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Sexual Health I think my boyfriend would like a blowjob but Im 2 shy?
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K... First of all, Just don't judge me.. Pleassee... :) Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we luv eachother so fuckn much.. We do have sex- but when we do, we dont go hardcore or anything like that-Its just plain, casual sex/making love most of the time and we aren't big on oral.. So.. My bf's like a really sweet.. really deccent guy, so anytime we have sex-he lets me have my own way.. He doesn't even force anything and even in our first time-he didn't ask me out, he waited tilll I was ready.. Sometimes tho.. "occasionally" he would lick me through my panties (dont get me wrong-I luv it..) but even if he does that to me- I never had the guts 2 really do anything 2 him n (he never asks me 2).. as in- I'v never given him a blowjob or anything.. I just find it reaaalllyyyy embarrassing... But all guys like lowjobs.. Handjobs or just anything which feels good right? Do u think I should give him one next time? What if I messs up? I need help... :( And does it make me a terrible girlfriend 2 never have given my boyfriend any oral sex even if he does?
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(19)Wow and this guys still around? Damn he really does love you but look if you know he's sweet and sincere and cares for you and youve had sex then you shouldn't be embarresd you should be very comfortable with yourself being around him plus come on youve been together two years
Look start off easy just grab it and play with it trust me there's no "wrong way" to give a hand job (unless your wearing spiked gloves lol) remember he's YOUR MAN you own him its your dick and when you get the courage to go down on him just dont use your teeth
Than you so much.. I 'll make sure I'd do that the next time.. :)
I agree with country dude. it is much nicer licking a girl without the panties. You could even nibble her clit then as well. As for the blow job, if you want to blow him but stay shy, make sure it is super dark the first time, it helps a bit, anyway according to the wife. She was also shy and because she decided to take that step and go down in the dark. . . ;-)
Sure you get the idea.
Yeah.. I know but.. Im guessing what he intends 2 do is 2 take off my panties but he does know im a bit umm.. I get easily embarrassed.. he's a very good guesser.. so he won't do anything 2 make me uncomfortable.. The next time-I'll make sure I let him know that its ok if he takes off my panties.. Thanks for the help.. :)
close your eyes when he goes down on you, apparently it helps for the first time. reassure him that it is okay to have him lick you without panties as well. ENJOY;-)
it would be nice if you return the favor but don't feel like you have to. only do it when you are ready to. and of course he will love it there is no way to mess up a blowjob
He'll probably love it, and even if you're inexperienced as long as you make the effort, and respond to what he enjoys (you'll be able to tell) it'll be fine
What? Sorry couldn't understand your writing.
2 years without a bj! I would drop a girl after the 3rd or 4th date if she didn't blow me.https://i.imgur.com/p7E99Nb.jpg
Well I guess my bae loves me 4 me-not 4 sex.. :P
I like the word bae. Lol
Lmao XD Same.. :)
First off, calm down. If you're nervous then you'll mess up. Second, ask him about it. Maybe a passing mention, maybe an actual conversation. See what his reaction is. If he wants one, then try it. Let him know beforehand that you don't have much experience with it, and be calm and ready to learn. Then I'm sure it'll work out.