If it is ok for a woman to breastfeed in public, why can't men suck on women's breasts in public?

[Haha456]

like if we got horny, why can't it be socially acceptable for my boyfriend to suck on my tits in the park?

[AMS700CX4u2]

Feeding an infant is not supposed to be an erotic moment. although I have heard that the signals can be confusing, especially for first time mothers. I know that some mothers breast-feed children that are preteen. Not to be judgmental but where do you draw the line. I think the difference is that no one expects a feeding child's actions to proceed to sexual relations. Your boyfriend on the other hand might be thinking that sucking your breast in public is a form of foreplay. I suppose it is a question of perception.

[Anonymous]

Because your boyfriend sucking your tits is a sexual activity, as opposed to an infant suckling at the mother’s nipple to gain nourishment.

Easiest distinction: what’s the benefit of an adult sucking on another adult’s tits vs what’s the benefit of a baby needing to feed? Unless you’re breastfeeding your boyfriend, I’d say maybe not let him suck on your tits while you’re topless in the park.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

One is a biological need, the other is a pleasurable act. It’s like comparing child birth to sex. Sure you can give birth in public, but not sex? It’s the same act! Something is coming out of the pussy in both instances.

[CateM]

I don't mind a woman breastfeeding a baby in public, but I don't wanna see a grown ass man who doesn't need her breast milk to survive sucking on her tits in public

[Boromir]

Because context…

Boobs are dual-use goods, you can feed babies with them and you can make heterosexual boys and lesbian girls happy with them in an erotic setting.

You can do some pretty kinky stuff with your mouth and hands, nobody has an issue seeing those in a non-sexual way…

[PositiveFlight]

Because men are not a dependent child who needs to eat. Granted, some probably are less intelligent than a newborn baby. But nonetheless a grown ass man doesn’t need to be sucking on breasts in public. Its not a need. In the bedroom during intimacy, sure suck away and pleasure each other all you want.

It’s apples to oranges. One sexualizes it while the other is out of innocence in nature. For a newborn, it’s totally natural and shouldn’t be sexualized.

[PositiveFlight]

Asker, I’ll grant you that there is a human need for sex. As a man, sure it’s nice and wonderful for both the man who loves breasts, and feels good and erotic for the woman who has breasts. There is nothing wrong with erotic stimulation. But in perspective, I can wait for a few hours until I’m home or in a private place to adore a woman’s breasts and give her pleasure. A child on the other hand can’t wait to eat. When it’s time, it’s time. I’ll gladly sacrifice adult sexual interaction and maintain some decency while at the same time making an exception for innocence to eat. It’s a non-selfish thing. Besides, I wouldn’t be much in the mood for pleasure or giving pleasure in a public park where everyone can see. It certainly isn’t a quality sexual encounter. It’s better done in private when you can both let go of the world

[Apple1996]

Babies need the milk cuz they are hungry and can't wait. But a grown ass men can wait out their nipple sucking fetishes until they are in private

[Red_Arrow]

lol. It sounds more like asker is having a hard time waiting to get her tits sucked.

[Chad345]

Omg 🤣🤣🤣

[Paul_in_Indy]

It’s OK for babies to cry and scream in public; while defecating in their pants. Are you eager to be allowed those behaviors, too?

[Kaneki05]

Can you not tell the difference between a baby who needs milk to live? To a grown man who does not?

[Haha456]

so what? don't you recognize the human need for sex? i can't afford to rent a hotel room so you have the right to deprive me of my right to sexual pleasure?

[Kaneki05]

A grown man does not need to suck on a woman's breast it's a want there is a clear difference. You aren't the sharpest tool in the shed.

[Haha456]

a baby does not need to suck on a woman's breast in public either. have you never heard of pumping? have you never thought about breastfeeding in private places?

[Haha456]

what is wrong about sucking a breast in public?

[Kaneki05]

Have you ever heard of biology and psychology? Because there is proof natural way to go is the best. A baby don't care about private places all it cares about is been fed when it needs to be.

[Haha456]

if it is ok for a woman to expose her breast in public during breastfeeding, it should be ok for a woman to expose her breast regardless whomever is sucking on it. this is the reasoning

[Kaneki05]

Nope they are different situations. Trying to compare the two is making me laugh though so thanks for that.

[Haha456]

they're not different situations if you accept that its ok for a woman to expose her breast in public.

[Kaneki05]

Yes because a man and a baby are the same thing your are 100% correct.

[Haha456]

why would it matter if it is completely OK for a breast to be exposed in public?

[Haha456]

you're talking about double standards right here.

[Kaneki05]

Yes why would it matter? Why would a situation not been comparable because it involves two very different things? I'm sure if we change variables it wouldn't matter at all. That's what science teaches very much so!

[WellGreetingsISay]

A child getting fed is a non-sexual natural and non-invasive thing. A horny guy sucking on a titty is totally different and sexual in nature.

[Dargil]

Ask your mom.

[Fireguy17]

there is a slight difference between the two.
one is a baby getting nourishment, the other is a guy getting a chubby in his chinos.

[bowenw]

Breastfeeding a baby is not a sexual act where as the other is as it is for the purpose of becoming aroused.

[Haha456]

but thats not the point. if it is OK for a breast to be exposed in public. then why would it matter why I expose my breast?"

[bowenw]

That's a question for the lawmakers who decide what is considered lewd behavior and what is not.

[Jamie05rhs]

I guess because one is a baby being fed (necessary action), and the other is an adult having sexual fun (optional recreational activity).

[Caliguy88]

Yeah it’s fine but I might glance if you’re hot. Lol.

[Steve-ram]

I don't care I've did that many times in cenima lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Interesting question.

[Pterodon]

I guess because one is a sexual act and the other isn’t

[OnTheLevel]

So you are equating feeding your child to an act of public sex and you don't know why one is ok but not the other? Interesting.

[driven159]

Breastfeeding is feeding the child nourishment not a sexual thing in fact today at Disney World a woman sat next to me and breastfeed her child I did not think it was a big deal

[ERB62]

Well now wait, wjsts next fucking? See what's going on now

[QuietRunner]

good question

most likely it is because babies need breast milk

men want sex, which society said is private

[riverrat3]

It should be legal

[MasterKS]

It should be.