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If you "had" to settle for one or the other, would you rather a great relationship with mediocre sex or a bad relationship with really hot kinky sex?
Brainsbeforebeauty Editor
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Thanks for the awesome responses so far. I'm happy to say that for the most part, great relationship has been chosen more than sex. Which shows to the women that think all men want, care about is sex is not true. Men and women alike, want a good relationship. Great sex is important, but if there's more communication, both is possible. I'm happy and restored my faith a little to see there is still people that value a good relationship the most.
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No communication, arguing more than not. Pretty much not getting along unless having sex...
Hot kinky sex please.
In a perfect world can have both but no such thing is perfect is there lol
Very true... my ex was violent and abusive but that made me try things sexually to try and please her but never happy lol. The sex was very hot and kinky though.
Well sorry you dealt with violence. People always think only women suffer abuse at the hands of their SO and that's pure bullshit. At least you enjoyed the kinky sex tho.
What started out being outside my comfort zone has turned into a pleasurable experience these days are turns me on
Great relationship
Mediocre sex is better than bad sex. So a good+mediocre is better than a bad+good.
great relationship, mediocre sex
Dated all types, currently started my list over. Hoped I would have found a rather strange ordinary. Always keeping it kinky! Hot sex only last for a short or open style commitment.
Great relationship! It's a lot easier to work on the sex part to get better but if you don't have the foundation of a great relationship, that won't work.
great relationship for me. even though I am into lots of kinky things. relationship as a whole is more important being good
Great if you can have both but that's not always the case 🤷
absolutely. I have decided I no longer want a relationship any more so mine is hypothetical.
Yeah I've been the same way. I do miss a relationship. But what's out there nowadays with all the hook up culture, people putting everything out there for strangers, too easy for people to cheat and lie these days. I didn't become single by choice, but stay that way by choice
same here. would love to have a good female friend to just spend time with and both be our liberated selves without worry. you seem lovely. but not many feel the way we do so alone it is for me.
Yeah I tried that once. Didn't work cuz if a man can't be honest/faithful to his wife/girlfriend? I'm usually a relationship person but wasn't ready for one. And knew it was someone I couldn't/wouldn't fall for. Sex was great, but that was all it was. And it stopped working, but mostly because of selfishness and lies. I didn't ask for love, but needed respect and honesty. But became more just when he wanted sex but everytime I did? So I had to end it, great sex or no. Do miss the sex, truth be told. But not the person 🤷
🤔 That's a tough one. I would say great relationship with mediocre sex. I could always masturbate. The bad relationship with really hot kinky sex would be amazing when you're having sex but you're not going to be having sex 24/7.
That's the dilemma I'd have. And if the relationship gets too bad, well the great sex might become not so great. Mediocre sex could turn into better sex of both partners willing to explore with on making the sex better. Still like hot kinky sex tho 😇🤔 lmao
@Brainsbeforebeauty you and me both 🙌
Lol ☺️👍🏼
Great relationship with mediocre sex
Agreed. Have to have a foundation of a good relationship to build on. Sex can evolve into better sex with willingness and communication. Whereas most "bad" relationships barely last in the long run
So true I like the way you think
Ha ha ha really?😉
Yes lol
Well then, thank you 🤗 lol
Your welcome
Definitely a great relationship. I've been in terrible relationships and I'd sooner be single and masturbate than endure another one.
Welcome to my world lol Not so much the relationship. Had one bad, one really good till died. But now, single and what I see, have had people try to get away with, well 🤷 But now single
a great relationship, mediocre sex every time
Sex can always get better with practice. Lots and lots of practice lol Happy New Year to you and yours 🎆
thank you, and to you and yours as well😊
Thank you
My wife tolerates my feeble efforts 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😀😂 lol
Great relation
Hot kinky sex
A very good relationship like the one I'm in
That's great. Appreciate. You guys have a great New year's🎆
Same to you @brainbeforebeauty
Same to you
Never settle!
I've got plenty of great relationships with friends and family but I've never had good sex so it like to have a relationship with great sex for once (it'd be nice to cum for once).
I really enjoy "hot, kinky, sex", but would probably have to go with the great relationship.
What people forget is that the brain is a sex organ too. If you put more effort to stimulate it, the sex would be much better.
Great relationship and then I turn it into hot kinky sex :)
That's how it should be 😉