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If a guy cums quike why doesn't the girl take it as a compliment?

It's like showing how hot he thinks you are that he couldn't hold it in.
If a guy cums quike why doesn't the girl take it as a compliment?
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  • Its a compliment, provided the guy makes sure that I am satisfied as well. If he just cums and is done then it is a disgrace because if he really liked me then he would have made sure that I was satisfied as well. It is the difference between "I like your body." and "I like YOU". The first is okay, but the second is great, and it's just as good with both.

  • I take it as a compliment most of the time. It's when the guy cums quick and doesn't finish what he started that problems come about.

    • Thats what I'm getting at in my above posts to another user. Something was lost in translation

    • So as long as he goes down on you after he cums to finish the job it's not a big deal?

    • Doesn't even have to go down on me, I'm perfectly happy with fingers.

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  • It would be a compliment if she was the reason for it. Unfortunately the reason is actually that he can't control himself and would be exactly the same with the next girl. So it's not a compliment.

    • That's not the case with me, visual stimulation is a big part of it. Example I fucked this one bad bitch who was a solid 9 I probably only lasted 3 minutes. Then the next chick I smashed was more like a fuck it moment 4/10 I lasted at least 10 minutes. I'm sure I could have gone longer but I wasn't really feeling it. The more visually stimulating it is the more exciting it is. The more excited I am the harder it is for me to control my orgasm.

    • Sure, I get that but the girl has no way of knowing that's the case and often it just isn't. The guy who cums quickly with her is often the guy who cums quickly full stop. For me it doesn't matter how hot the girl is, I'm unlikely to get there in less than 30 minutes unless it's a rare day. I'm not easy to crack.

  • Suppose you enter your partner, she cums in 10 seconds, then rolls over and goes to sleep. Do you focus on what a stud you are to her, or do you focus on how she didn't finish what she started?

    • That's cool 10 seconds is all i need

    • If you are done in 10 seconds, you are going to have some unsatisfied women!

    • Darn!

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  • I know you guys get excited posting these questions to the point of cumming, but slow down some and at least spell things right.

    • How To Nail Things. Meet Pooch.

  • lmao @ the pic

    I take it he has that low stamina. Not a huge deal if it's not all the time.

    My last boyfriend was like that overall, maybe like 10 minutes max. But sometimes he could go for 40 or more. I only cared if I was really into it and he couldn't get it up after/he didn't seem interested to help me get off too.

    I only took his pleasure as a compliment when I was giving him a bomb hand job and he was squirming acting crazy. haha

  • Well TROLL it's like this; We are not just cum dumpsters and are looking for some pleasure out of it ourselves.

    • I get blocked because certain women think I come onto them lol

  • Because sex is a two way street. Plenty of guys pass out after orgasming which makes the sex pretty one sided. You need to be able to control it enough to at least attempt to get your partner off.

    • Lol pass out wtf

    • @Darknut Not actually pass out but fall asleep yeah. The amount of men who think sex is over after they orgasm is significant.

    • That sucks. Gotta keep it going. Keep pleasuring no matter what, even with your tongue or fingers while you get ready again building up.

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  • Well she probably takes it as a compliment but it’s usually something a woman doesn’t always take in the best way because she most likely hasn’t gotten off and sometimes guys who cum fast don’t continue or go back to ensure she gets off. Plus she might’ve just really gotten into it and... then he’s out for the count

  • 1. Take heart--you are 18 and new to this. As you age, it will be easier to last longer. (In fact, you may get the reverse problem and not get hard enough quickly enough, but cross that bridge if you get to it).

    2. DON'T just thrust "in-out, in-out, in-out" until your cannon fires.

    3. Pay attention to your body. Get to that moment when you start feeling yourself "rock hard",

    4. Then thrust in, and pause. Wait, Count to 10, or even 30, silently. Feel yourself a little less hard than you were.

    5. Then, and only then, resume the "in-out, in-out, in-out".

    This will take some practice, so don't be hard on yourself (on pun intended) if it does not click like magic the first few times. No man becomes the "Sixty Minute Man" overnight:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oXfJj8R3q20

  • sex is supposed to be mutually enjoyable. If a guy finishes before I can get started, how is that a compliment? It just shows selfishness.

    • What if he truly can't help it

    • but he can. There are lots of ways to correct the issue. Do you think that because "he can't help it" that's a compliment to his partner?

    • You know not every guy can control it like they would like, it's not that easy.

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  • It’s a compliment. Particularly, if he is saying things like ‘wow you’re so hot’, ‘you’re so sexy’ etc. it always feels really good! 😊

  • Would you take it as a compliment if she came faster than you and left you hanging without coming? smh

    • Well there's always oral to finish the job

    • That goes BOTH ways. Or is it comes both ways...

  • I can understand that if he like gets too excited. But it doesn't have to be a one time thing, right? Guys can go more than one time in a night. But if it keeps happening then thats a prob.
    Try giving them a bj or hand job first. 2nd time always seems to last longer.

  • Because that means the sex is over.

  • It's neither a disgrace of a compliment. It simply means he's so sexually stimulated, that he cums quickly. That can partly be because of how good the girl is, or just because he's eager to get in her, and cums quickly, or can because of prolonged sexual stimulation before entering.

  • Because cumming early usually has nothing to do with the other person.

    • Also, what the fuck are those ridiculous poll options? Cumming quickly can only be a compliment or a disgrace? What a joke. It's a condition. It's not a disgrace, it's a physiological and/or psychological issue.

    • I guess it could be seen as a compliment because you got off quick because your were so turned on and everything you finish quick. Its possible though that the girl be dissatisfied if you finish and there's hardly any pleasure or any orgasms achieved. The best is holding off and and edging.

    • @Darknut No. Cumming early rarely has anything to do with anything but yourself. A man who cums early, usually does so because he *generally* has problems with lasting long.

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  • The girl doesn’t take it as a compliment because she’s too distracted by the gouy because he spells like a first grader and now she thinks maybe he’s really only seven years old.

  • If he cums before me and doesn't bother to finish me off, it's a disgrace. I find it really inconsiderate- would you like if a girl had sex with you, orgasmed before you, and then removed you from her and didn't let you finish? I don't think I'd care if he came before me, particularly, as long as I orgasmed as well.
    Then again, I'm a virgin, so take all I say in this topic with a grain of salt.

    • You have it perfectly right , Does not matter who got off first , Finish your partner "period". Things may get a little messy if your partner came inside you and then you wanted him to finish you off but. That's what toys are for

    • A 20 yo virgin. That's awesome.

    • @Hannah02004 Haha, thank you.

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  • Because I don't like fast sex

  • It ain't a compliment if he can't last long to satisfy her lol

  • Ya women are self centered when it comes to sex lol they get pissy cause they didn't get any lol

  • Hmm is this question asked by speedy jock?

    • What a selfish bastard if he did that. I might as well please myself on my own.

    • Or maybe, just maybe, an 18-24 kid who is still learning how to pace himself. You might try not jumping to the worst conclusion.

    • @Curmudgeon selfish immaturity

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  • Because most guys come quickly and don't really need anything "extra" for it, just an idea in their head or a random 🐱
    If he can make her come and give her multiple orgasms then that's worth praise.

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