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If your partner told you they LOVED YOU for the first time during sex would you believe them or do you think they just got caught up in the moment?
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34 40What a person says while having sex about love is not reliable. The great feelings during sex tend to make a person say sentimental things that they may not feel or believe at another time. Among the most common is, I love you.
Seems trashy as fuck to sex someone you don't already love... But I guess my standards are in the stratosphere for modernity.
it's possible to get caught up in the moment other than during sex, but I definitely don't take it seriously when I hear it during sex. It's happened before that a woman who definitely didn't love me told me she did only during sex.
Sex is only one expression of love, and not the only way too relate too affection and love of another person. If that is the only time I am told that, I will take it with a grain of salt.
It must be that good yo you're hitting the right spots.
I'd leave, can't stand being told that
Its just part of fantasy im the moment. I have experienced situations where partners say it on purpose to manipulate me in the relationship. Sometimes it is a mental health thing too. Never believe words, only actions.
I don't wanna be told that for the first time during sex. I would assume they weren't serious and I'd wonder if I should say it back, or stop and ask if they meant it, or let it go without saying anything... it would just stress me out
It would depend on many variables: length of involvement; intensity of relationship; size of my tool compared to her last male partner, etc.
What if they say it right before sex
They could be saying it just to get laid
Hah what if they say it after sex
To get sex again?
Why is sex seen as so negative when it comes to love?
What is wrong with you people?
They love you in that moment.
If we been together for a long time why not? hehe it will be romantic tbh
If she swallows, I will believe her.
Caught up in the moment... If they do, their actions moving forward will show it. And, you all should have a conversation as to where you would like the relationship to go.
Pleasure and emotions are not the same but they can feel the same and many people get them confused...
I'd take it with a grain of salt, or not believe it at all. People say things when they're caught up in the moment under the influence of hormones and stuff...
If he only tells me I love you during sex I would feel insecure and think that he only wants me for sex but since he tells em every single day of my life with every good morning and good night of course I believe him lol. About this question though I would say caught up in the moment because some people say crazy things when they’re at payed my boyfriend called me handsome one time after sex and I have never forgotten about that 😂
Depends when you have sex. If you have sex on the first date and she says "I love you", I don't believe her.
I would think he was caught up in the moment; for sure.
I never believe anything a guy tells me during sex. When he tries to talk, I literally cover his mouth 😂
This is why I won't have sex before marriage.