Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I was watching a show and the guy called it quits because the girl screwed someone while trying to build up something with him as well. It wasn't cheating since they both knew they were getting to know others, but i do find it disrespectful.
She got mad at him for finding out and at the other guy for possibly ratting her out. But you’d think she’d be mad at herself for even doing it or keeping it secret. She claims it no one elses business what she does but i feel others should be told that they’re not the only one you’re likely banging within a short period of time. What if one of them would’ve caught something or given her something?
I’m glad he had the standards to walk away. But I dont expect others to agree and just want to see where everyone stands. I’ve stated before that I’m not for casual sex and have to be in a longterm relationship to consider sex. If he just goes around banging people while getting to know me, I wouldn't be able to take him seriously. I’d assume he lacks patience and/or acts on impulse and easily gives into temptation. #FeelFreeToList #RomancingTheStone
If you’re getting to know someone and on the verge of dating them, but they sleep with someone else during that period, would you still pursue?
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On another show, the guy slept with two girls and told the third, “But you’re the one i love THE MOST.” Lmao she wanted to save sex til later in the relationship and he thought by telling her thag, he’d still get to hit. She had so called standards and broke up with him. But she came back like a month later and is now dating him 🤣 I guess she just needed time to make sure he was “clean” again
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To go into more detail about this first scenario… So its a show similar to the Bachelor/ette, so of course all of the men know she's dating them/getting to know them. Bt i just find it disrespectful that you sleep with em (especially so early on in the show) and expect more than a handful of guys/girls to still Want to date you. Of course she felt no shame and said she was an adult and could do adult things but still. She had no respect for the other suitors in my opinion
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11 39i probably still would continue to pursue her
Lol if they do sleep with a nother dude yet we getting to know each other. God better be ma witness I would lose that interest first class.
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Hahahaha Hu ma choice crazy.
yea and it's because i actually understand the difference fuckin someone and fuckin wit em sex in essence really means nothin cheatin in terms of sex really means nothin datin actually means more than sex because it's intimate in nature
I actually want them more when other girls want them. Guys seem to be different in that scenario, it puts them off, they will sleep with you but not want a relationship
I agree with you, he should have walked away and she's the guilty one.
Yea im glad he walked
That's good, good luck :)
It sounds like the dude should've been faster on getting things going with her. She was clearly ready to go and he wasn't doing it so she took the option of the dude who WAS ready to go.
she's dating like 20 dudes lol. He wouldn't even kiss her lips yet because he saw her making out with others in the same day. Sleeping with one was the breaking point for him
Well, if she's dating 20 dudes I'm not sure how he could've thought she wasn't sleeping with any!
Its a tv show lol. Similar to the bachelorette but you’d think she wouldn't sleep with any. They usually dont until top 3.
Ah okay. So, no guy a girl would really want for a relationship would be cool with her fucking other dudes while they're all supposed to be competing for her. The only dudes who would be down with that are dudes who plan to fuck her and dump her. So if she just wants a series of fucks with a variety of cocks (like Samantha in Sex and the City, who we all know is modeled after a gay dude), then her approach makes sense. But if she actually wants a relationship? Nah.
I agree. Plus the guy who left wouldn't even kiss her yet after watching her makeout with others minutes before. He has self respect and i can tell he wanted to give her a chanve to calm down bt when she slept with someone, that was the end for him