If my boyfriend asks me to strap on a dildo and give him anal, does that make him not straight?

We've known each other for a few months. He seems like an ok person overall. Lately he's been asking for anal. I don't like it. But he asked me to give it to him. The way he wants it makes me start to think he might not be straight, and he might be hiding it from me. I identify as female and I want a straight guy. What do you think?
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  • Sounds fairly kinky to me, but I’m probably a poor one to judge such things.

    MY idea of having some fun with the wife is hardly a ‘Ward & June Cleaver’ scenario either.

    UNLESS you add Eddie Haskell in the bed dogging June from behind while Ward watches them, flogging his monkey till it pukes...

    These problems aren’t *that* hard to solve though...

    Just ask yourself; ‘is this a hill I’m willing to die on?’

    And then proceed accordingly.

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  • I wouldn't say it makes him not straight I think it just makes him a guy who enjoys things in his ass. I had an ex before who liked this. I did it because I wanted to make him happy, if he got pleasure from it he's getting the pleasure from me and a toy not from a penis.

  • A man's gspot in his ass, so it naturally feels good. Doesn't make him gay. It actually good for a man's prostate to be stimulated.

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  • It might make him less manly - it actually definitely does - But unless he's actually attracted to dudes then no he's not gay

  • I've known of plenty of straight guys who say they love this, and it is a women that is wearing the strap-on afterall.

  • It’s a kink, it does not make him gay.

    sexuality does not work like that.

    a guy and girl both have lips, is kissing now viewed as a ‘gay’ act.

    Oh holding hands, guys have hands ergo it’s like holding hands with a guy if you do the same thing with a girl, l

  • He wants a woman to fuck him. There's nothing gay about that.

    • Exactly!

    • He's homosexual. A man is dominant one. Not feminine

    • Dominant and feminine aren't antonyms

  • It's called pegging and some men enjoy it. It doesn't mean they are gay or weird... they are whatever they already are... straight or bi.

    It's the same thing for a woman who enjoys anal intercourse. It doesn't change her sex status.

  • MY PIOR WIFE STUCK A SMALL DILDO UP MY ASS ONE TIME, AND IT WAS NOTHING TO WRITE HOME ABOUT. I WOULD NOT HAVE HAD AN OBJECTION TO HER USING A STRAP ON ON ME.

    FROM MY POINT OF VIEW, NOTING HOMOSEXUAL ABOUT THAT WITH A WOMAN DOING THAT WITH A STRAP ON. MAYBE A TURN ON FOR HER.
    NOT SURE WHY THAT KIND OF THING MAKES A WOMAN WONDER ABOUT A GUYS SEXUAL PREFERENCE. FORGET ABOUT IT, AND BUTT FUCK HIM !!!

  • I enjoy anal play/prostate massage with a dildo or vibrator. It's the role play of a "strap-on" that hints of gay. But analizing him with a suitable device can be satisfying an he can do the same for you. Even with the same devices.

  • No..

  • Depends are you a male?

  • I think you're hung up on labels. Question is do you want to peg him? If yes, go for it. If no, tell him that and move on from it.

  • Some guys are simply into having their butts played with, doesn't mean they're gay, it's just a kink that they have. The only way he would be either homosexual or bisexual is if he had another man fucking in the ass. Some men just like to be dominated.

  • Most likely straight, like does it make girls homo because they like anal.

    Thats stupid to think that

  • Straight with desire for anal play..

    He ain't gay

  • It's just a kink he has, the fact is a guy may want to feel what it's like to get penetrated but may not like a guy enough for the real thing. It's just how it is.

  • I think he jerks off to porn too much.

  • It doesn't matter... it makes YOU special because he trusts you to do something so intimate with him.
    Hopefully he's as attentive to your needs.

  • He might be a little bit bi.

  • having sex with a woman can't be gay. that's like saying it's lesbian if he uses a dildo or a vibe on you.

  • No. He may just want to try something new

  • That's quite possible, or he's just curious.

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