Im 35yrs old and only have slept with one man. My husband now. Would you think its weird? Or special?

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  • I think it's cool and special , I hope he feels the same way ,, and I hope he knows all of your fantasys and in one way or another at least tries to makes it a point to act them out,, or does it in away that might make you feel as it could be happening and your feeling it because its different and he's making it that way just to please you ,,, i guess it all depends on what your in to ,,, if it was me I would make it a point if I was to put a blindfold on you every night ,, you would think you were with a different guy every night,, so I have to say in a weird sexy way ,, lol,, I think it's special wait what do you think weird or special

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  • May I say that your question speaks of your mind. Perhaps due to friends' influence you think that attachment with one man (husband) is not appreciated by many women. Adventure is one reason which compels one to have sex with others too. I must say that explore your mind, and if you feel that having sex with one man for many years has taken away charm and adventure from you, What next step will you take: cheat on husband or convince him to enter into open relationship, or 3some etc. Decision is up to you.

    • His not open minded at all

    • Do you find yourself dissatisfied to face closed minded person? One of my colleague got divorce from her husband because of his very very conservative outlook: no frank and dirty talk, she loved nudity, he disliked it, and ultimately they parted. Sometimes I wonder how a couple lives happily if there is no adventure in life.

    • Thanks for MHG.

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  • The fact that you're asking this question, you're messed up. You know the "right" answer, right? You probably secretly want to up your body count because you think that one (that's with your husband) is so terrible. You have an ego problem. If you cheat on him with a young guy, you're being used. Your husband will feel like shit and see you as garbage. Think about your feelings.

    • Wow Settle down

    • you're the one who downvoted my comment, something is going on, well i'm just pissed cause people like you end up being homewreckers.

    • That's a BIG ASSUMPTION and speaks volumes on you.

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  • My husband has only slept with me for what it is worth.
    I did have 1 before we met though

    • Do you wonder if he is curious to try with others?

    • I used to think so, but not so much these days. He's really prude lol

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  • More men and women should follow in your footsteps. I despised myself for having a count of 2 (even though nearly 10 years apart in life). But yea I had no intentions of surpassing 1 and certainly no intentions of surpassing 3 in life

  • I think its special, its a lot more meaningful then if you slept around. Also statistically your marriage will be more secure and fullfilling then if you slept around.

  • it's ok, I heard in Islam you have to keep your virginity until marriage, so I don't think this is weird.

  • I would think that you are both very lucky in that you are obviously very compatible and perfectly happy with each other. Kudos to you both. Enjoy.

  • No it happens. My husband is the same im his only person he's been with.

    • It will change soon if you keep talking to guys on here

  • If you're relationship is great, lucky you. Nothing is weird about not sleeping around, what's weird is judging other people for their own path.

    • Judging people for their own path allows you to prevent yourself from getting in harm's way. For eg. many people would think twice before getting in bed with a hooker. A judgement is being made in that process. Saying that you shouldn't judge others seems to be a trend nowadays. One wouldn't be alive if one wouldn't judge.

    • @UrAverageGuy Okay baby, have a nice day.

    • you too.

  • Very Very Special and Very Very Very Rare nowadays. I stand and applaud you.

    • As long as she's happy and content in the relationship. Wouldn't be so special if it turns out to abusive relationship or something.

    • @UrAverageGuy I do not know where you got the abusive part, but that has nothing to do with her question. Plus that is between her and her husband and the Lord. I am sure she knows how to dial 911. Plus that is not something to wish on anyone. Sounds personal to me.

    • I used it as a placeholder. You can replace it with anything that's may be a sign that a relationship needs serious work.

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  • Yes you’re super special. So special that if you were 15 again you’d go to a special school. You’re a special kind of girl, Tracy.

  • It's special. I hope to be the same way.

  • I would never think you are weird. I am sure for whatever reason it suits you to have had only one.
    I knew a couple who got married right after high school, each their first. And 30 years later, I think they were wondering what it would be like to be with someone else.
    So in a sense, you are special too.

  • Same bout but I’m 44 and it’s been 26 years together.

  • It’s special and a lot of couples are like that. Do you or him have thoughts about sleeping with someone else?

    • I do. He doesn't.

    • Do you have someone in mind that you want to sleep with?

    • Nope

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  • Very special keep it that way as long as you both are happy and content with each other is all that matters

  • Special.
    I'd say your situation is usually more healthy than someone that is 35 and has been with 10-20 different people.

  • I don't think that's weird at all. I think that's special if anything. It's special because you waited for the "one". I'm 19 years old, and when I was 16 I had decided then out of the blue that I'm going to wait till I'm married to lose my virginity. Because then I'll know for sure that it is with someone who cares and loves me equally as much I do towards them and all my other personal reasons. No need to feel weird about it :) only happy thoughts.

  • I'm 39 and the only guy I had sex with was my husband (married 14 years now)
    It's a good thing

  • Honestly what matters is how you feel about it what other people think about it doesn't really fucking matter

  • Greatly honorable.

  • literally neither

  • Trust me, there's nothing exciting you're gonna find by increasing body count. Unless you're husband has some kind of sexual inability that hinders his performance.
    But the point of sex is to feel intimate with another person. I think that's lost when your body count is a lot within a short span of time

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