If women can't orgasm through penetration then why do they like being penetrated so much?

Question

and choosing to be penetrated over being eating (basically the only way a man can make them orgasm) out as well.

I remember asking a question a while back that I can't seem to find right now because I forgot how I worded it out exactly. I think I asked if whether woman preferred to be eaten out or penetrated and surprisingly most or should i say all choose to be penetrated instead. i found this kinda surprising because i thought they were preferred to be eaten out instead since only 25% of the women in the world are able to orgasm through penetration alone.

i mean isn't having an orgasm the main reason to have sex in the first place?

if women can't orgasm through penetration then why do they like being penetrated so much?

ShoeGirl24 · Accepted Answer

I am lucky enough to orgasm by penetration so 7 times out of 10 sex results in an orgasm for me. But if I don’t get an orgasm, I still enjoy sex because it’s about being intimate with the person I’m with. I have never orgasmed by oral sex. So that’s why I prefer penetration.

lilaqua · Accepted Answer

I hate the orgasm centric way of looking at sex. It's about pleasure and being close to someone. To be honest, clitoral stimulation is nice and all but it's not a lot of fun other than the orgasm. Penetration may not make me cum but it feels good nonetheless.

ananya12 · Accepted Answer

In penetration u have ur partner more close to you than oral.. in oral only a guys mouth and hands r close until u r not in 69.. but in other acts u both r more closer and u can always stimulate her through her clit and breast for orgasm during penetrating!

OnlyYouKnowThat · Accepted Answer

There are many women who can orgasm from penetration, my current g/f and one of my exes could. Penetration seems to feel great for them, that's why some women crave cock.

Cammy137 · Accepted Answer

Many can if they change positions or find a compatible penis. My girlfriend never had before she met me. So I think its just a case of compatibility

SammyGurl · Answer

Im able to reach orgasm through penetration, however it feels so amazing during the penetratrive sex the feeling just gets better the longer we go for it. So even if I'm unable to orgasm, like if we're going for a really quick one; it just feels too good not to! There is another factor for me (and other women) altogether. Sex the physical, spiritual and mental connection with my guy is amoung the greatest intimacy I can express receive or feel with him, it's nearly inexplicable

MlleCake · Answer

It's eroticised and held up as the penultimate sex act.

Pennybee · Answer

Well girls CAN orgasm through penetration. But I have heard the same thing that not all women can. But I know if I don't, for whatever reason which happens sometimes, through penetration it still feels good just not enough to orgasm.

FreshStart_2018 · Answer

For penetration you must be completely relaxed and comfortable that’s why it’s so hard for woman to orgasm through penetration only

LidiaPerez · Answer

That's false. I can get an orgasm with penetration. Lot of women have this problem... but not all. And sometimes is because men don't move correctly.

PinkMichae · Answer

Even if I don't orgasm through penetration it still feels good. I don't think I've even orgasmed very often from being eaten out. To make sure I orgasm during penetration I rub my clit while he's doing it.

TazWax · Answer

Penetration still feels great even if we need a little more. For me as long as my getting penetrated and my clit is getting rubbed my good to go.

HitGirl_4680 · Answer

Who said they can’t?

jacquesvol · Answer

Some women can orgasm by penetration, if the guy knows how to do it.

KatherineJ · Answer

Because it’s the most intimate thing you can do with your man as a woman.

pinksock1 · Answer

They can, if you hit the right spot there is clit stim and deep penetration. Its hard to do the second one to be honest.  Anal always works for some too. So dunno where you getting these facts.