If two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, is it wrong to try new things in bed and enjoy them?

I’ve been told I should be murdered by some Gag members because of one of my sexual activities with my fiancé.
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  • As long as you are both consenting to whatever it is you want to try and it's doesn't break any laws, then it's really none of anyone's business what you do in the bedroom with your partner.
    Relationships need constant work to keep them alive, and that includes the sex life. Communication is key to this, talk about your wants and desires with your partner and find things you both want to try and be open minded about trying something at least once.

    • Thanks for the MHO ♥️

  • Do nothing and grow apart, at least do something to grow together. The people who tries some times fail too. And people who don't try at all, why do I care?

    • Thank you for MHO!

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  • If both partners are willing to experiment then I don’t see a problem. What could you have ever done to receive threats and berated over. If they don’t like it they don’t have to try it

  • What? No. What was the offense? Unless it was illegal or depraved I see nothing wrong with this.

  • What have you done in bed (or elsewhere) that qualifies you for the sexual death penalty?

    • Sorry I thought I replied to you. If I didn’t oops. If I did, I didn't mean to offend.

    • I read your response to someone else and see that the issue is that you give and receive anal sex. That is not uncommon, it is not depraved, and it is not harming anyone. What two consenting adults do behind closed doors is no one else's business, but they wouldn't know about this unless you told them. What led to you discussing this with someone other than your partner?

    • I think it was being discussed in Gag.

  • definitely not wrong. i mean, gag is full of a lot of weirdos who just can't not be toxic if you disagree with their views/ not send them nudes. I wouldn't worry about their opinions too much :) so long as your communication skills are on point with you and your partner, enjoy!

  • It’s about informed consent, trust, respect, honesty and communication.

    you can pretty much do anything if you stick to the above and you both follow them.

  • No, What is so wrong about that? It doesn’t get better than Intimate exploration with someone you love. If you and your fiancée both enjoyed the experience who cares what others think. I had an adventurous 3some experience with my girlfriend (now fiancée) and we both don’t regret a thing

  • The world makes all sorts of crazy. Ignore them. Be safe. You be you.

  • What activity is the issue?

  • It's fun to try new things and it keeps the relationship fresh and exciting. What two consenting adults do in private is their business alone.

  • No, enjoy yourself.

  • Not as long as you save them for after the wedding.

    • Ummm sorry just because people have premarital sex doesn’t mean they deserve to be murdered. Get your priorities straight.

    • I'm responding to your question. I'm ignoring what some other idiot is saying.

  • Well it depends in because you were asking this question I have a feeling you're talkin about really extreme or disgusting stuff well at least to most people it would be and it's probably best that you know the answer to your question you're asking it because you want people to know about it and that might be not the best thing to do

    • No it isn’t. It’s fairly common. Unless people are hurting others and love one another, there is nothing wrong with doing what I’m talking about. My fiancé and I give and receive anal from each other.

    • @cheechee4me absolutely nothing wrong with that if you both consent and enjoy.

  • So you have been told you should be murdered by some GaG member, based on thinking of something new in bed.


    Reactions of that kind could be for no reason of logic, or ot could ve natural reaction to your suggestion that may be highly sick and illegal.


    If you want helpful answers, you need to help the GaG'ers understand what exactly are you asking us. What is this new thing in bed you want to know if its ok for you to do?

    • Well it isn’t sick unless you’re not clean or illegal.

    • What is it that you said, where a GaG user replyed, with a message saying you should be murdered? If you can't answer thst question, then this conversation will not lead anywhere.

    • Oh my fiancé and I give and receive anal from each other. Despite that two consenting adults doing sexual activities shouldn’t be an adequate reason to kill anyone.

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  • Not wrong at all, things can get complacent if you don’t change it up every so often

  • My girlfriend and I will probably get married (the reason I haven't proposed is complicated, but she understands). We had no sexual experiences before each other. Everything we try that is different is new. I don't think she'd have gone as far as she has if she had more experience. My view in sex is "you won't know if you like it until you try it".

  • I get board without trying new things tbh

  • that's fucked up.. what sexual activity could cause that type of reaction

  • No it's not wrong, you should try new things to keep your relationship alive. Those Gag members are just idiots that come on here to start trouble and have fun insulting people behind their mask on here.

  • Of course not , every relationship need new things from awhile to another so you won't get bored of each others

  • What is it you want to try?

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