Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If a girl gives a guy blue balls, is it justified for him to be angry/ upset with her?
Anonymous
There have been a few occasions when I have made out with a guy until he was really turned on, but I didn't let him have sex with me. Nor did I give him a hand job or a blow job so he could come. Mainly because I wasn't ready to take it to that level. Sometimes the men have reacted quite badly. One got really angry. Another got cold on me, and never asked me out on another date. My question is, is it considered in bad taste or inconsiderate to do this to a guy? How would you react to the situation? Girls, has this happened to you before?
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Thanks everyone for the overwhelming response. These answers were a real eye opener. I think I might have to reconsider my behvaiour... A lot of guys here are saying I should tell the guy before hand that I wasn't intending to have sex with them. I would like to clarify that I had done just that. I also explained to them why. Also on both these occasions where it went bad, it was the first time we were making out...
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 42I did this to my girlfriend. She didn't talk to me for 2 days
its a bit messed up
It is. You don't get a man hot and bothered and not have sex. You are
an inbred, mouth breathing moron to not think this is wrong. If you did this to me, bye bye !
I'm sorry but there is no need for name calling...
You open that door sweetie !
Yeah I did pretty damn pissed having blueballs sucks lol
Yeah I've been angry
My girlfriend of 6 months blue balls me every once in a while. I have a hard time finishing via insertion, and sometimes she gets worn out and won’t finish me off with at least her hands. The thing is, she always cums 2-10 times every time we have sex, so I think being upset when I get blueballed is totally justified. She gets mad at me when I get upset about her blueballing me. I’m not sure if anyone else has experienced something similar, but it’s really frustrating for a man to be stimulated but not finished off to completion. It’s both mental and physical torture. When I get blueballed, I usually get a really bad stomach ache which results in me throwing up from the pain. It is never okay to blueball anyone, male or female, once you’ve committed
yes you are a horrible slut. why? because you first makeout and turn them on. if you were conservative from the beggining i wouldn't judge you. you are a bad teaser and manipulator
It's quite frustrating for the guy when this happens that's all I can say
Yes. That's totally in bad taste and inconsiderate. If you aren't at least willing to stroke him off, don't turn him on so much.
No I've never had a guy get angry or cold because of that. They sound very immature.