If you love big breasts how would handle a relationship with a flat chested woman?

[Anonymous]

So... I know what this seems. Oh he's a teenage guy who can only think in big boobs which is very immature of him.
Well bare with me. I'm only human. The only fetish I have is breasts. I never thought it would be a problem. When dating I would be extremely aroused if the girl had large breasts and didn't show. This because I'm very uncomfortable if a woman shows cleavage. I try my best to don't look wich feels uncomfortable, that's how some guys feel.
Anyway, I met a woman who made my life feel like a dream after many dark years of depression. She is the best thing ever happened to me, people told me they never see me smile so much and they we look like a comedy romantic movie. I love her so much, we have 1 year of relationship, already lived together for a while and faced some couple issues, one being sex. This one is not going that well because normal sex with us is not working, she feels pain and we're trying to fix that. Anyway, each time I'm touching her and feeling her I just miss volume in breasts. I try to imagine in my head, this is a very visual thing.
When I met her for the first time I didn't know the type of body she had. Only when I took her bra I felt disappointed. And I hated that I was disappointed and that I have this fetish, I'm trying to fight it since then.
She considered surgery because she would love to have more, but after a while she stopped saying that. I think she knows I like large breasts, although I always try to change the topic. I don't want her to feel bad. Do you think this will pass with time? Did you experienced something like this?
She is 28 and I'm 25. We love each other.

[SueShe]

Well, when I read your question, I automatically put a label on you. Perhaps I am wrong but most likely not.

I see you getting into a serious relation with a girl, any girl, big breasted, normally built or small chest. On the long run, even the big breasts will not longer be enough to satisfy your fantasy.

What will happen? Exactly. The same thing that happens in 80% of the case. You will slowly start to persuade your girlfriend to get bigger and bigger breasts, regardless whether she agrees to it or not. The gentle "motivation will turn into more pressure until she agrees.

That is basically the standard procedure in most breast enhancements that plastic surgeons have to deal with. It is not the girl that wants bigger breasts but the guy.

Result: Backpain and wrong posture and an increasingly failing health for the girl and increasing frustration for the guy when her health problems because of the guys permanent wish for bigger breasts.

[Asker]

I get what you're saying but I really don't think that's the case. I really just want some volume, I had relationships before. The first one she had medium breasts and I was really satisfied with it. Things didn't go well but that did not have anything to do with her body. In this case my current girlfriend said she wanted to get surgery because she wants te prettier for herself as well, she would like to use bikinis and dresses that have tiny cleavage but right now she can't, and she always go out with padded bras. And when I read the negative things and dangers of surgery I feel so bad that she would pass through that and it must be her decision. I don't encourage her to do surgery if she doesn't want to. I love breasts, I love to grab them and do stuff men usually like to them. And some of those things I can't do.

[SueShe]

Gamsa hamnida for your feed-back

[Asker]

Is that Korean?

[SueShe]

ye (yes)

[SueShe]

But you, being from Korea should really know that

[Asker]

Actually I'm from Spain, i am in Korea though, dating a Korean. And yes I know that of course, I just was surprised for you being korean as well. But that is interesting, plastic surgeries are quite famous in your country. Why did you say what you said? Did something happen to one of your friends or someone you know, or are you speculating?

[SueShe]

You must be mixing me up with someone else because I don't recall saying that about plastic surgery. Although it is true that Korea is famous for plastic surgery. Many Europeans are actually going to Seoul for plastic surgery.

[Anonymous]

How convenient you made this account specifically to ask this questionThis doesn't seem like a troll at all

[Asker]

Since some months I wanted to discuss this and today I found this app. I really want to solve this somehow

[Mewipaws]

Breasts are still breasts whether it is big as Earth or flat as a airport runway

[OlderAndWiser]

If you really love her, you should not need to ask this question.

[Asker]

That is why I suffer with this. I hate this part of myself. This is really a fetish that is with me since I saw a picture of a woman naked. I never thought this would be a problem because I thought this wouldn't happen.

[Anonymous]

Cold steel and 38 EE saline implants can cure that.

[Asker]

That would be ridiculous