Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This guy, within a month of knowing, sort of propositioned by implying he was good in bed & had had flings, etc.
It was a wth moment because for
a) I don't act/dress provocatively so I gave no indication I'd even entertain the idea of sex with a relative stranger,
b) being a relatively confident woman I don't come across as someone who'd trade sex for don't know how to refer to it except "favours" (e. g. he puts in good word with a business owner he may know as a generic/basic example).
c) given a & b as I believe he's in a relation - and just looking for a casual hookup (seeing as he mentioned flings) - I'd be even less interested
I found it mildly offensive. So that when he tried winning favor it just didn't really hit any I don't know "key"/"interest".
Guys, if you just see a woman as someone to have sex with (early on) does that mean you don't really respect her regardless of what you say?
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+1 y
Okay so he only mentioned this sexual bit once. And then tried to curry favour. But due to the nature of his commentary my "back was up" and he didn't really do himself any good until later on when made very obvious (a friend said he really, really likes you as example).
+1 y
I see a lot of guys are mentioning respect. This guy is to my knowledge in a relationship so how's he being respectful? To myself or his possible woman
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What Guys Said
(37)I dont date a girl for sex i date her to get into a steady relationship of we have things in common
If someone is a slut or is easy i just dont respect them. The end.
Sometimes i test a girl if im not sure. I try to have sex and if they go for it they are friend zoned or ghosted. This is what a lot of fuck boys are doing if anyone was wondering why.
You don’t tell a girl those things.
Whenever I meet a girl we have chemistry and physical attraction.
Sex comes shortly after.
Naw I
For some, respect comes after getting to know the character of that person
i wouldn't see a woman like that-but if i did-i think that would show i don't respect her.
You can't always assume they want sex if she wants it she will hint it that's what I always get told
Guys so respect in different ways I show my respect to a girl by teasing her if I don't respect you I wouldn't joke around you guys are just charged and sometimes we just want sex but it doesn't mean we respect them any less most of the time.
i respect my FWBs. this guy though? i'd say listen to your gut.
I chose "other" since both the A & B answer were condescending. It's like this... When I'm out on a date, it's because I'm sexually attracted to her. You will have no doubt about that! There are tactful ways to get that point across without coming across as a creep. For instance... I have personally found out that the easiest way to get a girl to talk about sex is to ask what she does not like. It makes the point that I'm interested in having sex with her and I also respect and care enough about her boundaries. Communication is key in any respectful relationship and that especially holds true in the bedroom. Besides, just because I want to have sex with you... it does not mean I have to.