Im only attracted to White girls but im Black. This is normal?

[undine_m0nty]

im an 18 year old black boy and for some reason i have a preference for white girls, especially white girls with a nice ass. not really fussed about tits.
all my girlfriends have been white, and I've never even tried to talk to a black girl
is this normal or should i be giving girls of my own race some love

[Vewrie]

It is normal. There are white guys who are only in to north east-Asians or southeast-Asians, or only in to black girls. White girls who are only in to black guys etc 🙂
I have a thing for red haired guys with blue eyes and white guys with blue eyes and dark hair. Like Cillian Murphy. On the other hand I think there are beautiful people of all races and I could have fell in love with a person regardless of looks and still find a large diversity beautiful, I just have something that I am extra attracted to.

[Hangry22]

It depends on the reason why you have that preference. If it's because you think white skin is beautiful and represents good and because black skin is ugly and not good, that's technically hating your own race

[TerminallyChill]

No. You're brainwashed by the beauty standard of the White European Culturally Hegemonic Social Order. Use your common sense, you're a non-white person who is only attracted to white people. It's self hate, you are socially conditioned. Don't take offense to any of this, I just want you to unplug from the matrix bro.

[Vewrie]

How the f do you know if this is his real preference or not? You are extremely condescending to tell him that what he says, about HIMSELF, you know better than him. You know, even though racism exist, people are ALSO individuals and everyone are still human beings.

[TerminallyChill]

@Vewrie let me guess you're white?

[Anonymous]

Everybody knows black dudes are thirsty for attention and acceptance from white people.


Why you think kanye makes that joke. White girls who date black dudes are usually ugly or left overs or the dude is really high value.

[TerminallyChill]

Exactly. It makes me sick to my stomach. But you need to be specific and don't just say "black guys". Say "some" because I have enough self-respect, dignity and integrity to never touch white whores

[AustinMan]

We all have our preferences.

[CrazyGirl2]

I’m guessing that it’s “normal” fro you, why does it matter if it’s normal for anyone else? You just keep being you, sweetie. Let others worry what is “normal” for them. 😘💋

[Legacy95]

Just a preference but I do remember back years ago I heard my grandfather say when he saw a black guy with a white girl there goes a jig with a pig

[TerminallyChill]

That's hilarious

[Cherokeehp]

That’s not normal.

[Avicenna]

I don’t think it’s normal or healthy when someone doesn’t even try to date members of their race. But that’s something you have to decide for yourself.

[Vewrie]

Sounds like we have some apartheid system. “Your own race”. Races in humans does not even exist. We were all black once, white skin has developed through geography.

[Avicenna]

@Vewrie: And we were all bacteria once as well. Since there was and is a lot of genetic diversity in Africa, Perhaps you’d like to tell us when we „ were all black“? Even if you believe that race is merely a social construct, you can’t pretend it doesn’t exist within the context of dating. Where you get Apartheid out of that is beyond me.

[Avicenna]

And actually white skin was a genetic mutation, IIRC.

[Vewrie]

I have family in South Africa. It used to be illegal to date another race than your own there. When they had apartheid. The fact that you don’t know what apartheid means but still has to dismiss a discussion on it is beyond me. Comparing humans to bacteria sounds like something a nazi would do. And they were also against different races mixing. Okay, you know nothing about human history so start educating yourself. The first people in Britain for example had dark skin and blue eyes. Since we were all black once (except for Neanderthals that mixed with people in Europe) I don’t know what you mean. This was before we even developed what we now call different ethnic groups.

[Avicenna]

@Vewrie: Congratulations, that’s one of the most ignorant posts I’ve ever seen on this site. You’ve told a 48 year old guy he has no idea what apartheid was. Unlike you, I was already an adult when it ended and it was of course widely reported internationally at the time, as well as what the system was. But, interestingly, South Africa has a significant number if mixed-race people they call „Coloureds“. The reason I dismissed your suggestion of apartheid only because it not only had nothing to do with what I posted, it was a huge misrepresentation of what I said. I obviously did not say people shouldn’t date outside of their race, I obviously said it wasn’t good when people completely exclude their own race in dating. And that’s not all. You implied that a Jewish descendant of Holocaust survivors is a Nazi because I referenced the fact all life is believed to have evolved from bacteria. Good job- I hope you’re proud of yourself...,

[Avicenna]

@Vewrie: this is the article I remember reading:

taggs.hhs.gov/.../AwardDetail

[Vewrie]

Read that comment loud in front of a mirror because I can only say “likewise”. I have family that were affected by apartheid. Why are you suddenly bringing up that you are Jewish? That has nothing to do with what I wrote and you can’t seriously expect me to be psychic and “see” what ethnicity and religion random usernames on this forum have? Or are you serious about that? Then take your bad argumentation and insults and look at yourself. I can argue with people who use argumentation, but not those who are over emotional and just restore to insults and power techniques like you being older than me and that I should be psychic.

[Avicenna]

Sorry, that’s not it

[Avicenna]

@Vewrie; Well, reasonable people would agree that falsely invoking Apartheid and Nazism is obviously emotional and ad hominem, so don't try to change the subject just because you got called out for posting nonsense. And it was you who bizarrely accused me of not knowing about something that occurred during my lifetime that would have been reported on quite a bit. Again, don't complain about your unforced errors. Just because your family was affected by Apartheid doesn't mean it's everywhere (and talk about being emotional and "bad argumentation" on your part).

But, hey, a guy who has dated interracially numerous times in his life must really be for "apartheid" in dating, right?

Have you dated someone with 3 different ethnic origin? ↗

The appropriate response from you would be to apologize rather than projecting your own fallacies onto the person you insulted.

[Avicenna]

Here's that article:

www.sciencemag.org/.../new-gene-variants-reveal-evolution-human-skin-color

[TerminallyChill]

@avicenna Oy vey

[Avicenna]

@TerminallyChill: Yup...

[TerminallyChill]

It never ceases to amaze me how the holocaust is like a magic trump card that can be used for any situation or excuse.

[Avicenna]

@TerminallyChill: Well, if someone is dumb enough to call a Jew a Nazi for pointing out that bacteria is the original lifeform on Earth, they deserved to be called out for it. But I'm sure she'll be impressed by your comments...

[TerminallyChill]

Oy vey

[Avicenna]

@TerminallyChill: Maybe she shouldn't go around calling people Nazis and instead find appropriate ways of dealing with any guilt she may feel.

[TerminallyChill]

Ok my wealthy and larged nose friend. You have a good one

[Avicenna]

Et tu, @TerminallyChill?

www.tabletmag.com/.../the-myth-of-the-jewish-nose

[TerminallyChill]

How come you didn't debunk the wealthy stereotype?

[Avicenna]

@TerminallyChill: I'll leave you to figure that out on your own

[TerminallyChill]

Lol exactly.

[Avicenna]

@TerminallyChill: Let's remember how historically that has been a NEGATIVE stereotype (and still is for many Westerners). Anyway, it's amazing how people can still slander Jews with impunity.

[TerminallyChill]

Welcome to the club

[cookielove555]

It’s ok to have a preference to what your perfect type looks like. If you like white girls , stick to it

[Iron_Man]

Do you like black girls

[undine_m0nty]

yeah, but I like white girls better. this is my type.

[DWornock]

Your preferences are not the majority. However, it is common enough so it is normal.

[Hmmmbetternothere]

Well, I am white guy who likes all races. No your straight still.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Its normal for coons and white washed, low self esteem no pride having men like you.

[TerminallyChill]

God bless you. You're not brainwashed. It's a rare sight to see

[pizzalovershouse]

Lots of people have different tastes its ok

[Twalli]

If that's your preference, there's no problem

[Agem123]

I'm a white girl and have mostly been with black guys.

It's normal. That's your preference

[TerminallyChill]

Sounds like you have a fetish. That's not normal.

[Jmmmfi4]

So gross

[Anonymous]

I’m a black girl and if that’s you’re dating preference, there’s no right or wrong really, it’s just your choice. If you ever decide u want to try dating a black girl or a Asian girl or whatever then try it. You may love it or u may hate it. But don’t feel bad about your dating preference.

[TerminallyChill]

Brainwashed

[Opinion Owner]

@TerminallyChill I’m brainwashed because I don’t care who a stranger dates? My focus is on my own love life and the guys that DO show me interest.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not gonna be hurting for a date because one black guy say he’s into white girls. Black guys show me love all the time. I could go into details but I’ll just leave it there.

[TerminallyChill]

Ok. I thought you were a bed wench. Sorry

[Anonymous]

I do feel like there is always something wrong with people who are entirely not attracted to their own race. If you are biracial, I could see that maybe you grew up among one of your races so you are more comfortable with the other one. Maybe you have self-hatred.

[Vewrie]

“Self hatred”? How about they are not narcissistic and not attracted to someone who looks their mirror image? 😜

[Opinion Owner]

@Vewrie it is indeed a self-hatred especially among black people.

[TerminallyChill]

Exactly It's social conditioning, you grow up seeing the beauty standard of white women everywhere, TV, magazines, models, internet, movies etc. Your teachers are white, your mayor is white, your boss is white, even your local librarian is white... Most people are just too unintelligent and unawares to break their programming, let alone even notice they are programmed. There's way too many black people wilfully plugged into the matrix.

[TerminallyChill]

@Vewrie Trying to couch this phenomenon of white worship as narcissism is the most entitled and white female privilege thing I've seen all year. That's yikesville

[Vewrie]

@TerminallyChill No, YOU’RE the narcissist here. You tell a black man who just said, himself, what his preferences are, that YOU, know what him and ALL other black peoples feel and think like, better than them. Ffs, if you are white, that is disgusting of you. Talk about being entangled in your white privilege. Fu.

[TerminallyChill]

@Vewrie I'm black, relax. Do you think a white person would actually be honest and real enough to make the critiques I am? You're tripping

[Anonymous]

I mixed race (black/white) and I’ve mainly gone for white guys and haven’t tried to get with someone of my own race either. It’s just preference.

[TerminallyChill]

What is your "own race"? You don't mean black right? Because mixed people are not black

[Opinion Owner]

@TerminallyChill Um I mean other people that are mixed like I am

[Anonymous]

I'm white and like Asian women. However race isn't important to me. Regardless of any color, as long as I get along with her and her with me that's all that matters.

[Anonymous]

It's kind of a slap in the face to black girls, but whatever. I just wish the media would start promoting black girls with white guys, but the media forbids that.

[Vewrie]

Stooooop. Seriously, I feel like I am born into the wrong generation, I cannot stand other Z’s logic. You decide that everyone must date trans people and now also that we should have a global apartheid system so that black people can only date black people. Treat this guy as an individual and not only a member of a collective stereotype.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vewrie Wow, I never said any of that at all, but what an imagination you have. Thanks for adding a bunch of nonsense to my opinion.

[TerminallyChill]

Why should the media promote BW/WW? Both WW/BM and BW/WM couples are unproductive

[Opinion Owner]

@TerminallyChill Then don't promote any.

[TerminallyChill]

And they don't need to, they should stop the BM/WW as well. That does nothing positive for the black community. It's basically a disinformation tactic.

[Opinion Owner]

@TerminallyChill They shouldn't push any of this stuff. I'm just saying that if you're gonna promote one side, then promote the other, or don't promote either.

[Anonymous]

Ya lololol it is