If someone sexually teases you for too long do you lose interest and actually get less horny?

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Or do you just keep getting hornier?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on how they go about the teasing and foreplay. Keeping it interesting and building towards something is an art. Really, the people who are Doms are basically professional teasers.

The whole concept behind it is that sex feels really good. The finish line feels especially good. But there's an ironic twist that some people never really seem to grasp- The longer the pre-orgasm sex lasts (and builds), the better the orgasm is.

So why race to the finish line and feel good for 10 minutes at the grand finale when you can feel good two+ hours and have an incredible orgasm. Yes this goes for women too on a lesser degree.

Dumbed down, it's basically the point of the 50 shades garbage. Terrible books, but the writing isn't the point, it's the allure of that type of play which boils down to teasing and building towards better orgasms.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I'm the one who is doing the teasing when being done but I think there is a peek point and a fine line ,, it all depends how it's being done for me I want to take the girl I'm with to that peek in foreplay and in making love having sex and fucking ,, to make it the best ever lol

RydiaMagnifique · Accepted Answer

I don't like it unless I'm in the mood to be dominated. If I don't wanna be dominated and instead I want regular vanilla sex, teasing is a mood killer for me so I kill the mood for him too by saying "Either fuck me or I'm gonna go watch some yt videos for a bit. I'm not in the mood for teasing."

Because with teasing comes begging and I don't like begging unless I want to be dominated.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

It depends on how long he’s teasing me. If i know he’s going to have sex with me and the tease is part of the buildup, it can really get me going. If he takes too long, like over a day, especially with no guarantee of sex after all the teasing, I lose interest.

torgor67 · Answer

Yep it annoys me to no end whether I am the target of it or I'm viewing some other way through media it just annoys me. It can be fun at first but then it can just drag out after a while however.

Sentimental_Stoic · Answer

There's a limit till one keeps getting hornier...  And after that it just seems to be a big turnoff...

scotcheggs · Answer

yeah if they keep me hanging too long without actually wanting to be more then yuh

FireRedPikachu · Answer

Due to my small size my clit sticks out and when guys and girls touch me there it makes me uncomfortable, it makes me vomit if my dogs come bounding in and there nose touches the area.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Once I realize someone's doing that to me I usually lose interest and start fucking with them.

ImSparkly · Answer

I'll loose interest, and/or it becomes nearly impossible to finish for me.

Secret6620 · Answer

Keep getting hornier... Curse my flower 😭🎀🌸

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Depends

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd say it's possible to get less horny over time but if it's physical contact while teasing I think that could go on for a while :)

Aenigmata · Answer

I'm not sure. I really hate the feeling of frustration. I might give up or I might have to take care of it. And if I am really turned on for a long time the orgasm won't be as good so I don't like to wait too long

Lemia · Answer

I'm all about respect unless my partner was ok showing me then I dont normally ask

infinitybreaker2018 · Answer

I lose the drive all together

olderirishguy · Answer

Yes. I can handle a lot of teasing but everty elastic has a snapping point

sensible27 · Answer

Yeah, no. Fuck no, can I say fuck no? Fuck no.

Agape93 · Answer

It compounds lol

Dargil · Answer

I have an internal "shot clock" like in the NBA. If she futzes around too long...

Apope16 · Answer

I do not get less horny. But I get fuckin pissed off and move on. We as men absolutely hate mind games from women. A high value man will simply not put up with that. A high value man has several different options and are likely dating multiple women.