If your friend wanted to engage in a one night stand with you, how would you react?

If your friend wanted to engage in a one night stand with you, how would you react?
Let’s just say your best friend (this best friend can be the same or opposite gender), confesses to you and says they find you attractive, and they want to engage in sexual activity with you.

How would you react? Would you go along with it, decline, or even go as far as to end the friendship? Why did you choose this decision?
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  • I’d decline!

  • I have a friend I want to have one night stand with but I’m afraid to ask her. I don’t want to hurt her feelings.

  • I'd feel hurt. You mean you just want to fuck me and forget about taking the relationship seriously or advancing to the next step? So you just want to use my body for a night? ouch

  • I already have with a lot of my friends. I’d be down for it

    • You aren’t my friend

    • Not interested

    • @surveymaster - are you delusional? Why would she or anyone ever want to see you cum ? You just sound creepily desperate and help perpetuate the unfortunate reputation of sub-continent males

  • Decline. I'm not attracted like that to my best friend and if she suggested it again I would have to end our friendship

  • It depends. If you're free minded people and you can see the act as something purely physical, without being in love. Then it's great and it shouldn't ruin your friendship.

  • No best friend here. But if any friend of mine makes such a confession to me, they're out.

    • Damn

  • I’ll just laugh lol we had sex what, two weeks ago?

    • Lol this actually happened to my boyfriend and I. We were playing video games, then it just kinda happened. He confessed the night after and we’ve been together ever since.

    • Aww congrats

  • I've already done it with a few friends. Most of them friends with benefits. The sex was pretty good and with all of my partners both of us felt comfortable. But we were friends. There wasn't love attachment. So with each we would end things after a few fucks or whatever. Still on good terms with all of them. Id say maybe I've had sex with 1 casual friend and dry humping to orgasm 1 best friend (just underwear). Then with my very best friend I spooned her on Thanksgiving night and we slept together without sex. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • Most likely disgusted that he see me in such a way

  • Well my best friend is my girlfriend so to end it at one night stand it'll be sad 😂

  • I would refuse it.

  • Might take me a day or two to sort out the emotions involved with that offer before I answered. I've done it a few times and we are all still friends, just depends on the strength of the hearts and minds of those involved.

  • I don’t do one night stands so this would not be really something

    • You don't do one night stands even with women?

    • I’m not interested in women

    • You're not? what if she is hot?

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  • Sure, I've wanted to sleep with most of my female friends at one point or another.

  • If I'm single, and I'm attracted to my friend, I don't see why not. Especially if she initiated.

    Right now I'm in a relatiomship, so I'd never.

  • Shocked that he had the audacity to ask that question.

    • What if he is just wanting one time sex chat, where you would guide him to cum ehile watching him cum on video call...

    • No friend of mine would have the audacity to tell me that kind of thing, because I'm a Christian, my life is not revolved around those things and people in my circle know that. So if he wants to "cum" he should get himself a wife because I'm not the one 😊

  • If a guy has a girl referring to him “as her best friend” (who isn’t his wife/girlfriend) then he’s got reevaluate his ball size and move the f*ck on.

    Straight men never refer to women as “best friends” when it’s platonic and there is a reason for it.

  • Most of the females who might be called friends have been fucked by me at some point in the past.
    I have weird relationships with people.

  • Ye, sleeping with friends is good

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