If you had a chance to do a straight threesome with a couple, would you? And what would be your favourite part of it?

[Anonymous]

So I'm going to do a threesome with my girlfriend but I want to know how this looks like from the other guys perspective. My girlfriend and I are mid/late 20s and she's attractive, she's slim and looks like a model, she's Mediterranean

Would you be interested if it was just the guys having contact with her? (Nothing between the guys)

What would you want to get out of it? And what turns you on about being the other guy?

Women: if you want to contribute you can say what you think about what the other guy enjoys about it and any other insights

[RobT312]

I would do it. In the MFM threesome you described, I’d want to make sure the woman was pleasured. I’d want to help them do things they can’t do as a couple such as double penetration and all having sex together.

I have had a MFM but I was the guy in the couples relationship. We had a guy friend that asked to join us as a third. It would be fun to experience one from the “third” person perspective. However my only warning to you is it’s tough to keep it straight, at least for me it was Us guys ended up turning each other on and the threesome went bisexual.

[PointTaken]

I would highly consider it and 95% sure I would do it. For one, have not done that yet. Another reason, I fing it could be interesting and enjoyable for all.

[Asker]

That's cool, I'm hoping if we find a guy he doesn't flake so 95% sounds nice! It would definitely be interesting because we haven't had much experience, and if the guy is good it'd definitely be enjoyable, I would for sure want it to be memorable

[PointTaken]

Of course you'd want it memorable. What if you two or one of you wants to keep it going?

[Asker]

If we both do then I hope the guy would be down, so one thing I want to focus on is making sure he gets a bunch of enjoyment out of it If she wants it again but I don't I'd consider doing it to make her happy I think if I really liked but she wasn't super into it I could probably get her to do it for me a few more times if the other guy was really cool and didn't weird her out!

[PointTaken]

That's cool. Sounds like you considered all points of view. I wish you good luck then. Hopefully you'll find someone soon

[Asker]

Thank you, I just need to find a guy who'd be chill with this and can perform well by the way like say you were planning the situation out and her boyfriend asks you if there's anything you'd want for the threesome, what would you ask for?

[PointTaken]

Probably mostly lube. Just in case. I mean, if you try dp then need lube for anal.

[Asker]

Lol my girlfriend never did anal, I think it freaks her out a little, but if lube is all you wanted I'd get you a few bottles so you could choose what's best! But I've never needed any with my girl

[PointTaken]

Ok.. so get warming lube and use a little on her clit. Try it and see what happens.

[Asker]

Lol well I love playing with her clit when we're together so that sounds fun I was also thinking about buying her really nice lingerie to wear for when we meet the guy at a hotel room or something

[PointTaken]

That would be sexy. Dark red or black. Can't go wrong with those colors. Thong undies that have a sort of see through crotch.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking, like we'd have an initial "get to know you" night and then her and I could discuss it, and if everything is good we could invite him over to the hotel with her dressed up and hangout until things get hot Thong undies would be sexy on her, she's slim but has a really nice booty, and she has incredible poon lol I love it, so if it's see through at the crotch you'd get little looks at it

[PointTaken]

Good idea to get to know the guy a little. Hotel room is smart. You don't want the guy at your place right away. Would both be concentrated on her or would it be whatever happens with all 3? I bet she's hot af then. Hopefully you find the right guy you both will like.

[Asker]

Yeah the room would be safest, and I'd want it to be straight, I think naturally she'd be the focus but also she could focus on him, I know I'd want him to be happy with the situation for sure, his needs need to be met She's really hot, looks like a model, we looked a little bit but haven't found a guy yet, though she told me if it's too much trouble I could just select any guy I want and she'd do it as a favor for me lol

[PointTaken]

If it was me, her satisfaction is the concentration. I love pleasing women however they'd like. Everyone's needs should be met. No one left behind unless the person wants to just watch for a bit. If she's really into it, she'll be happy with two cocks, tongues, 4 hands all over her. Hopefully you'll find a guy that will please her as much as you both want.

[Asker]

That's the kind of guy I want for her, someone who will make sure it's a good experience for her and also isn't afraid to take charge with her a little bit I'd definitely be satisfied during it, I feel like always having both guys at the same time would be a little overwhelming for her, and the new guy is, well, new after all, humans like new, plus I want him to feel appreciated, so I'm actually okay with him getting some extra attention and I could just see her enjoying herself Yeah that's what I really want!!

[PointTaken]

So by taking g charge, he will most likely do things small to see how much she will like it. Maybe he will direct her to do things to you while he's giving her pleasure. Many things come to mind right now. It might be overwhelming at first I would think. Then once all 3 of you know how each one is, things will go smoother. I'm thinking first time will be a little awkward for everyone. Second time would probably be better.

[Asker]

Yeah exactly, that's why I need a guy who is experienced and creative, she does like it when the guy isn't afraid to lead! What kinds of things come to mind for you? Yeah I feel like she'd need extra time with just him the first time and I accept that, I would probably learn some things lol and second time we'd be more comfortable, which is why the guy definitely has to let me know if he enjoyed with her and if I should try getting her to agree to another night

[PointTaken]

First off, the guy would try things with her and if she likes it, he should teach you what to do. The guy also should be able to read her moods and actions. Direct her to what she would most likely want but she's unsure about. It would be an interesting experience for all 3. Then sometimes change it up where you're more in control. It does sound like you have a good plan on how to approach it and how to do it.

[Asker]

That's actually perfect, part of what makes it hot is to see what another guy could do with her, like for example the lube in the clit thing you mentioned, or just how you'd use lube with her in general, I'm sure there's reasons why you'd want that stuff!! I didn't think that he'd be helping us out by teaching me how to please my girl but I'd like that actually, it would definitely be an interesting experience Yes I think I've covered a lot of my bases, I'd definitely want a guy who doesn't live in our town, that would make it easier and safer for us I could almost imagine what it'd be like meeting and having her making out with him and eventually allowing him to get between her legs, it's intense as fuck

[PointTaken]

Get the right guy, he should be teaching you all that he experiments with her that she likes. You two should be doing some of your own if you'd like. If it was me, I would have to bring a small bottle of anal ease. As an experiment on her. There's a lot of nerves there and hitting the right ones she will love. Not all are into it though, that's why it's an experiment. Do you have like a distance limit of how close the other guy is living?

[Asker]

I'd appreciate that! Lol if you did that you'd be taking her anal cherry basically, I've never gone there, so it would be quite the experience! I'm not sure, I guess just another town? If it's really far we'd stay there for a week and meet the first day just to check the vibe and decide what we want to do

[PointTaken]

Lol. I haven't had complaints yet. One said nothing goes there then I used my finger a couple times, then she would move my finger there sometimes. It's all in what she likes though. That's a good idea. I'm glad you're being smart and safe about it.

[Asker]

Lol I didn't think that a benefit here would be that my girlfriend might start liking that! It sounds like you know your way with the ladies lol I know this might sound bad but I kinda want to see what happens if a guy is a little rough and hard with her when she's in bed with him, I've always been gentle cause I'm worried I'd hurt her or something Would you only do this with a couple in your area?

[PointTaken]

I haven't been with a couple. I do like a little rough. Some biting and nails raking down the back and inner thighs. Pulling her down toward me or whereever I want her. Not too sure if you'd say I know my way with the ladies. I just watch while I enjoy myself and see what she likes. In my area? Nah but not too sure how far I would travel. Lol

[PointTaken]

I mean nah as in not just my area. I would about anywhere. At least twice to see how it is.

[Asker]

Lol that's awesome, knowing my girl she'd be showing her bite marks and scratches to me a whole bunch of times when we're by ourselves, like "I can't believe he did this!" Also once we're comfortable you grabbing her and pulling her over definitely shows her how bad you want her Yeah you know it's definitely fun and even better for her if you're getting as much pleasure and enjoyment from it as you can, you need to get off too!! That's cool, if the couple is gonna travel to see you they should just fly to your town or an adjacent town

[PointTaken]

Lol. As long as she likes it. I like getting my back scratched and to have marks. It's all in where though. Some places are too sensitive for that. Some people really like pain so they'll want it in the sensitive spots. Gotta know what she likes from her facial expressions and movements. Now you got me thinking, I'd probably fly out somewhere. Some sightseeing and great sex. Good combo.

[Asker]

Yeah she likes to scratch my back and bite me on the shoulder or arm during it! It's a lot of fun, I get what you're saying lol and yeah I'd be focusing on her expressions, movements and noises right from the moment you first penetrate her Actually yeah if the guy was from out of town and flew in he'd be safe to meet with in my town too, not like he could tell anyone about our arrangement, and he could stay in our flat

[PointTaken]

That's a good point. He wouldn't know anyone and then it'll be better to get to know each other. There's many things to do before penetration. It will happen sparratic but that's only to tease her some and build her up for the explosion. She would have to cum about 3 times at least before I would.

[Asker]

Very true, and if it was me and my girl that would save a lot of money and she'd be more relaxed in a comfortable environment so it'd be easier to let loose, maybe more open to drinking a bit before anything happens I didn't think you were into that, sounds like you'd be spoiling her, I give my girl a lot of foreplay too and she loves it! What kinds of things would you be doing?

[PointTaken]

Lots of kissing, hand exploring all over the body not just the pussy and tits. There's more to her than those parts, especially up the inner thigh and up her side over her ribs. Pull her hair back a little, not too much, for a passionate kiss. Mouth exploring different sensitive areas. There's a spot inside the inner thigh that (from what was described to me) hurts a little but also a huge turn on when giving a hicky. I'm at work, so sparratic answering. Dm if you want to know more and I can put more.

[Asker]

That sounds really nice for her lol And I didn't know you were at work

[PointTaken]

Lol. I don't know anyone on here. I'm just saying, send me a private message. I can get more descriptive. I'm at work so I can't answer that often.

[Samantha36]

If it was ok with my boyfriend I would. If it was with 2 guys my favourite part would be having both my holes filled at the same time and being covered in cum.

If it was with a man and woman, I'd like to get fucked doggy while sucking on her tits

[Asker]

That's cool AF, DP sounds fun for sure, I think I'd have to build up to that with my girlfriend, but if the guy was down I'd be good! Who would get which hole? I'm not gonna expect an FMF for doing an MFM but if she wanted that I'd be willing, your situation sounds hot

[rachel776]

how can it be a straight threesome at least 2 of the people will be the same sex

[Asker]

The guys don't have contact, just focus on the lady at the same time or take turns

[CoolCatMar1]

No...

[Asker]

You're entitled to your opinion :)

[mattclark242]

I like to do it if it make the girl happy and that about it. I also like a 3 way with 2 girls a redhead and a blondie. I kind like to watch two hot people have sex if they where ok with it. I also like have sex with a lot girls from different races and age and hair styles and colors. I like to watch two lesbian women have sex or bi women. I like to get gang bang by a lot of women or maybe wanting a women to take control of me maybe a dominatrix women or maybe just tie me to the bed or kid nap me.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve done one and probably wouldn’t be something I would look forward to. Maybe if she was into it I’d have to consider

[Asker]

Do you mean you've done one with your girlfriend or you did it with a couple?

[BarryLiverstone]

I did it with my college roommate and a girl he was fooling around with

[Asker]

Ahh I see, my girlfriend is into the idea of the threesome but we haven't found a guy yet! Was the girl you did it with not really enjoying herself? My plan is to focus everything to maximize my girls enjoyment here

[BarryLiverstone]

The girl really enjoyed herself

[Asker]

That's cool!! My girlfriend isn't very experienced and neither am I, but I think the right guy would definitely show her how fun this could be, but he'd have to be respectful of my relationship with her

[BarryLiverstone]

If you are serious I would suggest doing some research on rules. Don’t just leave everything open and to chance. Jealousy, egos, and lies tend to lesson the threesome experience. Like you don’t want to walk away assuming the guy gave her a better experience than you can provide

[Asker]

Yeah ideally we'd have a rule that's like "anyone can stop everything at any moment" and things like no meeting up with him alone, using condoms, if feelings develop we end it Other than that I'm pretty open minded, I'm not sure if we should seek a stranger online or ask a friend/guy we know, I might get a little jealous but it's a sexy situation too, the point of it is that he gets to roll around in bed with my girl lol and if he's more experienced and she enjoys it a lot it's just casual and hopefully the relationship is more meaningful than one encounter

[BarryLiverstone]

Add a rule that you both talk before and after and make sure your bond comes first. Like I said the danger is worrying she likes him more (or Vice versa) so plan a meeting to go over everything and debrief.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'd be giving her a lot of attention and work hard on making sure she knows I care about her a lot, the bond is important as you said, if I get the vibe that they start growing some bond that isn't just sexual I'd end it, and I'm gonna plan it so we meet him at least once before the threesome

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck. Also don’t just make this all about her as that may lead to pressure or guilt on her end. Be ready to speak up and get some things you want as well

[Asker]

Yeah I think I'll be joining in too, and having my way with her too, I definitely want it to be enjoyable for the guy too but I don't know how I could make sure he's having a good time

[clampfan101]

I’ll always only want my wife in bed with me.

[Christoff92]

I would be more comfortable with one male two female intercourse 😊

[DanielleB23]

I have and it was fun

[Asker]

Were you and one of the guys in a relationship? All my guy friends have done this but I haven't, of course they did it with girls they weren't dating and I'd do it with my girlfriend

[abc--123]

I want to

[Asker]

What about it appeals to you?

[Anonymous]

Personally for me, its all about the girl. And Satisfying her. First.
What would turn me on about having another guy involved is, he uses her like an object to cum.

Yes its sex, but theirs somthing that turns me on about guys using her.
even if it was my girlfriend.

Id definitely be down for it and have done it before.