If it's ok to judge men for caring about women's body count then it is also ok to judge men for NOT caring about women's body count?

[marish01]

I think it's obvious that I'm talking about relationships.

My body count is 0. So it is obvious that I don't get bitter when a man says he cares about a woman's body count if he wants serious relationships with her. Why would such a man makes mt triggered, right? Lol

If I really like a man and he likes me and he happens not to care about the body count thing then I will no longer consider him an option.

[Anonymous]

People can do what they want but they have to realize there’s consequences. A lot of men don’t want women w a high body count. I almost feel as though that’s not a personal choice, it’s instinctual. Just like women get this “ick” factor w men when we do certain things. That “ick” factor for men is women w high body counts. Most men aren’t going to say this because they know if they come out w something like this the girl will most likely never give them a chance. Especially if he’s limited on his choices of women. It’s amazing how women say a man should judge a girl on her body count which is completely w in her control. But they will judge a man on his height which isn’t in his control.

[marish01]

And body count reveals a woman's worth and value unlike height. I mean personality wise.

[Friendlybro79]

I think we shouldn't judge people about things like this. It's ridiculous but hey we're human and we do it anyway. Personally I don't care or worry much about someone's past. I won't judge you about body count and I don't care if you judge me. None of it affects my life. In my opinion we all need to stop judging each other over sexual partners. It's childish. Too many think they're morally superior than others somehow. If we were to be able to dig deep enough most people have many flaws because we're all more alike than we think.

[elizamichale1]

I think it is not ok ever for any man to judge a girl on her body count... whtever a man or woman's body count is it shouldn't matter... whts more important is this tht if they really r honest n really in their partner or not

[Pohjolan]

A high body count is a proxy for higher likelihood of cheating and STD:s and lower likelihood of her seeking a long term relationship.

[marish01]

@Pohjolan she is a sex worker who married her brother

[9in_Serpent]

@marish01 i am sure you would marry your brother if he is a virgin or took your virginity right? because virginity is what is important right? at least she loves her brother and not his virginity lol

[marish01]

@9in_Serpent Incest is as gross as pedophilia

[elizamichale1]

@Pohjolan well yes it could be risk of STDs but not if they were careful about it n had gud health... But u r definitely wrong about lower likelihood of long term relationship... i myself am in a long term relationship honey... n i m more than happy... And @marish01 @Pohjolan there's nothing wrong in being a sex worker... n u shud marry someone u love...

[elizamichale1]

@9in_Serpent thanks honey... i absolutely love him

[Pohjolan]

"But u r definitely wrong about lower likelihood of long term relationship... i myself am in a long term relationship honey" That's like saying that driving without a seatbelt is not dangerous because you have done it and nothing ever happened to you. Higher likelihood is not the same as certainty.

[elizamichale1]

@Pohjolan well nice example... i m not as brainy as u to find something like tht but... a big body count does not mean tht she won't be able to hold on to a long-term relationship honey...

[Pohjolan]

@elizamichale1 Of course not. Cheating is a choice and not something caused by a circumstance. However she is statistically more likely to choose to be unfaithful. Now one can debate whether women who had more partners are more willing to cheat or if people who are willing to cheat have more partners but either way there is a correlation.

[elizamichale1]

@Pohjolan but i still think people shouldn't generalise stuff

[Pohjolan]

@elizamichale1 Because of your personal feelings?

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan its funny how people as narrow minded with your views are can't see farther than their nose. Maybe its not that people "who had more partners are more willing to cheat or if people who are willing to cheat have more partners" maybe they and their partners are more open minded and not as self centered as you and do not see it as "cheating". Maybe they operate on a higher level of moral code so people who still believe in religious/traditional and archaic beliefs judge them from their lower level egoistical thinking with the mistaken belief that they hold the higher moral ground but in truth they are far from it... but sure if it helps your personal feelings you can keep believing you are on the side of justice and good oh white knight! lmfao 😂

[Pohjolan]

@9in_Serpent So betraying your partners trust and deceiving them is now a higher level of moral code? And just because you say that what you are doing is justified doesn't mean that others have to accept it as such. ISIS also thinks that they have a higher moral code.

[marish01]

@9in_Serpent she married her brother. Do you think you should even have a convo with her?

[9in_Serpent]

@pohjolan see you are too blind to understand what i said. When two partners are in a open relationship its not cheating because they don’t believe in such petty things. Christians might look at an open relationship as cheating but that is from their very narrow minded perspective. But i will say this If an atheist chose to get into a relationship with a christian then both partners must learn to respect each others beliefs or way of life but these cases are very rare and even rarer that work out. So do try to look in the mirror you just might find it is you who is similar to ISIS or whatever terrorist that you perceive

[9in_Serpent]

@marish01 like i said she loves her brother more than his virginity which is more human than loving the idea of virginity

[marish01]

@9in_Serpent it is perversion to have sex with your sibling. You should have known that.

[marish01]

And there is nothing wrong with a man to appreciate his woman's choice of hum as her first man.

[elizamichale1]

@marish01 honey is tht ur only argument tht she married her brother n thatswhy they shouldn't talk to me huhh @9in_serpent thanks honey @pohjolan not because of my feelings honey i just believe no one including me should impose their own beliefs on everyone... meaning we shouldn't generalise... N goshhhh are we really comparing sex to those murderers n worst kind of people huhh

[Pohjolan]

@9in_Serpent "see you are too blind to understand what i said. When two partners are in a open relationship its not cheating because they don’t believe in such petty things." That's moving goal posts. No you barged into this discussion to defend cheating and nowhere did you say that you would have meant open relationships specifically.

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan what moving the goal post? lmfao its just a fact they do not believe in narrow minded petty beliefs as you do because they hold true love in their hearts for the ones they are in a relationship with and all human beings in the world unlike you who is quick to judge and look down on other human beings who engage in consensual love with everyone and think you have a higher moral ground and there is "goal post" that you perceive to have been moved whatever that is lol

[9in_Serpent]

@elizamichale1 Not a problem beautiful i am just being honest, and i really hate to see hypocrisy and spreading of hate by people who claim otherwise and think they are somehow special and hold a higher moral ground when in fact they do not

[Pohjolan]

@9in_Serpent Do you claim that cheating in a committed monogamous relationship is not immoral?

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan depends if both people in the relationship have that belief

[marish01]

I let them know you are into incest

[Pohjolan]

@9in_Serpent Belief? Its a agreement. Now answer the question. Yes or no?

[Pohjolan]

@elizamichale1 So vegans should be willing to date meat eaters? Moreover this is a matter of risk assessment. Not believing.

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan its not an agreement if they did not agree to it lmfao what part of that do you not understand?

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan SO NOW YOU ANSWER YES OR NO? 😂

[Pohjolan]

@9in_Serpent Are you now pretending to be stupid? Fine if two people are in a mutually AGREED upon (as opposed to forced) committed monogamous relationship then is cheating wrong? Yes or no?

[9in_Serpent]

@Pohjolan Then yes according to their belief the other partner has violated the terms of the contract and has "cheated" or committed adultery if they are in a monogamous marriage and all that religion stuff. So what is your point?

[laly520]

no it isn't ok to judge em

its a preference

the girl is allowed to sleep with whoever n the guy is allowed to accept her or not

n vice versa

[Berethor]

Better be with man who appreciate you, and men who care body count appreciate you. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[marish01]

Of course. I would never want to be with a man who thinks there is nothing important about me choosing him as my man

[Berethor]

He should value the fact that he your first and only, you don't waited so long for nothing.

[coachTanthony]

Judge away. Never settle.

[marish01]

You can still judge though. It's called freedom of speech.

[coachTanthony]

Yes that is why I said... "judge away"

[NathanDavis]

quite honestly... I don't give a fuck if people are judging me

and most of the time I don't even realize it that they are

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Righttt

[NathanDavis]

@myloveforuisinfinte 🥂👋

[Daniela1982]

Why, do you have something to be judged for? Besides that speeding ticket? 🤔

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Lol what? I don't get it haha

[Daniela1982]

@myloveforuisinfinte That was for @nathandavis.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Oo cool👀

[NathanDavis]

that would really depend... on, who do we ask?

[Miristheiss]

LOL, you are going to be an old lady with wrinkles and cellulite before you finally give it up. Waiting for your husband and family is great.

Waiting and then not marrying until 38... LOL. Wasting 20 years of hot sexy bod and fun times.

Anyway, to actually respond to your question. It is ok to judge for any criteria that is important to you. We all judge when we are selecting and screening those we'd consider for dating and sex, long term relationships.

You are absolutely justified to screen for and against whoever you like based on whatever is important to you.

[marish01]

I didn't waste time. I've had lots of fun

[Whitewulf]

What if he does care about it and you say 0 and he reply’s oh uhm well mine is 42?

[marish01]

Fine. As long as he values my 0 count and is going to be loyal to me

[RavVid]

I think that is quite reasonable of you. Such a man would not seem to value relationships in the same way a woman with a high body count hasn't. Good thinking.

[JacobJordan]

Absolutely. The guys that typically do not care about a woman's body count are not able to land the type of woman they want. I care and I married a virgin it came up pretty fast when we started going out.

[Tim2nice]

I’m not interested in virginity, so count me out.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I care and it seems to piss women off 🤷🏽‍♂️

[DarkWinterNights]

People are going to judge one way or the other. Just because they don’t say it aloud doesn’t mean it won’t effect their decision making process.
I wouldn’t insult or mock a girl who I found out had slept with a dozen men and/or women, but I also wouldn’t pursue a relationship with her. Mostly because I feel sex is a special bond you make with someone. But also because it’s a biological fact that promiscuity is a huge detriment to having a successful long term relationship.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I care so I wouldn't be with a promiscuous woman, the men who would can have them.

[Joshydavid25]

Body count more matters because of psychological issues that come before and after the fact, not to just put value on anybody specifically.. A woman staying a virgin is powerful, but it's not the end all be all.. Even though you are saving yourself you're still not married..

[Grond21]

You are correct. It's an alignment of values. So of course it's important to assess others on what they believe and make judgments on what kind of man you want to be with

[Iron_Man]

No men shouldn’t be judged they don’t want a woman that’s had 100 guys they went zero Body count. The man also should have very low body count

[Jamie05rhs]

That's totally up to you. I never judge people for judging others lol.

[TonyMetal___86]

That body count thing is silly, a girl must be a virgin till marriage, that's what i believe in...
You miss marish the armenian girl are on the right path...

Body count zero means you're a golden girl, the more body counts you have, the more trashy you become!

[handsomelad70]

Well, I'm a golden boy. Does my body count matter?

[TonyMetal___86]

@handsomelad70 explain what do you mean by golden boy?

[handsomelad70]

I'm handsome and boyish at age 70.

[TonyMetal___86]

@handsomelad70 👍🏻👍🏻

[Caliguy88]

I don’t care about count. I don’t always want to know, but I’m a man whore and I can’t Judge the girl

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A man has to be stupid not to care about a woman's sexual body count.

The more people a person has sexual intimacy the more likely they will contact a sexual disease and some of those std's can be there for life.

[noohair]

Body count is a military term for people killed. The concept of purity has been reduced to a military term, sad. I think this whole concept is sick but I am weird. I think this whole thing came from the stone age where the Alfa male want to be sure all the children were actually his. I think 20% of Asians has some genetic link to Genghis Khan. In this modern society I think this concept is misplaced as we are all human and make mistakes. And humans have been prolific fornicators from the beginning. For me, I made mistakes. I don’t care about the past because I can’t grow if I live in the past and I should allow my partner to have the same privilege as I do.

[KrakenAttackin]

A man who doesn't care about a girl's body count does not care about the girl.