You're talking to the wrong people by asking this on here.
Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. He may think you stop him going down because you've finished and you're just quiet. If he's a young and relatively inexperienced guy then he may not know.
My first girlfriend got a very raw deal from our sex life because I had NO idea what to do. We broke up after a couple of years and I still hadn't figured it out. My second girlfriend wasn't very experienced, but knew what she wanted so I told her we could try whatever she wanted. She was nervous because she was about 100lbs and I was 220lbs (roughly) so I offered to let her tie me down while we got started - which she turned out to really enjoy so it became a pattern and she'd wear one of the scarves when we went out to keep me turned on for the whole date.
The point is we talked about her needs - and mine - and as a result she is still the best sexual partner I've had, mostly because I knew she was getting everything she needed to be satisfied. Often more than once.1 0 0 0
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Well I'm the kind of the same way as you are. I don't mind getting oral I love giving it but I would rather make it all about her and make love to her and make her come at least two or three times before I do if he doesn't talk to you about it and is only thinking of themselves and that's what's going to happen he's going to get on he's going to pump you a few times get off and go to sleep because it's all about him and I say fuck that. I mean I have a friend we have phone sex once in awhile and I can always hear every time that she comes and no matter what when will finish you always ask me if I come and that is a friend that I've never met before because there's a bond is a friendship I don't know I know for me that just wouldn't be right what you doing I can never do that
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1 12Obviously, why is this even a question?
1 0 0 0Yeah sounds like he is using you, sorry.
1 0 0 0sounds like you need to find someone that will also cater to your needs.
I always make sure my partner has at least 1 or more happy endings, by what eve means it takes, either through sex or vibrators.
That way I figure she will want sex more often, which is a win win for both.1 0 0 0You said you hate being eaten, how about being fingered? if you don’t mind trying to cum from that then talk to him and get fingered until you get wet then have intercourse, main thing is talk to him about it, otherwise this is going to b your sex life with him, where he’s going to cum and not give a crap about you, basically he’s using you as a toilet tell him what turns you on
0 0 0 0Maybe he is not the right one for you.
I always make sure the partner or person I'm with is fully satisfied before worrying about me..
You need to date more till you find the right person.1 0 0 0I don’t get that. I only focus on the girl until she’s done. I feel like I’d get dumped if I didn’t. I’d expect to be dumped if I didn’t at least try.
1 0 0 0Yes.
1 0 0 1maybe he doesn't know what to do
0 0 0 0You’re not sexually compatible
1 0 0 1how do you know that? most girls can't cum through pentration alone.
he always feels very good
Yeah but virtually all can with oral. Plus he never asks plus you don’t like oral at least from him so no you’re not sexually compatible
You should like oral and he could make you cum with that, and then have sex and you could cum again. Most women love to be eaten out, that makes them cum.
1 0 0 0He’s just using you for his pleasure. Also he’s not good in sex coz he’s not able to make you cum.
1 0 0 1To your update:- Good decision. Also find a guy who’s good in bed as well. Who can make you go crazy in bed.
If nothing else he's a lazy lover.
1 0 0 1he's only 24
Maybe need to tell him when you haven't cummed.
it means he is failed and you wasting big time.
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