It sure as hell doesn't sound like you were unsatisfying or that he was not satisfied. Put those kind of thoughts out of your mind.
It's a little bit odd that he didn't want to fuck you some more when you offered. But even though he was hard, maybe he was afraid he wouldn't be able to cum again so soon. I don't know. Maybe he was being polite.
Recovery times can vary. I usually go soft after a massive, satisfying climax. I might be ready again in 20 minutes or not be interested again for 8 hours. But I've also fucked a woman for hours, non stop, and came inside her 4 or 5 times.
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Young guys can and will get hard again after round 1. It just means they are ready to go at it again if both of you want to. He must have been satisfied with just one orgasm. Different guys will get hard again at different time intervals after sex or jerking off. When I was in high school I would get hard again ten minutes later after jerking off or getting a bj or hj. Now I have to wait about 20-30 minutes before I'm ready to go again. All guys are different. How is your sex life with him otherwise?
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Sounds normal. My boyfriend sometimes is hard again 20 minutes after sex. If we try to have sex again though, he can’t cum again that soon. If we wait like an hour, then he can finish again. He enjoyed the first orgasm. The erection was probably just a reaction he couldn’t control. No worries.
0 1 0 0Not at all as a 20 minute time period is plenty of time for most guys to be up and ready to go again. It would indicate he was excited and liked the 1st round and really wants more of it.
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0 29You heard wrong. Men have very widely diverse refractory periods. It can range from a minute to a day or two. It has nothing to do with the quality of the preceding orgasm.
0 1 0 0Quite the opposite... means he's ready for the next round.
0 0 0 0I've had this happen many times. If anything, it means that it was an amazing orgasm and the sex was out of this world good. I have stayed inside many times after only to start sliding and go fully rock hard again and ultimately cum inside again. Guys have a refractory period but it can vary from several minutes to many hours depending on how horny he is as well as his body. Sometimes it's just an erection and other times he can cum another time or two whereas at other times, he will go soft and not be interested again for half a day. But seeing your naked body there and feeling you can certainly accelerate his recovery, especially if the sex and his ultimate ejaculation inside you were amazing and sexy at the very thought afterward.
0 1 0 0What if a guy goes soft after having an orgasm and can't really get hard again? Like, at other times, he finishes and gets hard enough to penetrate me, but he has to stop within a minute or 2 because he isn't hard enough and can't cum again. Does that mean the first round wasn't very hot to him?
No, it just means his body isn't ready yet and needs additional recovery time. It can literally be different every time. The fact that he gets even a little hard or maintains any erection at all following ejaculation means he is still turned on and had great sex with you even though his body is saying not quite yet.
A guy can easily get hard again in 20 minutes.
0 0 0 0Your in your early 20, s so I would say normal. Enjoy it whilst you can.
0 0 0 0No, that means the sex was really good
Only time that happens to me is if the sex was amazing0 0 0 0What if a guy goes soft after having an orgasm and can't really get hard again? Like, at other times, he finishes and gets hard enough to penetrate me, but he has to stop within a minute or 2 because he isn't hard enough and can't cum again. Does that mean the first round wasn't very hot to him?
Not necessarily We usually just want it once And if the sex was really good then we will want to do it again
NO! It DOESN'T mean he was not satisfied... smh
0 0 0 0no it means your ass is in trouble ,, round 2
0 0 0 0Consider yourself lucky and keep riding him till you orgasm as many times as you want.
0 0 0 0No my dear that means just the opposite , you turn him on big time!
0 1 0 0No i'm the same way after i've pleasured myself after say 10-15 mins
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I'm ready to go again... your man sounds the same...0 0 0 0Some guys just know how to hit a reset buttom on themselves and make them hard again some guy's can't i can for a certain amount of time about 3 depending on the first orgasm
0 0 0 0its normal i can easily do it 3 times in a short period
0 0 0 0You can get hard fairly quickly again, but it is very hard to cum.
0 0 0 020 to 30 minutes is normal refractory period for healthy men.
It is a little tiring to have sex like this multiple times in a row, but when we really like a girl - we just want to. Be happy.0 0 0 0Ahh no. Every guy is different when it comes to recovery times. I could have went another round if given the chance. Lol.
0 0 0 0Usually he doesn't get rock hard right after sex though. Lol I feel like I didn't satisfy him.
Ahh no. He came so he was satisfied for sure.
Younger guys experience this often, as I did late teens. It’s probably something to do with control, not whether he liked it. We’re guys. We always like it.
0 0 0 020 minutes after is not right after.
0 0 0 0It’s called high sex drive
0 0 0 0No, it means he wants more
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