Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Ideas to spice up my sexual life with my boyfriend?
monaflowers Xper 3
So my current boyfriend is slightly more on the vanilla end than me and I don't know how to ‘slowly’ introduce him to things (as well as I’d like to mention I’ve always been more submissive than dominant) so how do I pull this off? Guys what do u mean by you want a dominating woman? HELP! Anything will do, I just need to make his experience more exciting mostly bc I need it too 🤧😪
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8 28Put cinn on his pecker
Wanna blow his mind, get a strap on and tell him you want him to feel the pleasure he gives you, and you wanna know what it's like in the driver's seat... Tell him you'll let him do butt stuff with you or something if you have to convince him, but it'll be the best orgasm of his life (basically a prostate. massage)... Use plenty of lube, and have fun.
You may as well be asking how to do you make your boyfriend religious or a foot taller.
What you were supposed to be doing was making sure you were sexually compatible with a potential partner before you got into a serious relationship with them by having the appropriate conversations.
Trying to retroactively force compatiblity is, lets say at least problematic.
This makes me envy you, because my current girlfriend is a virgin and she sounds either scared of sex or is insecure about her body too much to have sex, I feel I should break up with her because I don't want a relationship that is limited to just kissing only.
What about oral/mutual masturbation? How does she feel about that? Also bdsm does not have to be sexual.
@Minahh I'll bring that up with her, I kind of had an argument with her lately about this and she said she doesn't want to speak to me for a few days, what does bdsm stand for?
Talk to him. Tell him ideas/things you'd like to try, and find out if he has anything and experiment (if he's willing to try them). You might be too different sexually (ie not sexually compatible), but you find out by talking to him. Getting ideas here or from others won't matter much if you don't talk to him about them. Like women all guys are different and he may not be into them or willing to try them. Depending on how different you are, you might have to both compromise, or like I say, you might be "too different" and maybe he won't be the guy for you. Sexual compatibility is a real thing.
Have him cum on some food. Then have him ear it.
Read this article.
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Hope it helps. In case you need any help you can ask.
Become more dominant and controlling. Try to make him wear a chastity device and you keep the key. Unlock him only when you want sex, other wise he has to give you oral when locked. Maybe he can fuck you with a strap on while locked. Next start pegging him with the strap on when he is locked. Slowly start feminizing him. Insist on these things and become more dominant, they will spice things up.
THANK YOU SO MUCH 🤍 super helpful answer
Tell him you want your throat fucked like a little slut and lean your head off the edge of the bed and open your mouth wide
I made him do this too 💀 but he’s just like ✨Shy✨
You could try like a gloryhole between you two or deepthroating or rimming?
Ouuu I LIKE THIS
Got tons of ideas lol. Ask away :)
Shoot me some more 🖤 something bound to work
Depends on what kind of stuff you are into. A girl does much better when she is into the same stuff too.
I’m into damn near everything
Well then depends on what he is into so you can tailor it to what he likes/is willing to try. No guy would say no to a deepthroating bj, good roleplay, maybe take it lower with some handjob sessions? That helps slow it down.
I feel like when I try to initiate more sexier stuff (outfits, toys, lube, etc he kinda gets all shook) I definitely have my experience with this…. He definitely doesn’t
You could try putting a finger up the hole next time you give head and progress from there to rimming and then, strap on if he gets into it. If you're into that. You could even do a double edged toy after.
Try 69 position and make him eat your pussy and let him inhale your butthole.. it will be more spicy 🔥
Sometimes it's a fantasy for a woman to take charge, pull the guy's clothes off, push him down onto the bed, climb on top and have her way with him. Use your imagination.
So basically do to him what I wish he’d do to me? 💀 this can go wrong so bad..
Basically, yeah lol. Take charge. Unleash your passionate side, do things to him and have him 69 you.
😩👏🏻 thank you king 👑