That happened with an ex. She'd never mentioned that she wanted to try anal and some harder bondage, then one night after a bottle of wine or five, she told me she wanted me to do it. I didn't, because I thought bad idea when she was really drunk. About two or three days later she fessed up that she'd wanted to ask for ages but wasn't sure I'd be up for it. She wanted me to use a condom (for hygiene) for anal and off we went.
It's not a particularly 'exciting' sexual request these days, but it was from her, she was really prudish when we first got together - strict upbringing, churchy, father was a headteacher at a local grammar school etc - boy did that repression end up coming out! Always the quiet ones!0 1 0 0I had a girlfriend that wanted me to eat M&Ms out of her asshole. I would put them up there one by one and then she would squat over my face. Every night was like Halloween.
What does she want you to do?0 1 0 0I'd prefer to not go into much details since we are into really specific stuff, but last night she proposed switching roles and try some variants. Usually she's dominant one and the "aggressor" so to say.
ohhh, you need to decide if you want to be part of that. Me, not so much
She said that she wants me to "Taste the Rainbow" so I have to pick up a bag of skittles for tomorrow night :)
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Way before we got married, my husband fantasized about having another women pleasuring us both in bed but he never ever asked. However, I always suspected he'd like to try a threesome. So, I took the initiative instead. He was genuinely stunned that I did it. The goal was to please him. It turned out that I loved it as well.
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You don't seem quite keen on your current partner are you?
0 1 0 0It's not that I'm not keen on her, I'm not just very keen on sex stuff. Especially now that I got my new job, and that's what's on my mind most of the time.
Then talk to her she should understand
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10 14I prob won't. Im pretty vanilla. Not sure if i fully understand the question
0 1 0 0Honestly depends On what it is. Really deprnds. Either way I’ll need time to process. And I may say no.
0 2 0 0I've probably already said "yes" before she's done speaking, lol
0 1 0 0Depends on the request, but I'd like to try anything new, as long as it doesn't harm me or is too painful to handle.
0 1 0 0Too broad. There are some things I’d be willing to try, some that can start slowly and work up, and done that are absolute nos.
0 0 0 0Depends on the request
0 2 0 0Such as...
0 0 0 0A miracle and very much welcime
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That would depend on what it is.
0 1 0 0Well i will discuss it and will do it to please him
0 0 0 0What’s the request? I might be game that very moment.
0 0 0 0depends on the request
0 0 0 0I'd check to make sure it was my wife.
0 0 0 0I may need a couple of days to think about it. And I may decide I do not want to try it.
1 1 0 0Be more specific
0 1 0 0It's a general question, for example a new activity or switching roles
If it was something nasty, I dont think I could find a way to be comfortable. However a reasonable request is always welcomed
Depends on what she wants...
0 0 0 0Like what?
0 1 0 0Something unusual
As long as it didn't involve my ass or something probably I'm not getting pissed on and several other hardcore things
Dress up BDSM something mild sure
It depends, what kind of request are we talking about?
0 2 0 0Usually i already have pants around my ankles. 😂
0 0 0 0It depends how bizarre the request is.
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