Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If he gives me a pass is it still wrong?
Hannahsworld Xper 1
My husband and I are in a great relationship but he is always leaving due to his career field for months on end. Recently he told me it would be ok to get intimate with other men while he was gone in fact he said it was a turn on. I just don't want him to be mad at me if I do it. We have fantasized about me being with my first black or Hispanic guy. There are a couple of guys from our neighborhood, work, and the gym I could hook up with. Again he said it would be fine if I didn't do it though I'd have to wait 6 months before I got any again. Is it ok to want this so bad I still love my husband but his fantasy has become mine also if anyone has experience let me know.
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So last night I did it I called my hubby before hand made sure it was still ok and not just a fantasy. Afterwards he told me he was glad I had a good time and wanted me to record it next time. Honestly we talked and flirted and had a feeling we haven't felt in along time. I was very happy it all worked out!
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 24you have a good man, did you tell him the same
No. Take it and enjoy it. If it's like a day or weekend pass find as many as you can fuck.
If you both want it, why not? Never tried, as it is completely not my cup of tea, but the world is vast and diverse. Don't be ashamed of doing something that would not be mainstream. I have witnessed odd relationships that only worked because people were creative in finding an arrangement and did not attempt the vanilla style.
You people are fking disgusting
He's leaving so that he can provide for you to make sure you don't go without. And you can't sacrifice your own pleasure in return? Even the mere thought of laying with another man makes a mockery of the whole marriage. What's the point?
As for him saying he'd be turned on by it, many people think the same, but fantasy is entirely different to reality.
We also live in a society that champions disloyalty, instant gratification, lack of discipline, and cheap frills. I'm sure there are other ways you can fill in the gap without resorting to adulatory. Use your imagination... and you could make use of all of that built up tension over the months and celebrate when he returns.