It makes no difference to me the amount of men a girl sleeps with as long as she's disease-free is all matters
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sheikalanaMaster
+1 y
No one needs to know lol.
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BillHe1Xper 6
+1 y
Definitely a player... but a Slut? Well probably, depending on the men she rode. High Schoolers are banging and Hooking Up all the time now... so just in HS one could rack up a hell of a collection.
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exitsevenMaster
+1 y
I would say yes but I am from a different era.
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HawkPerceptionYoda
+1 y
Lol I've slept with one girl. My ex and my previous ex before that just did oral with me. I'd say 30 is a pretty big number and would definitely turn me off from dating a girl. However, the thing that matters more is just having similar sexual experience levels. If both people have slept with 30+ people, then there will be much less toxicity in that regard.
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lucyloo76Xper 6
+1 y
Could be, But why does a question need to be answered.
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elizamichale1Guru
+1 y
So far i have slept with 1000 plus guys very easily n i dont care if people call me slut or whatever
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Nik1hilMaster
+1 y
Yes!.. But that also means you love sex and it's okay..
As long as you are promiscuous it's all good in my book.. But if you were polygamous like your were doing 2 men at the same time and were cheating on either of them.. Then it's a red flag!..
Just Don't have any STD and I will even be down to date you!.. Even if your number is 30 or 50 doesn't matters..
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Browneye57Master
+1 y
Beyond. It's called the 'cock-carousel'. And all the while you've spurned perfectly good guys that could have become a viable partner, but you were just going for the next dick. Now none of them want you anymore.
By 30, you now have to compete with much younger and prettier women in the dating pool, which makes your prospects for actually finding a mate dwindle, becomes increasingly difficult.
If you fuck around for another decade, then about forty you hit the wall - now you really are losing your youth and beauty, you're getting wrinkled and saggy. Worse, all of the good guys have been snapped up and married off by younger smarter women. All that's left are the rejects, the nerds, the incompatibles, and divorcees with kids in tow.
So yeah, it's a disaster for women when they do this. And all the while they just thought they were exercising their independence, which is true of course, but there are consequences. GET OFF THE COCK-CAROUSEL. Don't squander your youth!
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SenseiSeptred
+1 y
Um, I know plenty of nerds who are attractive and get a lot of dates. It is what you use your intelligence skills for that makes a difference.
LazyProphet
+1 y
How do you know she wasn't looking for a real partner this whole time?
SenseiSeptred
+1 y
@LazyProphet san good point.
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Browneye57
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Thirty sexual partners by thirty years old is 'all the while looking for a real partner'? Uh, no, that's the cock-carousel. That is a woman that thinks she can snag a guy by fucking him. She fucks around a lot. Let's assume she didn't start banging guys 'till 20, so that's a new boy-toy every few months for a decade. Fuck no. Absolute bullshit. The truth is, any woman can and will fuck any guy she wants, any time she wants, any place she wants. Just ask them! Sure, independence, freedom, and free choice - but there are consequences. A high value guy picking a high-value woman, don't want one that fucked around the past decade. Simply no. Just no fucking way. And the nerd comment is just dumb, and taken out of context. Women want strong good looking guys that have some bucks to spend on them. PERIOD. They want a guy that's actually going somewhere and being someone, not some dipshit that lives in his mom's basement playing video games.
SenseiSeptred
+1 y
One problem, how can I live with my mother if she is no longer alive even for people here in this country which they for some reason call America?
TheSpaceGnomeGuru
+1 y
Yes.
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MannMitAntwortenGuru
+1 y
No. At least I do not think so.
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MahdiAXper 5
+1 y
I’m 19 and I’m still a virgin (by choice) and I don’t think I’ll lose it anytime soon. But to answer your question, it depends on society and what is considered a “slut” these days.
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worldscolideMaster
+1 y
Nah it just means you're easy, or not capable of having relationships. by the way regardless of gender i would feel the same here..
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Andres77Master
+1 y
Nope It is risky and potentially dangerous, depending on how you do it. It's indicative of deeper issues in most cases, not all though. If you ever find a partner that likes girls with a slutty past it might make for more fun in bed. That's part of our foreplay. Talking about fun crazy sexual adventures from our past.
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K-I-S-SXper 7
+1 y
Yes, i would say so.
And why would anybody care what i say.
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KatherinexPierceXper 3
+1 y
No definitely not. Do what you want, if guys slept with that many people they would have game apparently but if girls did that we are called sluts so unfair do what u want
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HeavensentcwbyXper 2
+1 y
I don't believe it's slutty whatsoever. Maybe a person just likes having sex. Or maybe they're just seeking the right mate that truly fulfill's their sexual desires and that meets their sexual needs. I for one have been with many sexual partners myself and there have been some very very sexually actractive women that were just not very good at all having sex. Not at all experimental in bed as in trying all different kinds of positions or even places to have sex. There's even some that just thought oral sex was yucky. Those are what some may call a dead lay. And for myself , I just couldn't see myself getting married and settling down for life with someone like that. I'd compare it to like purchasing a vehicle. You just don't buy the first car you see, you want to test drive many cars until you find the one that's just right for you.
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Aakash_HangargiGuru
+1 y
Each for every Bday lol 👻😜🤓
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DaveTooYoda
+1 y
Not particularly. You are getting sexually fulfilled, and if it takes more than one person to do that then more power to you.
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19 115It makes no difference to me the amount of men a girl sleeps with as long as she's disease-free is all matters
No one needs to know lol.
Definitely a player... but a Slut? Well probably, depending on the men she rode. High Schoolers are banging and Hooking Up all the time now... so just in HS one could rack up a hell of a collection.
I would say yes but I am from a different era.
Lol I've slept with one girl. My ex and my previous ex before that just did oral with me. I'd say 30 is a pretty big number and would definitely turn me off from dating a girl. However, the thing that matters more is just having similar sexual experience levels. If both people have slept with 30+ people, then there will be much less toxicity in that regard.
Could be, But why does a question need to be answered.
So far i have slept with 1000 plus guys very easily n i dont care if people call me slut or whatever
Yes!.. But that also means you love sex and it's okay..
As long as you are promiscuous it's all good in my book.. But if you were polygamous like your were doing 2 men at the same time and were cheating on either of them.. Then it's a red flag!..
Just Don't have any STD and I will even be down to date you!.. Even if your number is 30 or 50 doesn't matters..
Beyond. It's called the 'cock-carousel'.
And all the while you've spurned perfectly good guys that could have become a viable partner, but you were just going for the next dick. Now none of them want you anymore.
By 30, you now have to compete with much younger and prettier women in the dating pool, which makes your prospects for actually finding a mate dwindle, becomes increasingly difficult.
If you fuck around for another decade, then about forty you hit the wall - now you really are losing your youth and beauty, you're getting wrinkled and saggy. Worse, all of the good guys have been snapped up and married off by younger smarter women. All that's left are the rejects, the nerds, the incompatibles, and divorcees with kids in tow.
So yeah, it's a disaster for women when they do this. And all the while they just thought they were exercising their independence, which is true of course, but there are consequences. GET OFF THE COCK-CAROUSEL. Don't squander your youth!
Um, I know plenty of nerds who are attractive and get a lot of dates. It is what you use your intelligence skills for that makes a difference.
How do you know she wasn't looking for a real partner this whole time?
@LazyProphet san good point.
Thirty sexual partners by thirty years old is 'all the while looking for a real partner'? Uh, no, that's the cock-carousel. That is a woman that thinks she can snag a guy by fucking him. She fucks around a lot. Let's assume she didn't start banging guys 'till 20, so that's a new boy-toy every few months for a decade. Fuck no. Absolute bullshit. The truth is, any woman can and will fuck any guy she wants, any time she wants, any place she wants. Just ask them! Sure, independence, freedom, and free choice - but there are consequences. A high value guy picking a high-value woman, don't want one that fucked around the past decade. Simply no. Just no fucking way. And the nerd comment is just dumb, and taken out of context. Women want strong good looking guys that have some bucks to spend on them. PERIOD. They want a guy that's actually going somewhere and being someone, not some dipshit that lives in his mom's basement playing video games.
One problem, how can I live with my mother if she is no longer alive even for people here in this country which they for some reason call America?
Yes.
No. At least I do not think so.
I’m 19 and I’m still a virgin (by choice) and I don’t think I’ll lose it anytime soon. But to answer your question, it depends on society and what is considered a “slut” these days.
Nah it just means you're easy, or not capable of having relationships. by the way regardless of gender i would feel the same here..
Nope
It is risky and potentially dangerous, depending on how you do it.
It's indicative of deeper issues in most cases, not all though.
If you ever find a partner that likes girls with a slutty past it might make for more fun in bed.
That's part of our foreplay. Talking about fun crazy sexual adventures from our past.
Yes, i would say so.
And why would anybody care what i say.
No definitely not. Do what you want, if guys slept with that many people they would have game apparently but if girls did that we are called sluts so unfair do what u want
I don't believe it's slutty whatsoever. Maybe a person just likes having sex. Or maybe they're just seeking the right mate that truly fulfill's their sexual desires and that meets their sexual needs. I for one have been with many sexual partners myself and there have been some very very sexually actractive women that were just not very good at all having sex. Not at all experimental in bed as in trying all different kinds of positions or even places to have sex. There's even some that just thought oral sex was yucky. Those are what some may call a dead lay. And for myself , I just couldn't see myself getting married and settling down for life with someone like that. I'd compare it to like purchasing a vehicle. You just don't buy the first car you see, you want to test drive many cars until you find the one that's just right for you.
Each for every Bday lol 👻😜🤓
Not particularly. You are getting sexually fulfilled, and if it takes more than one person to do that then more power to you.
Yes i think so