If you can "accidentally" slip it in the backdoor does it mean she's cheating on you?

Question

When it comes to anal sex preparation is everything. You can't just accidentally slip in no matter what porn says. But here's the thing, in porn it does just slip in. Why? Because off camera she prepared her butthole for the "oops I hit wrong hole" scene.

So here's the question, if you can successfully "accidentally" slip it in wrong hole without preparation, does it mean she's recently done the groundwork? If you engage in anal your butthole remains easily entered for a few hours. Which means one of two things, she's prepared herself knowing you're going to pull that old routine or she's recently been ploughed by another man.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have never tried anal.

However, I do have a very good friend that has.
Before she was with this guy, she had never tried anal before. And then one evening she was on a date, they had both been drinking, they ended having a lot of sex. She was extremely turned on and he "accidentally" slipped in the other hole and they had anal, she surprisingly liked it.

By that, I think you're wrong in the assumption it means they are cheating and not necessary that they even prepared beforehand.
How relaxed you are has something to do with it, the wetness of the area, and how your body is in general. Some are looser there than others.

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

Have I got the story for you girl lmao.

My boyfriend and I were having sex in doggy and things were just really wet and he was going fast. He pulled out and tried to force it back in really quick and just jammed it into the wrong hole. Pretty traumatic for both of us lmao.

normalice · Accepted Answer

Not at all. Probably the thing that makes a butthole its tightest is the anticipation of pain or humiliation. In the midst of normal sex those aren't really an issue, so the butthole relaxes at the same time the rest of a girl's body does. Especially in missionary when all her juices can run down and lube it up, accidental anal can happen quite smoothly. I've had it happen twice, myself. The first time it was sexy because she wasn't into anal but not zealous about it like some women, so we both knew what just happened but didn't speak of it. The second was less pleasant. That girl kind of freaked out, actually..

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

It could mean all that... or she likes anal play and maybe used toys on her backdoor, in which case, it might be easier to slip in there.
If she seems to always be ready for anal play, then I would wonder what she is doing during the day?
Then again, if I had doubts, or if I was cheating, i would wonder why I am in this relationship anyway.

JayMadrigal · Answer

I mean it's all staged but if some people are in to that ( )

AustinMan · Answer

No. Some women can accommodate it better than others.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Maybe it just means she takes elephant shits that stretched her ahole🤣🤣

harvest · Answer

I would think she wanted me to fuck her ass ;)

Red_Arrow · Answer

If you are really going at it and lube is all over, then it is possible to accidentally slip it in in many cases.

jshm2 · Answer

Nope. Could be they have a small pecker, or she is already stimulated.  Either way, "accidental" hints at "inexperienced" in my book.

LegendOfTheHairSniff · Answer

If she's prepared for it, then I'll think im expected to go into her drawer and pull out her monster dildo for that hole. If I go in there and find nothing, I'll look around the room for a baseball bat or lava lamp! 😈

chukio · Answer

Haha yea you are spot on.

Browneye57 · Answer

Not sure why you keep asking about butt sex, but your claims here are erroneous.  Learning about sex by watching porn is a sure-fire way to failure. I guarantee it, cuz it's ALL fake.

Andres77 · Answer

Poppy, are you studying law or law enforcement?🤨. 😉

user2345354 · Answer

It's difficult to confront your girlfriend when you're pulling her hair and thrusting your manhood into her asshole. I suppose you could say something like, "Honey, is someone having sex behind someone's back?" Or, "Did you forget to tell me your asshole was in an open relationship?"

Mark987 · Answer

My first girlfriend in high school. I was trying to do doggystyle and I made this mistake... she told me but i couldn't hear her.. and i continued she didn't regret it. This can easily happen

Wiredone · Answer

My woman loves it in the back. She always wears a butt plug. She loves the feeling of having it in her ass. In this case, no she's not cheating. If you have anal sex regularly it easily accepts your penis, even without wearing a butt plug.

Meldrum · Answer

Most likely the couple has talked about anal and this time she's gotten herself prepared for that penetration.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Good thinking.

Pete671 · Answer

Could be, she might be putting up with it out of guilt, or if the guy has a small penis it could be an attempt to feel stretched if she has a loose vagina,,,