Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've used dildos to masturbate since highscool and let's just say some that I use now are kinda big😓 I'm not a "tight" virgin.
so I have lots of questions all in one, here goes:
1) would a guy say I'm lying if I told him I'm a virgin? I guess guys expect a virgin to be really tight but I'm not anymore. I am a virgin tho so it wouldn't be a lie at all.
2) would guys think I'm a slut for liking bigger dildos?
3) would many guys be ok we me having toys at all? Or is it something where a guy would want his dick to be the only one I use.
4) last question, and I know it's tmi but that's what anon is for. My biggest one is 9" long, not many guys are that big I don't think so is that intimidating, or would a guy not like me as much and worry that he's not enough?
sorry for long question but I feel so insecure about all this. I don't want anyone to call me slut or run away because of it.
If I use dildos, should that count as sex experience? Should I tell him I'm a virgin or lie?
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5 23I might just be weird but I just wouldn't be bothered. I have no idea whether half the girls I've slept with were virgins or not. Don't really think it matters.
1) You're still a virgin. Guys don't necessarily expect virgins to be tight. They know they -might- be. If it comes up and you're going to have sex, and he says anything about it, you can say that you really really like having stuff in there so you're looking forward to it not worried!
2) a few might, most no.
3) most are, a few might care.
4) this one actually more guys would feel awkward about. Guys really don't' want to feel like they are inadequate for you. I don't know, it's maybe like you'd feel if a guy used fleshlights and was like 'oh there's a super tight one that's like the size of a tiny woman and it feels way better', you might be all :( Like I assume you want to feel like your pussy is amazing. Anyway... lets assume lying isn't the answer for the moment, and spin is... is the 9" your favorite? Is the 9" also massively thick? One thing is that many women have an erogenous zone that's very deep back and quite often need something quite long to reach it. I kind of wonder if you can spin the big one as, not that big is better, but that a long one feels 'different' and you like the variety, so it's not that you just crave massive dicks, but that masturbating with a -long- tool is a -different- not better sensation. Its like there's clit stim, g-spot stim, and deep spot stim, and they're all good but it's not like one's necessarily better.
I guess it's pretty thick. I like it better for anal because of the length though. I get what you mean about the fleshlight yeah that wouldn't be good.🙁 So, I've got another question. How do I even bring this up to a guy? I've been talking to a guy I like and even though it's no where time to bring up sex, I want to be honest when the time comes. I don't want to be one of those people who has to hide things from their SO. I don't know but is their a way to avoid any of the awkwardness if and when I tell him?
I'm tempted to say don't hide that you like toys, but maybe don't bring up what size. Maybe that's not something he needs to know. Like if I think a girl looks great, but would look better if her breasts were one cup size bigger or smaller, but they're still hot, is there a point in me saying anything other than 'your breasts are really hot'? Not really. Maybe it's the same. I don't know. The fact you crave things being stuffed in your ass... is also a big plus for some of us lol.
It's fine. If they helped then good