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I was masturbating to porn after my partner and I had sex and it played over the bluetooth speaker and he heard! He is not talking to me what to do?

So, when in the mood and really horny I like to orgasm more than once. My partner knows this and I will usually express my needs during sex. However we hadn't had sex for over a week because he'd been ill. I was super horny but got the vibe that he wasn't in the mood so after he had cum and went downstairs I wanted to continue the party and go again so I put on some porn. I heard the speaker downstairs beep and the next thing be comes upstairs and said are you watching porn I can hear it downstairs! I was mortified! I explained what I said above but he said how can he trust me and called me a sex pest! He has really gone on the turn, I understand that I might have hurt his pride and that he wasn't enough but that's not true. Am I a disgusting sex fiend lol what shall I do!

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  • Enjoy the calm. You have every right to pleasure yourself. He will eventually calm down and talk to you, and when he does, reinforce him with words and actions that he does pleasure you, you enjoy that, but sometimes you like a little more.

    Right now, he's feeling inadequate. Let him know that's not the case. But first, give him time to calm down and let him come to you. Don't go to him.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You've been deceived because you don't realise porn is demonic. You will never watch it again when you realise how many suicides, trafficking, grooming and abuse that happens to some in it. Some women said that some of the scenes in it were rape.. It attracts demons to your life. Your partners response isn't helpful but at least he is not fooled by porn like most of us (I used to be fooled by it too). I suggest you find a better outlet that doesn't involve that filth!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him next time you will work on his pipes instead. Promise.

    • lol most simple answer

  • You are 52 and doing this teenager crap. Jeez, grow up!

    • WTF.. why you bringing up Age its sexual pleasure may be you lost your pleasure or feelings at 35 doesn't mean other will has to be lost at 35only

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  • No it's not a big deal, he's exaggerating

  • . . .

    • Sorry I had a long answer, but it got lost and I can't recover it.

    • Ah that's a shame i would have liked to have read your opinion

    • Basically, this is his problem.
      He's choking chicken too when you're not there for him.

      I am reminded of Richard Pryor's bits about fucking from his 1979 concert movie "Richard Pryor: Live In Concert".

      "And you can tell when you done made good love to your woman, right, because she will go to sleep. That’s when you really are [singing] macho man. [Singing] I put your ass to sleep, I’m macho man. But if you finish fucking and your woman want to talk about computer components, you got some more fucking to do. "
      scrapsfromtheloft.com/.../

      The video is on Netflix, I believe. The transcription doesn't do it justice.
      To give you an idea, this video is about 15 seconds later.
      https://www.youtube.com/shorts/XDI4fy09R_U

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  • If you have sex with your partner and then turn around and masturbate and watch porn then you have a problem. You have some porn problem, it is unhealthy and it will damage your relationships.

  • I mean if he don't meet ur needs on to the next one, sorry for being blunt. But ur happiness is important

  • How in the world was it playing over a bluetooth speaker? 😂

    • Don't I know 😫🤭 My phone was connected to the speaker cos I was listening to music earlier. I had the sound down on my phone when I was watching porn 😬 but when he went to listen to music he turned the sound up on the speaker and heard it. 😱

    • "I don't know" 'proceeds to explain how I do in fact know" 😂

    • I said “don’t I know” ie how embarrassing! It's my bad grammar

  • Simple mistake - he's probably feeling like he isn't meeting your needs

  • you're 52 with a partner who's solution for relationship problems is "Not talking to you"? my condolences...

    • I know exactly!

  • No. You are ENTITLED to climax (es) and if the jobs not done to your satisfaction he has hands and a mouth to help! Tell the fragile petulant child to grow up and get in the game.

  • I think he's overreacting and definitely being egotistical. Your reason is completely legit, and I think he should be more understanding. If it was me, I'd be more angry at MYSELF that I couldn't satisfy you

  • He will get over it, it’s not like you went out for sex with someone else, you were still horny and he wasn’t feeling good so you took matters into your own hands. I wish I had a woman that was always horny

  • Try communicating

    • I have 😔 He’s sleeping in the other room and said to fuck Off

    • You should have communicated your needs prior, and he should be able to hear you out. Sounds like an immature situation

  • It is the male ego that you polked. It is as fragile as an egg and does not fix well when broken. He should know how to get you finished before he cums.

  • Next time you watch porn tell him and maybe invite him to watch it with you. Thrn he knows and you are giving him the choice to see it with you. You could also turn off bluetooth connectivity when you watch porn.

  • If he was through for the session. Would he have been agreeable to stay around and watch you pleasure yourself? I don’t understand his reaction unless it made him feel less of a man because he didn’t satisfy you.

  • Tell him you need more than one nut. Shit, I'd love it.

  • And he didn’t back to help or join? How rude.

  • Laugh it off and move on. It's not like he's never watched porn and masturbated

  • so you mastrubate? thats good. everyone deserves alone time

  • If you are having a orgasm I'm meeting your needs for the next few days

  • No problem. Don't think too much of it , say a sorry , give a kiss and move on.

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