If your partner has a body part you don’t like (say pointed or saggy boobs) can you learn over time to block it out and cum easier?

If your partner has a body part that isn’t attractive to you overtime can you block it out and finish easily or learn to like it?

Or does that not happen and you’ll always not like it?

Or if you have been used to sleeping with partners who only have body parts you’re attracted to would it take a long time to adjust to the new one who has something you dont like

Would you not have pre cum or struggle to orgasm if this was the case
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  • Yes, guys can adjust. I remember dating a girl who was incredibly passionate- great kisser (which I enjoy), good at oral (which isn't my thing, but she was good), she had great legs and she had a nice set of titties with huge nipples, which she enjoyed having me play with an suck.

    She was extremely shy about the rest of her body. To make a long story short, when we finally got into bed she had a pillow laying across her stomach. When I tried to pull it away, she resisted. When I finally saw her stomach she had a nasty appendix scar, I'm mean that it looked like someone had cut he open with a steak knife.

    She started crying. "Go head and say it. It is ugly and disgusting."

    I was more interested in finding out how the scar came about (long story), but the fact I wanted to know seemed to make it easier for her. In the end, we had great sex. We continued to have great sex, and after a while I hardly noticed the scar. I even began calling the scar "Her special spot." Eventually she had plastic surgery, but I don't think it made that much of an improvement (it usually doesn't).

    She was the only woman I ever proposed to, but she turned me down and ended up marrying someone else (now divorced). Oh, well.

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  • If you have feelings for your partner, then things like that stop being important - for most people at least. I'm sure there are some people who fee like they HAVE to have a partner that they find physically attractive in every way, but they're the exception. Most people need to be attracted overall to their partner, but don't need every single feature to be near-perfect.

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  • I had a girlfriend that when she was younger had a pan of boiling water spillover her boob, chest and stomach.

    Sex is not just about a persons body, it’s also an emotional connection.

    I had zero problem kissing her boobs or stomach.

    a friend lost his leg in an explosion, he still has sex, his wife still orgasms.

  • If u are attracted to her and there is a particular part off her u don't find attractive but u are still attracted to her overall it won't be a issue a guy will still cum

    • The problem is must have not been taught about sex education for males the sex dont even have to be good for him to be able to cum as is simply a result of stimulating his cock that can get him to finish

  • Very easily. It's a matter of redefining beauty.

  • Quit making excuses for your man. Your body parts are irrelevant. Figure he spends way too much time jerking off to porn instead.

  • It's quite unusual that I dislike a girl body part, as long as it's natural.

    Body parts I dislike:

    If your partner has a body part you don’t like (say pointed or saggy boobs) can you learn over time to block it out and cum easier?If your partner has a body part you don’t like (say pointed or saggy boobs) can you learn over time to block it out and cum easier?
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      If your partner has a body part you don’t like (say pointed or saggy boobs) can you learn over time to block it out and cum easier?

  • slowly getting used to it and bang her with more rough and hard

  • Id have no problem with that the minute she mentioned it.

  • When you love someone, you learn to overlook their faults. You just see the good in that person.

  • Hmm, ice never worried about one body part. Everyone is different and I just concentrate on the things I like about the woman.

  • Sheesh. Nobody’s body is perfect. It’s not like we’re talking deformities. No blemish is gonna keep me from cumming. That is just not possible.

  • I have been on sexual abstinence for 5 years. And all I need to go crazy is a p**sy. You don't have to worry about anything on your body.

    If he has a connection with you he will fuck the hell out of you when he is hungry enough. Maybe he will do it less often than if compared to some who he finds extremely hot.
    But you don't need to worry that much. If he is faithful doesn't have other options, nature will do its job. It will make it happen for both of you

  • Yes I can she lets me cum in her so I don’t mind her flaws and I have them also

  • I never had a woman I found realy attractive. I never learned to find her prettier. Her looks has nothing to do with how fast I cum

  • I just avoid it
    Because I like her totally
    So that part of body don't annoy me

    • It doesn’t stop you being fully into it or less likely to cum?

    • No I don't think

  • cum is not related to one body part, its wholesome sex, i dont mind if small parts not good or bad, sex is whole body act.

  • For me it’s about connecting emotionally and how she communicates and reacts to what I do with her. I prefer slim girls with firm breast. But I also had sex with a few overweight girls with big saggy boobs and it was a very sweet experience. The girl’s experience with sex and knowing what guys like, is more important than the look and shape of her body parts.

  • I would not care becuase I like/love her and I'll be sexually satisfied.