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If a guy doesn't get obsessed after sex?

I've had sex with 5 guys. One of them I dated for 4 years. And the others only fucked me one to 3 times.. I've heard that if a guy loves the sex with a girl and if she has good pussy, that he will become obsessed and want to fuck her a lot. Do I just not have great pussy then? Every guy I had sex with has came within a minute or two of being inside me. (besides the guy I was with for 4 years. He could make himself last, but sometimes I made him cum quickly as well.) I just keep reading these social media posts of girls who screenshot multiple texts from guys that they have hooked up with and the guys are obsessed and wanting more and more. Does this mean that I just dont have the good stuff? Nobody has ever been obsessed with me. And everyone who has fucked me has only fucked me 1 to 3 times, besides the guy I dated.. is my pussy bad? How do other girls make guys obsessed with just sex? Am I just not that good?
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  • It depends on a number of things.

    Firstly, the guy. With those girls, they could be having sex with guys who don't often get laid, and they "got lucky" with that girl. Since they don't get laid much and finally did, they get attached easily. If you have higher standards than they do, you're probably having sex with guys who don't struggle to get laid much. Therefore they don't get attached as easily.

    Secondly, you. If what I said above is true, it's gonna take a lot more than "good pussy" to keep a guy like that around, because he can get laid anywhere else. Here then it's about what else do you bring to the table other than sex?

  • Honestly? I think you might be bad at sex. The point of sex is to enjoy yourself and there is certainly a place for hurrying along the process but generally speaking you should drag it out and savor the moment. If we are going for speed of satisfaction then that is what masturbation is usually for. Try to go for a longer session and both of you will enjoy it much more.

    • I did enjoy it.. I couldnt help it that they came so fast.. one guy came almost as soon as he put his dick in me.. what could be wrong with my pussy?

    • I didn't try to get the sex over with as soon as possible. I was enjoying myself, but the guys were the ones who kept cumming fast with me..

    • You need to take things like that into consideration. That they can't last is not your fault but you need to keep that in mind in how quickly you go at it.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Men need more than sex to stay and treat you right. Guys well most men will literally fuck anything!!

  • Ahhahahahhaha hahahha hahahhahahahahahahhahahahha no

    • No what?

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  • It's not you. A lot of younger guys employ and fuck her and leave her strategy, cruel as that is.

  • not all guys are sex obsessed honey... just cuz they didn't come back again doesn't mean its anyones fault. its just progression. if you want them to come back again... tell em. simple.

  • Only needy insecure guys get obsessed with a girl for her sex. Also, when a guy cums “within a minute or two of being inside“ you, he’s probably too embarrassed to come around u again.

    • What could I have done to prevent them from cumming so fast? I feel like my pussy sucks or something..

    • them cumming fast isn't your problem, its theirs

    • If guys only fuck a girl 1 to 3 times, that means they didn't exactly like the sex with her right? Every guy I've been with besides one has only fucked me very few times..

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  • Did the guys have different size of penis?

  • You're the one obsessed with sex.
    Seriously, sex isn't even close to the most important thing in a good relationship.
    (Though I do have good sex with my wife.)

    • True. But a relationship isn't something I really want right now.. I want to explore sex, but it's kinda hard when the guys I sleep with only want to fuck me 1 to 3 times. Seriously, if my pussy was better, they'd most likely fuck me more than that right?

  • Not the case !
    Maybe you haven't been with the right guys!

  • Just providing only sex doesn't make a guy obsess/stay with you eventually he might get bored and leave you
    The personality , good attitude, comfort, understanding are some matters are also require to make a guy stay with girl.

    • Yeah, but only fucking someone 1 to 3 times isn't a lot at all. If they liked the sex, they would want it more than that right? I've been reading on social media and girls had posted multiple messages from guys who had hooked up with them and the guys were obsessed and wanting them way more.. maybe I just dont have good pussy like other girls do?

    • They just have lost interest in you that's why they don't sex from you. There is nothing wrong in your body Plus you are overthinking give some time you will find a new guy who will be obsessive of you

    • Lost interest in me? If a girl has good pussy, guys don't lose interest after just one or two fucks, right?

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  • If a guy doesn't get obsessed after sex?

  • No such thing as bad pussy yes some is a little better than others but I’ve never had any pussy that didn’t make me cum and if the guy is horny and it’s been awhile since he had sex he isn’t going to last long before he cums I try to please the women first wheather fucking her or licking or eating her but if I do cum fast I always try to please her I like to know she gets off and love seeing her satisfaction it makes sex a lot better knowing she cummed to

  • Yes and no. And if sex isn't going on for at least an hour, what exactly was good about it.

    If a guy obsesses after two minute sex, he may be a little insecure. If you are cool and a little aloof with him, then he will obsess because he likes you and the sex and you are not reciprocated the same thing. Hurt a guys ego and he can become pathetic.

    • Does that mean I suck at sex or that maybe my vagina is trash?

  • Well... I have never been obsessed nor have I wanted to fall in love over sex. It’s just in addition to ‘her’ being her if I do. Definitely the wrong thing to dwell over.

  • well in my experience it has nothing to do with the sex but the type of person you are plus the question of if im looking for a friends with benefits or a one night stand if a friends with benefits then im gonna do a lot of exploration but if a one night stand I'm just gonna fuck and go

    • I'm not sure if he was wanting a one night stand or a friends with benefits.. he told me before he left that the sex was really good and that he was down to do it again. But then he started ignoring me after that.. so maybe he thought the pussy was trash and just tried to make me feel better?

    • or he found someone else, i mean me personally I'm not gonna lie about the sex. if it was good im gonna try to push for more kinky shit the more we do it

    • He didn't want more sex from me, so is it safe to say that it wasn't exactly that good for him?

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  • um, sex is not going to get a guy hooked and loving u, he jus loves ur pussy not u... so he will jus use u for sex all the time... if thats what u want then fine... but u have to have the right type of personality for him to love u

  • No idea i can last about 20 minutes pounding my girlfriend
    Im 26 she is 22

    But it depends on they guys stamina how long he can last not if the pussy is good
    Because lets be honest every pussy feels about the same

    So i would say they are not very experienced fuckers since they came after 1 minute of being inside you

    • Do you think they thought the sex with me was bad?

    • That's why they didn't come back for more?

    • That can be the case yeah But i think they wanted smash and dash only so

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  • You are fine. Its mostly all talk on social media don't believe the hype.

  • It takes more than pussy to keep a man.

    • But if the pussy was good, guys would at least want to fuck more than 1 to 3 times right?

    • Maybe they thought you were on the verge of becoming psycho-stalker.

  • Are you doing the work and making him come that fast or is he because if he's doing the work he just know how to make his self cum and that's all that he is there for his nut

  • So you're sort of kind of a slut

    • No the fuck I'm not.

    • 5 guys, only 1 was a long term relationship kinda slutty

    • THATS BECAUSE GUYS DONT LIKE MY FUCKING PUSSY. I can't MAKE THEM STAY IF THEY DONT WANT TO.

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  • hmmmm i should see ur pussy

    • You should sod off

  • Tbh for most blokes there's no such thing as a "bad pussy". I've never been obsessed with a girl because of what happened in the bedroom, but because of what happened outside of it.

    • Every guy I've slept with has came within a minute or 2 of fucking me, besides the guy I dated for a long time. I could make him cum quickly, but he could also control himself most of the time. I made one guy cum twice before. But every guy who has fucked me only fucked me 1 to 3 times.. besides the guy I dated. 1 to 3 times isn't a lot at all.. does this mean that I didn't have the good stuff?

    • People will lust after you for what you do in the bedroom, and love for what you do outside it.

    • Yeah, but the guys I've slept with didn't even lust for me after sex.. they fucked me 1 to 3 times and then were done..

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