Being nervous or scared can really change how it feels. Sex is mostly mental, not physical. Sometimes when stroking my penis it can feel like stroking an arm, 20 seconds later when my mind relaxes it can feel amazing. Sex is weird that way. Don't think one experience defines sex as a whole, it never does. Also, try stimulating the g spot. Its a little bump like thing that feels more rough than the rest of the vagina, up towards your pubic bone (towards your stomach side) if you curl your finger. Look up a diagram if you need help. That's the main pleasure center of the vagina besides the clitoris.
0 0 0 0Well, to counter with an uncomfortable question: were you sexually aroused? If not, you probably wouldn't feel anything. Same applies if you are too young. People touch their genitals almost every day, in one way or another, and it's usually not in a sexual way. I don't have any lady parts, but I believe you shouldn't feel much if you're not "into it", like the way people don't get aroused at the gynaecologist.
0 0 0 0Yes, I was aroused. I wouldn't have tried it if I wasn't, in the first place. Damn this is hard to talk about with a guy
Then don't think about me as a guy, just someone with experience. People like different things, try something else or do it in a different way. I can almost promise you it will feel different when being with someone else.
Yep, thanks. Honestly, the first thing that came to my mind when I realised that I feel no pleasure is that I won't be able to fake orgasms with a guy. Sounds like my acting abilities are lame too.
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Yeah. It feels good when I touch my clit but not hole. Fingering myself feels kinda good but barely. I think vaginal sex would feel good for us though - but I'm not sure cause I'm a virgin.
0 0 0 0Join the club. Vaginal penetration does nothing for me either. In fact it's just annoying. My clitoris is where all the action is. That's one reason why I like oral sex so much. :)
0 0 0 0It'll get better as you learn. Trust me , I was the same the first time I fingered myself.
Don't worry about it right now0 0 0 0I don't, but it's kinda weird.
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2 6Some girls get little to nothing from finger penetration during masturbation, you're not alone with that. It doesn't have to have any bearing on how penis penetration will feel to you.
0 0 0 0step one in having good sex is to know your own body and what you do/don't like. you also only have feeling 2 inches deep in the vagina. my girlfriend doesn't feel it unless I use two or more fingers
0 0 0 0I would recommend seeing a doctor.
0 0 0 0Your clit is your pleasure centre, not the hole. Try rubbing instead. I'm sure the girls on here will be able to help out more than a guy, though.
0 0 0 0I don't need masturbation tips, I know how to use my clit. It just worries me that I don't feel anything.. you know, down there.
You don't feel anything in your clit? I thought you were talking about inserting fingers inside. Your clit has got 8,000 nerve endings in it. The hole hasn't got any, really (Due to it being used for child-birth) Maybe see a doctor if there's no feeling in your clit.
u have nothing wrong in ur lady parts... but u should feel like having sex at that time...
better luck next time... post it experience too...
tq0 0 0 0how can you feel uncomfortable if you ask anonym?
0 0 0 0just keep experimenting.
0 0 0 0I feel the same way, don't feel anything when I rub my clit either
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