex. It’s made you question your sexuality. This can not be good for anyone. Sex is something human beings need to naturally figure out.

    • Very well speech..

    • @Zach1457 thanks

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  • doesn't mean you are lesbian exactly, do you feel attracted to women? when you are around women are you turned on more?
    if not then no... if are you may be bi or lesbian... or the type of guys you see around could just not do it for you it may be different where other guys might be concerned

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  • You do not turn lesbian and your preference in porn is not the same as your sexual identity. If you start to find women attractive and you fall in life perhaps you were always bisexual.

  • Yeah you need to try dating a women first to see how you feel most likely your just bi

  • Not if you have to ask

  • You will never know until you try. Until then, don't worry about it, it's just a label.

  • Your are bi curious I guess.

  • Why worry either way? You have your own life to live as long as you feel proud and food about yourself it doesn't matter.

  • I don't believe so I think you had a stage in your life that you are testing your boundaries your sexuality there's nothing wrong with it from what I gather those people don't think twice about a woman that is bicurious.

  • probably

  • Honestly, I think its very normal for most girls to find girl on girl hot

    MOST GIRLS I speak to are that way

    I think most girls are Non-heterosexual
    most tend to fall under the "Heteroflexible" or bicurious.. bisexual.. or lesbian :)

    nothing wrong with it

  • Maybe try going a few dates with both guys and girls see if that what you really want

  • Not necessarily. You may just be bi. I'd say be happy to explore a new interest.

  • No, but you probably are bi curious. So consider experimenting.

  • I don't know how you feel.. But no, lesbian porn doesn't make a lady lesbian. But nothing wrong with beeing that way though.
    Who knows, maybe its more awesome and right for you. Anything is fine sis.😘😍🤪❤💙💚🧡🤍🖤🤎💛💗💜😇😀

  • Bi or bi curious.

  • Its not looking good. Its a spirit behind you that trying to sexually pervert you.

  • Thats cool. Im a lesbian. 😎

  • Help? Do you think it's a problem? I don't think it is.

  • Probably. Is it a problem?

  • Help I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans body. No for you it would mean when you fantisize which sex are you fantasizing about that would help to let you know

  • no. only if you have a relationship with a girl you will be a lesbian

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