If a virgin girl talks to you and reveals she’s freak and has had very kinky thoughts about you, would you think she’s a slut?

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hellionthesagereborn Guru
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Well by definition if she is a virgin and hasn't had sexual interactions with other men then she could not be a slut. If she is kinky for me, that is awesome not a bad thing, its when she is kinky/sexual with anybody that it becomes a problem (he has to earn that part of her otherwise he will start to get suspicious and think that she might be easy. That isn't a problem if she is a virgin though).
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HugoThe2nd Xper 6
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If a virgin girl reveals to me she is a "freak" and "very kinky" I will roll my eyes and pat her head.
Knowing very well that all she is in reality is an anxious and confused the heck out looking little dead fish.

Virgins are suffering, they are definitely not "sluts".
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Alyssa11 Yoda
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No... it’s normal to have freaky thoughts. Everyone has them. Some have them more than others because some have higher libidos than others. Some virgins have higher libidos than non-virgins. But everyone is horny at the end of the day lol.
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aliali8 Xper 5
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from my experience, a "virgin girl" won't have these thoughts unless she had been with a man. There is a good chance she had been intimate with a man in the past. May not be necessarily sex but certainly she has done it.
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- magiusX26
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  due to the existance of internet porn this statement is not always true. could just as easily be that she has perused much porn and found many kinks to be stuff she wants to try.
- aliali8
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  @magiusX26 porn is not the same experience. I was a Virgin for many years prior to 21 years old. I never kissed or had a guy touch me. I did masturbate to porn but it was nothing. It wasn’t until I reached 21 when I had my first time making out with a guy that I was super attracted to. We didn’t have sex. In fact I didn’t end up having actual sex for 3 years after that. I can tell you for sure that my masturbation got way better after my first making out experience. Porn does not around Virgin girls the same way as it arouses Virgin men. Women get aroused by being touched. Men are aroused by sight. If you never know what it felt like to be aroused by being touched By my a man, it’s unlikely porn will be that exciting for you
- magiusX26
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  all porn is not sight based. there are pornographic stories too, simular to romance novels. i know what your getting at but more ofyen than you probably realize the various types of porn still influence virgins into wanting to try things before ever getting intimate in any way. keep in mind that plenty of kids find a way to get at porn too and those minds are easily manipulated into desiring things. just because it was not something like that for you (or your friends maybe) dont assume its the same for all. i say this from partial 1st hand experience by the way. my niece was a virgin that got ahold of porn (no clue as to what all/types) when she was pretty young and devolped some such desires before ever even kissing anyone. yes i have been that much of a parental figure in all my nieces' and nephews' lives. while still be open and honest with them and sometimes to the degree of being the adult they were most comfortable asking questions along these lines from. hell a few of them didn't get "the talk" from mom or dad but from me instead with oarents knowing that i am the one handling that. luckily i come from a family more full of open communication like that than some families are. more on the visual side for you though. may not be so much the same as us guys but more what acts get what reactions and not just from pirn either. 50 shades of grey for example (the movies) can just as easily influence some kinks into a virgin mind. then there are some kinks that you can sort of just stumble into, a common-ish example kink of that could be some sort of pee related kink which could be stumbled upon simply by tge need to pee hitting hard while maturbating or the urge to maturbate happening while peeing. yes it really can be that simple. besides porn there is also peer influences by friends who have been intimate then discuss with their virgin friends. somewhat of the same thing from siblings close in age too.
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- aliali8
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  @magiusX26 what I’m saying is you can’t imagine what being touched by a guy feels like until you have been touched by a guy Porn does not arouse women the same way it arouses men, especially for virgin women. Women are aroused way more by making out and being touched than simply watching porn A woman won’t know what sex feels like until she’s has sex I never knew what being fully aroused by a man felt until I had made out with my first guy. And trust me I have watched porn since I was 16 years old. Porn never aroused me the same way as being with a man Like I said it’s hard to imagine what is being done in porn to yourself , unless you already tried it and know what it feels like You won’t know how anal feels like by watching porn. You only know if you will like it if you try it. You can’t just say “ok it looks hot , then I will like it” it doesn’t work that way
- Kaneki05
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  I think ya missed something. The question wasn't about she knows what it feels like, simply she's had thoughts about a man and what she wants him to do to her. If your saying a virgin girl cannot fantasize... then sorry but that's funny af and simply not true.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 she can fantasize about what she wants her man wants to do but chances are its not sex. You won't know what sex feels like until you've tried sex. You will not know if you will like being spanked until you have been spanked. I know this from experience. Sexual arousal from watching porn heightens after you've had your first sexual encounter with a man. There is a very good chance she has made out with a guy. She just doesn't want to tell you.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 how are you supposed to fantasize about sex, if you don't know what sex feels like? answer it for me.
- Kaneki05
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  Umm like how everyone does? Ya don't need to do it, to be able to fantasize about it. And the whole thing about just saying are way is different cause we are women? Oh so girls don't watch porn... that's not what studies show... So girls don't read sexual fanfics and all that? Sure... they don't. And sure they don't fantasize from these things. If women never could before having sex how do they masturbate as virgins? or do virgins just not masturbate?
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you're dodging the question. Answer it how are you supposed to fantasize about sex, if you don't know what sex feels like?
- Kaneki05
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  Hmm how does one answer something that literally everyone does. Maybe your just the odd one out here, who needs to know what it feels like. But everyone else just knows how to fantasize about things. Do you think me as a virgin myself know what it feels like to have sex? Of course not. But i can still fantasize about it and what i want it to be like. I think it's a little thing called imagination that works there.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 if you fantasize about something you have no clue about, you won't be as aroused as you should be. You're just thinking about the idea of sex, not how the sex feels. (because you don't even know what it feels like)
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 this is why I said that fantasizing about how good sex feels is way more arousing than just fantasizing about the idea of sex. You can only fantasize about how good sex feels , if you know what sex feels like. You can think about a guy touching you , but you can fantasize about how amazing it feels like to have a guy touching you. The latter is way better.
- Kaneki05
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  aye that's true but the point is people can still fantasize about what they think/want sex to be like.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 its not real fantasizing. fantasizing has more to do with arousal and feeling. she's just "thinking" about the idea of it.
- Kaneki05
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  Semantics semantics shrugs.
- magiusX26
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  ty kaneki. i just got fed up with explaining it to her.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 it is semantics. but what I'm saying makes perfect logical sense. tell me how im wrong
- aliali8
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  @magiusX26 explain what? how she can fantasize about how good sex feels, when she doesn't even know what sex feels like? i don't see how thats possible.
- Kaneki05
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  @magiusX26 lol she really didn't get the question and brought up a really weird semantic thing that don't matter. Oh wells.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you’re telling me I don’t make sense when you clearly can’t make any sense
- Kaneki05
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  Stop been so defensive jeez. I didn't say your not making sense. Just brought pointless semantics for no reason.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 I think there is a point to it tho. Definitely not pointless. Difference words = different meanings
- Kaneki05
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  Not really. This girl was just asking a question, you reponse didn't really give a reponse it and just brought up something about how virgins can never truly fantazie about how it really feels. Like yeah no duh, that wasn't whatthe question was asking lol
- Kaneki05
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  She can still have kinky thoughts about what she thinks, she wants. So your reponse to this was kinda pointless.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 ok. I just said this” fantasizing” won’t be very in depth or to the utmost arousal unless she knows what it feels like to be touched by a guy What is so wrong with that statement?
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you don’t know what utmost arousal feels like unless you have been with a man. You can’t reach utmost arousal just by watching porn.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 there is a good chance she has been with a man, if she has kinky thoughts.
- Kaneki05
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  Literally no one asked.
- Kaneki05
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  And no you can be virgin with kinky thoughts it's not hard smh
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 virgins don’t have kinky thoughts cus they don’t know what the kink feels like.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 I didn’t get kinky thoughts until I knew how hot it felt to be with a guy. masturbation was way better after that too
- Kaneki05
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  Smh yes we do have kinky thoughts i would know myself lmao. I dunno what it feels like for real no. But i for sure can think about it. Again imagation starting to think ya don't know that exists.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you wouldn’t be fantasizing about kinky thoughts unless you know you will like it. You won’t know if you will like it unless you tried it
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 the definition of “fantasizing” is imagining how good it feels to be in the act. You can’t imagine how good something feels unless you know it is supposed to feel
- Kaneki05
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  Yup okay you offically don't understand what imagnation is... I thought ya were just making a pointless semantical statement. But now i just realise ya don't get the concept of imagination. And actaully the defination of fantising is imagine (something that one wants to happen). Which is imagiton. But good job.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 I know from personal experience. Fantasizing as a Virgin girl is no where near as arousing and satisfying as fantasizing as a woman who know what it feels like to be touched and kinky with a man
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 virgin girls don’t tend to fantasize too far either. If you see a Virgin girl who fantasizes about a lot of shit , usually it’s an indication she has been with a man.
- Kaneki05
  +1 y
  Yes you speak for all women. And women don't use imagition. It's not a indication at all. I know many people who are virgins girls and guys and we all have the abilty to use imagnation to fantise about things.
- Kaneki05
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  And again it's not about knowing what it feels like so stop bring that up sighs.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 I used my imagination and fantasized when I was a Virgin too. My point is , the fantasizing gets way better and more intense after you know how it feels To actually do it When you fantasize about something you have never done , you’re just relishing at an “imagined feeling”- which may or may not be what it actually feels like. Once you find out how it feels , you’re actually RELIVING the sensations. This is the point that I have been trying to make for ages
- Kaneki05
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  But no one asked for that point? That was not what this question was about. Aka why i said you were making a pointless semantic statement.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you know that I am correct about this. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for you to just agree that I’m correct
- aliali8
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  @kaneki05. And sometimes , things that you Fantasize about. You may not like it when you do it in real life. Other things that you may not seem to like in porn , you may start to like once you do it I know this because I have experience. Certain things you only learn through sexual experience
- Kaneki05
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  I don't get how you don't see how this wasn't relvant to the question asked...
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 I spent the last 50 posts explaining this one thing to you. Only now you seem to understand what I’m talking about.
- aliali8
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  @kaneki05. Often times the imagining how a sexual act feels like DIFFERS significantly from how it feels when you actually do it.
- aliali8
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  @kaneki05 everyone has a different style / approach to sex too. Doing the same thing to different person may give an entirely different experience. This is where sexual compatibility / incompatibility comes into play
- Kaneki05
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  Tbh i am done. The point is you can have kinky thoughts as a virgin and in no way does that indcate your not a virgin. And this question was not about it really feels to have sex or what not so your point was semantic and pointless.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 you’re just in denial because you probably fantasize about Virgin girls.
- Kaneki05
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  Now you just assume random things about people? Smart.
- aliali8
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  @Kaneki05 cuz I am sexually experienced. I have fantasized as a Virgin and non Virgin. I been through everything and I also have logical explanations to back everything up On the other hand , you just like to insist that my point doesn’t matter Because chances are you want her to be a Virgin. It supports your fantasies
- Kaneki05
  +1 y
  Yup you figured it out. Very smart. 100%.
- aliali8
  +1 y
  @Kaneki05 I knew it quite a while ago. Just didn’t say it

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MTC29 Guru
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"Virgin Slut" That in an episode of Bojack Horseman: a girl can be either, but not both.

Regardless, just because she's a virgin doesn't mean that she isn't allowed to fantasize about sex. If she's been fantasizing about me, then so much the better.
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ChrisMaster69 Master
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Nope not at all

there is nothing at all wrong with it.

it is perfectly normal.

also I likely have far more than her lol

so if this is about you, don’t sweat it, it’s normal.
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LZPanzer Xper 7
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I'd try to find a nearby bed
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Leavesbound Guru
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No not at all I would be very intrigued. I might think she's a slut if she admitted to doing very kinky things with five other guys this morning and two the night before and four the day before than and has big plans for tomorrow. I don't think it really counts as being a slut if a girl is only with one guy at a time.
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FictionalCharacter Guru
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Just sounds like she has fantasies she wants to try out.
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Aurora1010 Yoda
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How would that equate to being a slut? No. It's not like virgins don't have desires as well.
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Chillguy95 Xper 5
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No i would feel homered in fact it’s probably the highest compliment one could give a guy
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boggboss Master
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She is a virgin she can't be a slut thoughts are not actions
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slatyb Master
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No, I would think she’s a potential wife.
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Kaneki05 Master
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No not at all
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LiamSawyer Guru
+1 y
It's rather difficult to call a virgin a slut. Don't you think?
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Dargil Master
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A slut is someone who engages in indiscriminate casual sexual relations. So no. But I would like to know what's on her mind.
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Gwenhwyfar Master
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I would not no
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helva Guru
+1 y
As a virgin I often fantasised doing intimate things with a boy but never told him about.
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exitseven Master
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No, everyone has fantasies.
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Browneye57 Master
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They're all kinky and slutty once they make that emotional connection to a guy and becomes comfortable around him.
Yeah, you're just a beginner.
And you need to understand that your virginity isn't a condition or a malady that needs to be fixed or cured.
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magiusX26 Guru
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no. would be concerned about her well being depending on some kinks possibly being in her desires before she looses her virginity and what trying some kinks as a part of loosing her virginity could do to her physically and mentally. at the same time appreciative of being thought of in a good way for her sexuality.
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Riddler1412 Yoda
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I wouldn't think that. To be frank, I'd find it flattering.
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K-I-S-S Xper 7
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Slutty, which is good. But not a slut, would be a bit concerning that she may want to explore more partners.
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Danish87 Xper 6
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No, it's just that everyone gets horny and it's ok.
Well we men like such girls.
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